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Reply #30 posted 04/09/10 10:46am

nyse

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^^^
you know your mother loves you. my father never said it once to me.
but i know... And yessss, you SHOULD be weary of men. they aint no good.
unless you might find someone like me...lol
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Reply #31 posted 04/09/10 10:49am

RipTheJacker

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My grandma and my mom are very affectionate people so I was raised that way.
I love to hug. I'd probably hug anybody lol



hug...there's one for ya. biggrin

by the way, i just bought "Black On Both Sides" by Mos Def.

i give it star star star star star
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Reply #32 posted 04/09/10 10:50am

Genesia

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I was not raised by demonstrative people, and I have to know someone pretty well before I get huggy.

Which is probably how I ended up in theatre - with the huggiest people on earth. neutral

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Reply #33 posted 04/09/10 10:52am

Cinnie

CarrieMpls said:

Cinnie said:

I don't hug strangers but I definitely hug "brand new friends". wink


My niece came to visit me with a few of her friends a month or so ago. She's 19. After spending a few hours together shopping and such, one of the teenage boyfriends came up to me and gave me a big hug. lol They had all been fairly huggy all afternoon. It was cute.


Perfect example!

You would think the way some people reel back from a hug you were reaching for their crotch. disbelief If I am feeling brave enough to welcome a hug, my arms are wayyyy up to cue that I'm going for over-the-shoulders.
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Reply #34 posted 04/09/10 10:53am

Cinnie

All those hug hug gifs on the org were genuine. neutral
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Reply #35 posted 04/09/10 10:57am

DanceWme

MrsMdiver said:

DanceWme said:

My grandma and my mom are very affectionate people so I was raised that way.
I love to hug. I'd probably hug anybody lol



woot!

I was not raised around affectionate people (parents fought a lot) except my great grandmother. When she would watch me, my mom would say "don't pick her up and hold her, I do not want her to get spoiled".
The first thing my greatgmom would do when my mother left was pick me up and cuddle me. When I was an adult my Mom-Mom used to tell me what my mother said to her, it still made her mad.
My mom has a private invisible space around her that she lets very few into. I have found that I have the same around me.
I am not the touchy feely type towards ppl that I do not know.
Now that I have a baby, I am trying to give him the cuddles and affection that I did not get from my parents.
I want him to be cuddly, so far, it is not working.
He won't sleep in our bed with us nor will he let me rock him to sleep. He has been in his own bed, in his bedroom since he was 5 weeks.
I have been told that he gets his independence from me.
boxed



He's grown lol
He'll grow out of it. Then he'll shower u with hugs and kisses.

Now I want one. Not a hug, a baby confused
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Reply #36 posted 04/09/10 10:58am

DanceWme

RipTheJacker said:

DanceWme said:

My grandma and my mom are very affectionate people so I was raised that way.
I love to hug. I'd probably hug anybody lol



hug...there's one for ya. biggrin

by the way, i just bought "Black On Both Sides" by Mos Def.

i give it star star star star star

awwww thank u hug


Black on both sides is one of my favorites nod
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Reply #37 posted 04/09/10 10:59am

peacenlovealwa
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nyse said:

^^^
you know your mother loves you. my father never said it once to me.
but i know... And yessss, you SHOULD be weary of men. they aint no good.
unless you might find someone like me...lol

Yes, she does say it once an awhile, but most of the time I say it first. The parents should be saying it often. mad lol Yes you are cool. wink
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Reply #38 posted 04/09/10 11:20am

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insatiable3 said:

1) were you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person?

2) Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect.

3) Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it?

4) does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug?


1) Yes, very much so. I come from a very loving family.
2) I love hugs with my family members, but I am not "touchy-feely" and I never kiss.
3) I can take it or leave it. I don't become sad if I don't get a hug even if I want one.
4) Yes, it does. I move away kindly if a stranger tries to give me a hug. I do not even like shaking strangers' hands unless I'm wearing gloves. lol
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Reply #39 posted 04/09/10 11:37am

JoeTyler

Yeah, I love it when a touchy chick gives a hug, and then she, slowly but steadily, grabs my ass as well and hey, that's okay by me...as long as she lets me grab her ass too!...

Yeah, I love crazy & touchy chicks ... 3way
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Reply #40 posted 04/09/10 11:37am

Cinnie

You know... even if a stranger wants to give ME a hug, I don't think I've refused one, even if it is an awkward one or Christian side hug.

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Reply #41 posted 04/09/10 11:38am

Cinnie

JoeTyler said:

Yeah, I love it when a touchy chick gives a hug, and then she, slowly but steadily, grabs my ass as well and hey, that's okay by me...as long as she lets me grab her ass too!...

Yeah, I love crazy & touchy chicks ... 3way


"chick" "she" "my ass" "her ass"

lawd... this is about HUGGING hug
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Reply #42 posted 04/09/10 11:41am

PunkMistress

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I'm a lovey dovey hugger. nod
It's what you make it.
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Reply #43 posted 04/09/10 11:41am

JustErin

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where you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person?

Yes, by my mother. My father was stone cold when I was growing up. He's better now.

Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect.

No, only with my son.

Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it?

Leave it, again unless it's with my kid.

does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug?

Yes, only like it if it's cuddle from my son or from a hot dude I'm about to mash gennies with.
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Reply #44 posted 04/09/10 11:42am

insatiable3

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JoeTyler said:

Yeah, I love it when a touchy chick gives a hug, and then she, slowly but steadily, grabs my ass as well and hey, that's okay by me...as long as she lets me grab her ass too!...

Yeah, I love crazy & touchy chicks ... 3way


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Reply #45 posted 04/09/10 11:44am

Cinnie

I can't even see myself hugging someone if I'm "about to mash gennies"

They are totally just friendly to me. shrug

JoeTyler's got his head in the fucking gutter.

No wonder people are weary of hugs.
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Reply #46 posted 04/09/10 11:46am

JoeTyler

Cinnie said:

I can't even see myself hugging someone if I'm "about to mash gennies"

They are totally just friendly to me. shrug

JoeTyler's got his head in the fucking gutter.

No wonder people are weary of hugs.


Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"?
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Reply #47 posted 04/09/10 11:49am

Cinnie

JoeTyler said:

Cinnie said:

I can't even see myself hugging someone if I'm "about to mash gennies"

They are totally just friendly to me. shrug

JoeTyler's got his head in the fucking gutter.

No wonder people are weary of hugs.


Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"?


Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" shrug
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Reply #48 posted 04/09/10 11:51am

JoeTyler

Cinnie said:

JoeTyler said:



Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"?


Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" shrug



that would be just bored
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Reply #49 posted 04/09/10 11:52am

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Cinnie said:

JoeTyler said:



Hey! I'm the victim here, yes? What can I do if, in my case, touchy girls are not satisfied with "hugs only"?


Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" shrug


omg u guys lol falloff
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Reply #50 posted 04/09/10 12:10pm

Cinnie

JoeTyler said:

Cinnie said:



Slap their hands away and say "Tryna git fresh with me, bitch?" shrug



that would be just bored


we get it Ladies Love Cool J rolleyes

you probably give shitty bro-hugs neutral
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Reply #51 posted 04/09/10 12:10pm

MrsMdiver

DanceWme said:

MrsMdiver said:




woot!

I was not raised around affectionate people (parents fought a lot) except my great grandmother. When she would watch me, my mom would say "don't pick her up and hold her, I do not want her to get spoiled".
The first thing my greatgmom would do when my mother left was pick me up and cuddle me. When I was an adult my Mom-Mom used to tell me what my mother said to her, it still made her mad.
My mom has a private invisible space around her that she lets very few into. I have found that I have the same around me.
I am not the touchy feely type towards ppl that I do not know.
Now that I have a baby, I am trying to give him the cuddles and affection that I did not get from my parents.
I want him to be cuddly, so far, it is not working.
He won't sleep in our bed with us nor will he let me rock him to sleep. He has been in his own bed, in his bedroom since he was 5 weeks.
I have been told that he gets his independence from me.
boxed



He's grown lol
He'll grow out of it. Then he'll shower u with hugs and kisses.

Now I want one. Not a hug, a baby confused



damn... I thought you wanted a hug.
pout

If you come to visit, you can get your fill of baby.
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Reply #52 posted 04/09/10 12:13pm

JoeTyler

Cinnie said:

JoeTyler said:




that would be just bored


we get it Ladies Love Cool J rolleyes

you probably give shitty bro-hugs neutral



blahblah blahblah
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Reply #53 posted 04/09/10 12:15pm

Acrylic

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I'm not a touchy-feely sensative "lovie" person.
If I love you, I shouldn't have to tell you 932479234 times a day.
If I truly love you, you should know.
As for hugs, if I know you, I don't mind. If I don't know you, and spoke with you for 10 minutes, don't touch me. bored2
batting eyes ACRYLIC batting eyes
I do nothing professionally.
I only do things for fun.

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Reply #54 posted 04/09/10 12:17pm

uPtoWnNY

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If I love you, I shouldn't have to tell you 932479234 times a day.


Once should be enough. Actions speak louder than words, anyway.
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Reply #55 posted 04/09/10 12:19pm

Acrylic

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uPtoWnNY said:

Acrylic said:

If I love you, I shouldn't have to tell you 932479234 times a day.


Once should be enough. Actions speak louder than words, anyway.


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I do nothing professionally.
I only do things for fun.

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Reply #56 posted 04/09/10 12:22pm

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I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.

I sure could use some huggin' today confused

hug rose
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Reply #57 posted 04/09/10 12:24pm

Acrylic

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pippet said:

I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.

I sure could use some huggin' today confused

hug rose


hug
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I do nothing professionally.
I only do things for fun.

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Reply #58 posted 04/09/10 12:24pm

insatiable3

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pippet said:

I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.

I sure could use some huggin' today confused

hug rose


here is a couple hug hug
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Reply #59 posted 04/09/10 12:31pm

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insatiable3 said:

pippet said:

I am a huggie person...and if I know ya well enough....well, maybe a smooch of affection.

I sure could use some huggin' today confused

hug rose


here is a couple hug hug


Thankies....much appreciated...hug 'n ya back
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