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you know your mother loves you. my father never said it once to me. but i know... And yessss, you SHOULD be weary of men. they aint no good. unless you might find someone like me...lol | |
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DanceWme said: My grandma and my mom are very affectionate people so I was raised that way.
I love to hug. I'd probably hug anybody ...there's one for ya. by the way, i just bought "Black On Both Sides" by Mos Def. i give it | |
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I was not raised by demonstrative people, and I have to know someone pretty well before I get huggy.
Which is probably how I ended up in theatre - with the huggiest people on earth. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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CarrieMpls said: Cinnie said: I don't hug strangers but I definitely hug "brand new friends".
My niece came to visit me with a few of her friends a month or so ago. She's 19. After spending a few hours together shopping and such, one of the teenage boyfriends came up to me and gave me a big hug. They had all been fairly huggy all afternoon. It was cute. Perfect example! You would think the way some people reel back from a hug you were reaching for their crotch. If I am feeling brave enough to welcome a hug, my arms are wayyyy up to cue that I'm going for over-the-shoulders. | |
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All those hug gifs on the org were genuine. | |
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MrsMdiver said: DanceWme said: My grandma and my mom are very affectionate people so I was raised that way.
I love to hug. I'd probably hug anybody I was not raised around affectionate people (parents fought a lot) except my great grandmother. When she would watch me, my mom would say "don't pick her up and hold her, I do not want her to get spoiled". The first thing my greatgmom would do when my mother left was pick me up and cuddle me. When I was an adult my Mom-Mom used to tell me what my mother said to her, it still made her mad. My mom has a private invisible space around her that she lets very few into. I have found that I have the same around me. I am not the touchy feely type towards ppl that I do not know. Now that I have a baby, I am trying to give him the cuddles and affection that I did not get from my parents. I want him to be cuddly, so far, it is not working. He won't sleep in our bed with us nor will he let me rock him to sleep. He has been in his own bed, in his bedroom since he was 5 weeks. I have been told that he gets his independence from me. He's grown He'll grow out of it. Then he'll shower u with hugs and kisses. Now I want one. Not a hug, a baby | |
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RipTheJacker said: DanceWme said: My grandma and my mom are very affectionate people so I was raised that way.
I love to hug. I'd probably hug anybody ...there's one for ya. by the way, i just bought "Black On Both Sides" by Mos Def. i give it awwww thank u Black on both sides is one of my favorites | |
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nyse said: ^^^
you know your mother loves you. my father never said it once to me. but i know... And yessss, you SHOULD be weary of men. they aint no good. unless you might find someone like me...lol Yes, she does say it once an awhile, but most of the time I say it first. The parents should be saying it often. Yes you are cool. unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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insatiable3 said: 1) were you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person?
2) Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect. 3) Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it? 4) does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug? 1) Yes, very much so. I come from a very loving family. 2) I love hugs with my family members, but I am not "touchy-feely" and I never kiss. 3) I can take it or leave it. I don't become sad if I don't get a hug even if I want one. 4) Yes, it does. I move away kindly if a stranger tries to give me a hug. I do not even like shaking strangers' hands unless I'm wearing gloves. "You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
"Water can nourish me, but water can also carry me. Water has magic laws." - JCVD | |
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Yeah, I love it when a touchy chick gives a hug, and then she, slowly but steadily, grabs my ass as well and hey, that's okay by me...as long as she lets me grab her ass too!...
Yeah, I love crazy & touchy chicks ... | |
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You know... even if a stranger wants to give ME a hug, I don't think I've refused one, even if it is an awkward one or Christian side hug.
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JoeTyler said: Yeah, I love it when a touchy chick gives a hug, and then she, slowly but steadily, grabs my ass as well and hey, that's okay by me...as long as she lets me grab her ass too!...
Yeah, I love crazy & touchy chicks ... "chick" "she" "my ass" "her ass" lawd... this is about HUGGING | |
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I'm a lovey dovey hugger. | |
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where you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person?
Yes, by my mother. My father was stone cold when I was growing up. He's better now. Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect. No, only with my son. Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it? Leave it, again unless it's with my kid. does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug? Yes, only like it if it's cuddle from my son or from a hot dude I'm about to mash gennies with. | |
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JoeTyler said: Yeah, I love it when a touchy chick gives a hug, and then she, slowly but steadily, grabs my ass as well and hey, that's okay by me...as long as she lets me grab her ass too!...
Yeah, I love crazy & touchy chicks ... insatiable3: how can i cure my hangover?
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I can't even see myself hugging someone if I'm "about to mash gennies"
They are totally just friendly to me. JoeTyler's got his head in the fucking gutter. No wonder people are weary of hugs. | |
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Cinnie said: I can't even see myself hugging someone if I'm "about to mash gennies"
They are totally just friendly to me. JoeTyler's got his head in the fucking gutter. No wonder people are weary of hugs. Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"? | |
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JoeTyler said: Cinnie said: I can't even see myself hugging someone if I'm "about to mash gennies"
They are totally just friendly to me. JoeTyler's got his head in the fucking gutter. No wonder people are weary of hugs. Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"? Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" | |
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Cinnie said: JoeTyler said: Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"? Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" that would be just | |
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Cinnie said: JoeTyler said: Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"? Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" omg u guys lol insatiable3: how can i cure my hangover?
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JoeTyler said: Cinnie said: Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" that would be just we get it Ladies Love Cool J you probably give shitty bro-hugs | |
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DanceWme said: MrsMdiver said: I was not raised around affectionate people (parents fought a lot) except my great grandmother. When she would watch me, my mom would say "don't pick her up and hold her, I do not want her to get spoiled". The first thing my greatgmom would do when my mother left was pick me up and cuddle me. When I was an adult my Mom-Mom used to tell me what my mother said to her, it still made her mad. My mom has a private invisible space around her that she lets very few into. I have found that I have the same around me. I am not the touchy feely type towards ppl that I do not know. Now that I have a baby, I am trying to give him the cuddles and affection that I did not get from my parents. I want him to be cuddly, so far, it is not working. He won't sleep in our bed with us nor will he let me rock him to sleep. He has been in his own bed, in his bedroom since he was 5 weeks. I have been told that he gets his independence from me. He's grown He'll grow out of it. Then he'll shower u with hugs and kisses. Now I want one. Not a hug, a baby damn... I thought you wanted a hug. If you come to visit, you can get your fill of baby. | |
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Cinnie said: JoeTyler said: that would be just we get it Ladies Love Cool J you probably give shitty bro-hugs | |
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I'm not a touchy-feely sensative "lovie" person.
If I love you, I shouldn't have to tell you 932479234 times a day. If I truly love you, you should know. As for hugs, if I know you, I don't mind. If I don't know you, and spoke with you for 10 minutes, don't touch me. I do nothing professionally. I only do things for fun. johnart: Acrylic's old bras is where tits of all sizes go to frolic after they die. Tit Heaven. | |
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Acrylic said: If I love you, I shouldn't have to tell you 932479234 times a day.
Once should be enough. Actions speak louder than words, anyway. | |
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uPtoWnNY said: Acrylic said: If I love you, I shouldn't have to tell you 932479234 times a day.
Once should be enough. Actions speak louder than words, anyway. I do nothing professionally. I only do things for fun. johnart: Acrylic's old bras is where tits of all sizes go to frolic after they die. Tit Heaven. | |
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I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.
I sure could use some huggin' today | |
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pippet said: I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.
I sure could use some huggin' today I do nothing professionally. I only do things for fun. johnart: Acrylic's old bras is where tits of all sizes go to frolic after they die. Tit Heaven. | |
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pippet said: I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.
I sure could use some huggin' today here is a couple insatiable3: how can i cure my hangover?
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insatiable3 said: pippet said: I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.
I sure could use some huggin' today here is a couple Thankies....much appreciated... 'n ya back | |
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