Nvncible1 said:

Sheesh.

Another memory,when i was in 6th grade and in gym class,all the guys had to change their clothes in front of eachother. Now,i was a little boy. So,this guy naned Josh walks up to me and we are both in our boxers and hes way taller than me (he flunked 6th grade twice) so next thing i know,he lifts me up over his head for like 40 seconds but he let me down easy. He didnt throw me. I guess he wanted to just test his strength.

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[Edited 3/23/10 21:06pm]

O ernest...why do we scream at each other?



i guess...this is what it sounds like

ernestsewell said:

Dude I all I said was "Neither" and "Sheesh". Nothing over the top retarded. Please clam down and get back on topic.

I found out last week that someone who menaced me all through middle school died of renal cancer. Someone in our class sent out a notice on Facebook that there was a benefit being held for his children (he was a widower with three daughters).

As recently as our class reunion two years ago, this guy was still pulling shit - staring at me non-stop at the reunion and making me extremely uncomfortable. Had I known then that he had daughters, I'd've gone up to him and said, "Y'know...I hope no one ever does to your daughters what you did to me, you son of a bitch."

Oh, well...I guess I should be glad that he wasn't abusing me verbally or threatening me physically anymore. And now he's dead. Boo-fucking-hoo.

I think bullying should never be permitted on any school premise EVER. I was bullied really bad in elementary school and worse in middle school and no one ever did anything about it. Say no to bullying people. Please.

I got bullied lots at school too. Nasty business.

They never offered head though...

I was never bullied by fellow students, but my 6th grade teacher humiliated me in front of the class. She kept badgering me with questions that I did not know the answers to. Finally, I just started to cry sitting right there at my desk. My fellow classmates were stunned into silence. Finally Mrs. Sanders (that denture-clickin bitch) told me to get up and meet her in the hall. We went outside to the hall and then she started this sympathetic bullshit about, "Oh, what's wrong, Patty? Why are you so upset?" I looked at her with hate in my tear-filled eyes and said, "BECAUSE YOU HUMILIATED ME! "I TOLD YOU I DIDN'T KNOW THE ANSWERS, BUT YOU JUST KEPT ON! YOU'RE MEAN!" Bitch commenced to denture-clicking again and walked me back into the classroom. After class some of my classmates were very sympathetic and comforted me. Bless their hearts. Bottom line, that bitch left me alone after that.

Being a nerdy, short, scrawny boy with glasses...I was a PRIME candidate for bullying.

However, I managed to lay low and avoided the worst of it. I simply did NOT give them a reaction to their taunts and teases. If they started with me I would either completely ignore them, or respond with very dry, uncaring replies like; "Wow. That was so funny I forgot to laugh." or "Yeah, I'm a nerd, what else is new?".

Unfortunately, my oldest son is my spitting image...except for the ability to shrug off bully attacks. He can be very emotional and it gives them the reaction that they WANT. Last year (5th grade) was a nightmare. We had more meetings with the principal than I care to admit. BUT, thanks to support from his teachers & principal and our constant pep talks and guidance, I think that he's finally doing better (we think). I mean, his grades are back on top and he no longer hates going to school. [Although my wife does have to pick him up from school everyday b/c the afternoon bus driver has no control over the kids.]

My daughter started a new class this year, and one girl started picking on her. She's a social butterfly so we never had a problem with her before. Then she was having problems with her own behavior and we found out what was bothering her. My wife told her that when she started getting flap from that girl to give it right back. So she did, (the mean girl said something like; "Oh look, it's miss nasty!" and my daughter said; "Oh, I didn't know your momma was here."), and lo-&-behold the bully moved on to someone else.
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Clear signs of bullying are: Repeated negative verbal or written statements about (and toward) others. Lack of empathy toward the individual that they are making such said statements.

In theory you are what you make of yourself.

NastradumasKid said:

First you said this.... Man that's really gay,. Then you said this...Nothing over the top retarded


You really should be more aware of what you are saying because you may hurt someones feelings....