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Printablepaintedlady said: whistle said: probably not. i'd still be afraid. there isn't anything remotely 'street' about me, and i think i would just get laughed at as a dorky white guy if i tried to talk to a black woman. i know that not every black woman likes the same kind of man, but the fear is still there...and fear or hesitation never works well when chatting up girls, no matter their colour.   Hey, some of us like "dorky" ....there's lots of corny black guys too, just read the posts here. 
but after dating men of different cultures, the culture I grew up with is the one I fasten to. Its hard trying to get someone to understand you culturally, so I have gotten to lazy to want to date out of my culture now. I think I shouldn't give up,maybe I should keep an open mind too. I understand your fears and thoughts from my own experience. 
[Edited 3/25/10 18:39pm] It's hard if there is a huge cultural difference. My bf comes from a very different cultural background than I do and it isn't easy for both of us. He has been in a relationship before with somebody from a similar background as me, so that makes it a little easier I guess. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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HamsterHuey said: vivid said: Watching birth is one of my very favourite things.
You are in the wrong business. Then you made up for those five years. vivid said: I once set fire to myself in church.
This was unintentional, I hope. That is true in many ways. Not really. It wasn't that long ago. It was. I thought it was God's wrath at the time as I was perving over another altar boy. | |
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whistle said: 1. i have never touched a gun in my life.
2. i have fancied many beautiful black women in my time but i never had the courage to approach any of them. it's a regret of mine. 3. i can't deal with the sight of blood. I touched one the first time some weeks ago. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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vivid said: I once set fire to myself in church.
 Although I did laugh uncontrolably at this comment, I do hope you weren't badly hurt. | |
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florescent said: vivid said: I once set fire to myself in church.
Although I did laugh uncontrolably at this comment, I do hope you weren't badly hurt. No, I wasn't even burnt. My shirt sleeve went up in flames and luckily my older brother tore my shirt off me.
I was half-naked in church! No wonder the catholic priests have such trouble keeping their hands off. | |
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vivid said: florescent said: Although I did laugh uncontrolably at this comment, I do hope you weren't badly hurt. No, I wasn't even burnt. My shirt sleeve went up in flames and luckily my older brother tore my shirt off me.
I was half-naked in church! No wonder the catholic priests have such trouble keeping their hands off. | |
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Serious said: vivid said: Watching birth is one of my very favourite things.
I was celibate for 5 years. I once set fire to myself in church. I am celibate now. Long distance relationships suck  .You could try cybersex on your computer. Careful though, I tried it once years ago and damaged my 3.5" floppy. blah blah blah |
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erik319 said: Serious said: I am celibate now. Long distance relationships suck .You could try cybersex on your computer. Careful though, I tried it once years ago and damaged my 3.5" floppy. He doesn't have a computer  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: erik319 said: You could try cybersex on your computer. Careful though, I tried it once years ago and damaged my 3.5" floppy. He doesn't have a computer .Grizzly Adams! >> |
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erik319 said: Serious said: I am celibate now. Long distance relationships suck .You could try cybersex on your computer. Careful though, I tried it once years ago and damaged my 3.5" floppy. seems that i was busy doing something close to nothing, but different than the day before   | |
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HamsterHuey said: Serious said: He doesn't have a computer .Grizzly Adams! GRISTLE Adams | |
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Clearly I have been here too long (I am sure a few ppl that dislike me would agree). I have met and spoken to so many orgers to think of anything that I can tell you that you don't already know about me.
Let me think of some silly stuff..... I used to pretend I was in bands with my friends starting when I was 6 yrs old. We had to use fake instruments, my tennis racket was my guitar. Most of the time we were the Bay City Rollers. 
One year for Halloween I dressed up as an Amish boy. I had a beard and all.(I have photo evidence.)
My best friend when I was 6-12 yrs old was named Dorcas. Poor girl. | |
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HamsterHuey said: Serious said: He doesn't have a computer .Grizzly Adams! Well he lives in the forest half an hour away from the next neighbour, so you are not so wrong .[Edited 3/26/10 3:04am] With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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ZombieKitten said: HamsterHuey said: Grizzly Adams! GRISTLE Adams With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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MrsMdiver said: Clearly I have been here too long (I am sure a few ppl that dislike me would agree). I have met and spoken to so many orgers to think of anything that I can tell you that you don't already know about me.
Let me think of some silly stuff..... I used to pretend I was in bands with my friends starting when I was 6 yrs old. We had to use fake instruments, my tennis racket was my guitar. Most of the time we were the Bay City Rollers.
One year for Halloween I dressed up as an Amish boy. I had a beard and all.(I have photo evidence.)
My best friend when I was 6-12 yrs old was named Dorcas. Poor girl. Let's see it !With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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MrsMdiver said: My best friend when I was 6-12 yrs old was named Dorcas. Poor girl.
Out of contact? BBC series Larkrise To Candleford has a lady called Dorcas; she is the kewlest of the lot. >> |
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HamsterHuey said: MrsMdiver said: My best friend when I was 6-12 yrs old was named Dorcas. Poor girl.
Out of contact? BBC series Larkrise To Candleford has a lady called Dorcas; she is the kewlest of the lot. **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'.  blah blah blah |
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erik319 said: HamsterHuey said: Out of contact? BBC series Larkrise To Candleford has a lady called Dorcas; she is the kewlest of the lot. **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. (Psst - he's foreign) | |
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erik319 said: HamsterHuey said: Out of contact? BBC series Larkrise To Candleford has a lady called Dorcas; she is the kewlest of the lot. **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. Of course they should. It's like a gazillion times better than showering your love for Dr Who. >> |
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vivid said: erik319 said: **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. (Psst - he's foreign) Now you're gonna tell The Antiques Roadshow is daft too? You prick. >> |
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HamsterHuey said: vivid said: (Psst - he's foreign) Now you're gonna tell The Antiques Roadshow is daft too? You prick. That's my name. Don't wear it out.  | |
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HamsterHuey said: erik319 said: **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. Of course they should. It's like a gazillion times better than showering your love for Dr Who. Thinnest of thin ice...  blah blah blah |
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HamsterHuey said: erik319 said: **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. Of course they should. It's like a gazillion times better than showering your love for Dr Who.
 seems that i was busy doing something close to nothing, but different than the day before | |
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erik319 said: HamsterHuey said: Out of contact? BBC series Larkrise To Candleford has a lady called Dorcas; she is the kewlest of the lot. **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. I was thinking the same thing. Sorry Herman. | |
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MrsMdiver said: erik319 said: **WARNING: BBC costume drama's should never be used to prove 'coolness'. I was thinking the same thing. Sorry Herman. You, Mrs Bennett, can respectfully piss off. >> |
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vivid said: HamsterHuey said: Now you're gonna tell The Antiques Roadshow is daft too? You prick. That's my name. Don't wear it out. 
Prick Canal. >> |
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HamsterHuey said: vivid said: That's my name. Don't wear it out.
Prick Canal. Yes, we've all got one of them (even if some don't know it just yet) | |
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HamsterHuey said: MrsMdiver said: I was thinking the same thing. Sorry Herman. You, Mrs Bennett, can respectfully piss off. 
I am sorry but the only thing I enjoy on BBC telly is the nature and animal documentaries. | |
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erik319 said: HamsterHuey said: Of course they should. It's like a gazillion times better than showering your love for Dr Who. Thinnest of thin ice... If you don't wanna be dafted back, mind what the fuck you are saying. I know costume drama is looked down upon (by opinionated dumbo's, of course), but at least it's not so fucking camp as dildo-head hoovers meant to be frightening, moaning "Exterminate". >> |
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MrsMdiver said: HamsterHuey said: You, Mrs Bennett, can respectfully piss off.
I am sorry but the only thing I enjoy on BBC telly is the nature and animal documentaries. :mutterssomethingabouthorsetowaterandthelike: | |
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