I've been wondering about it, since this place is full of hardcore Prince fans/stans/fams, do U actually sometimes (or evertytime) go for an androgynous look? I do sometimes, especially when going out. High heel boots, some jewels, eye liner and tight clothes (from the women section of course )... And though everybody found it kinda weird at first, they love it (or at least they're used to it now )... Though I still get a "Fucking tranny" or "faggot" every now and then, I'm cool with it...
What about U?

of course some of them do.



It's only a natural part of the coming out process... a "I'm not gay--just experimenting with style" phase that eventually leads to full blown buttsex in a few years of course.

But there are many 'transitionally ghey' here, so you're in very good company.

Where's gimmesomehornz lately?

Yall know he's gonna get plowed in the next 5 years or so. He's been quiet lately though. I miss him.

Nah.

I will do "put together" even to the occasional point of Dandyism. But my look is squarely male wherever I go.

TheVoid said:

TheVoid said:

So you're one of those people associating 'feminity'with 'gay' and 'masculinne' with 'straight', right?
Let's hope Prince never comes out... He'll make 'us' look even worse

FrenchGuy said:

There are no feminine straight men.





But that's not a bad thing. Like I said, it's a long, hard, journey for everyone, but one that leads to buttsex.

What we do and how we express ourselves along the way only brings to light our own individuality.

TheVoid said:

.. Gotta have some lube in my bag then... Looks like it may happen soon

androgynous men are hot though...I don't want to be with a guy that's prettier than me, but I like soft sweet guys.

peacenlovealways said:

Some of the men here in Thailand are androgynous to a point.


But there's no mistaking their 'masculinity' when you actually pay attention to them.


Their faces, noses, lips---all of it a bit feminine, but their swagger and self-confidence is all masculine...even a tiny bit cocky.


Lawd, I love Thai men. I mean, I almost exclusively gravitate to Thai folks now. Not that I don't love the other folks, but there' something irresistible about their pseudo-androgyny.

peacenlovealways said:

If that's you in your profile, you're pretty.

TheVoid said:

....hum, so U get turned-on by "androgynous" guyz too?...
I spose you're gay? So how would U know whether or not a straight man can be feminine?

FrenchGuy said:

I don't actually like androgynous men, when it's a 'look' or feature they're going for.

When I say that Thai men are androgynous, it's not a 'look' they're going for. It's simply the way they're built--all other things about them...they're gate, their expressions, their smiles...all of that is masculine.

It's sort of like looking at a woman who has a natural tan and then seeing the woman beside her baked orange by a fake tan trying to achieve the same look. One is attractive to me, and the other a bit... unnerving.

TheVoid said:

Frustrating uh?

I'm built that way too. I'm some slim muthafuker (tried too work out, but all I gained was backaches )... And a lotta people say I'm built like a girl ( embarassing especially when your own girlfriend thinks the same)...
So instead of playing the butch/tough guy that I'm not,obviously, I went for the androgynous look... But besides the look and the way I'm built, I'm not effeminate or "girly"

I think "rock"ing the look may a bit of an overstatement...

Lammastide said:

co-sign

TheVoid said:

Yeah, thats me...thanx buddy...

FrenchGuy said:

You look a little like Thierry Henry - but younger and better-looking!

thejason said:

Would "gently tickling" the look be a more appropriate way of putting it?

I used to play it up to provoke, but I'm far too old for that shite now. I used to think I was being a bit subversive and fantastical, but folk just saw me as a big bender.

I play with it sometimes.

FrenchGuy said:

thanks

TheVoid said:

Are you sure...I met a married guy with a little girl (at my old job). Everyone thought he was gay. Even my old gay boss thought he was...He said it's because he was raised around a lot of women. I think there are some feminine straight guys....not really sure though.

to do the whole androgynous look as a straight male .
you have to be prepared of people assuming that your gay.
and be comfortable wth you sexuality

TheVoid said:

You are absolutly incorrect. I would be the first to say that i am very feminine. But let me tell you something... I love pussy. and only pussy.

nyse said:

^^
If U get sensitive whenever someone calls you "faggot/sissy/bitch-ass dude/", this shit is definitly not for you... And actually it helps iproving self-confidence, from what I've experienced...

Nope.

I mean, not me
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i do somewhat. i'm not macho, but i'm not effeminate either. just kind of middle ground, though i do wear some very earthy lesbian looks. my hair is shoulder length and i wear rags over the top like rhoda sometimes, and when it's really hot i banana clip my hair up in a twist.

i also occasionally wear a thin and clear mascara if i am going out, but few people ever even notice it's so subtle. just gives my eyes a little more definition, as i have very long eyelashes.

but i always have facial hair and a DEEP voice unless i am concentrating on it, so there is a masculine side as well.

FrenchGuy said:

dan's a recent convert. he's still learning.


[Edited 4/9/10 13:26pm]