peace ya'll...


Question: 2 all the peeps out there who have or had a High School SweetHeart. r u still with em or have u gone 2 some1 else?

do u miss em? what would u do if u could find em again?

I didn't go to high school
but my girl from those days ('70 )
we are still friends, but off and on
we were together 'til '93

I hate that crazy bitch

Rudy said:

old wounds... purplelove if this thread takes off your gonna need alot o tissues cause its gonna be alot of blood shed

I was my wife's HS sweetheart, so yes, we're
still together. I was 20, she was 16 when we started
dating.

My HS sweetheart decided to go visit a friend
of hers in Las Vegas, and ended up staying, leaving
me , the bitch! I wish her luck, whereever
she may be...I heard she had it kinda rough for awhile.

Well school ended at 2:20 and I HAD to be home at 3:10 ...so I never had time for a high school boyfriend

I am still looking for one to call my "high school boyfriend"

i never had a hi school sweetheart. i wuz a bit of a loner in school...a prince-lovin loner, at that...

who'd want me?

Never had a high school sweetheart. just a highschool sex

MissCute said:

NOT me...Nope..NEVER had sex with a boy at school . like I would never have sex with my neigbor..I had sex at somebody elses school and at another neigborhood ...Just kidding...for real though I was a bit ... ...Than all hell broke loose when i was like 26 I am back to normal now though

Oh yes, I was in love for practically 5 years and she made me look like a fool several times. But I got her and we had one wonderful year. Then I went to university, where I saw other beautiful girls and suddenly the feeling was gone and I told her quite bluntly I wanted to split up. I'm still sorry for that, I just didn't know how to tell it. Afterwards, I didn't have a girlfriend for more than a year which was of course what I deserved.
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had a few, never kept in touch with them.

My "high school sweetheart" went downhill majorly after we broke up. He was basically kicked out of the Air Force, got involved with several wacked out women along the way, and became an IV drug user who now has Hepatitis C and is on the waiting list for a new liver. No joke.

It's all because I broke up with him

AnotherLover2 said:

Poor guy... But that was cute!

OceanaOne said:

Are you sure you're back to normal?

MissCute said:

...Yes, I am sure ...

OceanaOne said:

you know I'm kidding, right?

MissCute said:

I know

Married mine. He cooked Indian food for me tonight. Life is good.

10 long years he loved Prince to it didn"t get better than that we'd sit on the roof have dinner and listen to Adore life was nice we're divorced now ...still love him

After being raised in a divorced household from a high school sweatheart relationship gone bad, I made the choice not to marry her.

She probably still hates me to this day. She has a couple of kids now and married some sperm donor.

I ran into my high school graduating class six months ago at this bar and this stranger walks up to me and says "she knows all about me". When I ask her how she says that she's best friends with "her". This threw me because she still thinks about our relationship (12 years later).

Every once in a while I wonder if I made the right choice but I know I did. It made me the person I am today (which is someone different than the high school kid) but it help me set a standard for what I'm looking for in another person. That I am forever grateful.

AnotherLover2 said:

Let's be honest now AnotherLover, it was that BOMB loving you was putting on him...

What's up btw!!!???

Okay, this story is a repeat from a previous thread, but its relevant here, so I'll re-post it:

Well, its interesting that you bring up this topic, as this is happening to me right now. Back in high school, I dated this girl that I fell head over heals for. We dated until the middle of my freshman year in college. I only broke up with her because she was going into the Airforce, and I didn't want to hold her back from her dreams (I loved her too much to do that. I never confessed how I felt to her, because I didn't want to influence her one way or the other. A couple of months later, she called me to tell me that she had been discharged from the Airforce because of her asthma. By this time, I had started dating someone else. I seriuosly thought about breaking up with the other girl, but I just felt like that would be cruel. (I wound up staying with the other girl, and it became the worst relationship I was ever in). Despite the fact that I didn't get back together with her, I continued to maintain a friendship with her.

After a while, I just stopped hearing from her altogether, and all my attempts to contact her failed. I heard rumours that she got married, but no one seemd to know where she was.

Flash forward twelve years later. I'm going through a divorce, after a year of seperation from my wife, and I'm being considered for a promotion that would take me back to my hometown of Houston. One night, I have a vivid dream about this girl, and it leaves me with this feeling that I just can't shake: I need to find her. I try to ignore the feeling for a day or two, but it won't go away. I talk with a friend, and he tells me that he believes God is telling me that I need to get into contact with her. So, I go about the task of trying to find her, this time using the resources of the internet. No luck. I search every firggin' people finding site there is, but I turn up squat. Zilch, zip, nada! Downcast, I start thinking that maybe I was wrong about the dream. Maybe all it was was a random thing.

In December, I go down to Houston for the day. I'm being interviewed for the promotion. Since I could only spare one day away from the office, I have to make it a day trip (on a tuesday, to be precise). I drive from San Antonio in the morning, spend all day interviewing, and then start to head back. By this time rush hour is in full-effect (and in Houston, it is a nightmare of epic proportions). I decide to stop and grab a bite to eat, and try to get some down time before making the long trip. I pull into a mall on the outskirts of Houston, called Katy Mills. I had never been to this mall, because it was built after I moved away, and it is about an hour away from my old digs anyway. After bumming around for about an hour, I notice something out of the corner of my eye: Its her! Naturally, I was stunned! I approached her, and she responed with a big hug and a stunned "omigod"! I ask her if she now lives in this area of town, but she tells me no. She still lives on the other side of town, and was only out there to meet some friends! I discover that she, the same as me, is going through a divorce. We chat for a while, and then exchange phone numbers.

Since that time, we've gone out a couple of times (I'm still living in S.A., but I should be transferring soon), and we talk on the phone quite a bit. We're taking it slow, because we both are coming out of long-term relationships. She's very guarded, so we're keeping it friends for the time being, but we'll see what develops. I, for my part, am totally thrilled! It seems like it just can't be a coincidence! (She told me that the day she ran into me, her horoscope said she would find her soulmate when she rekindled a long lost love. Normally, I'd be sceptical of a horoscope, but I can't deny that its too much to be coincidence)!

So there it is. I'm simultaneously thrilled, and scared shitless! Please, say a prayer for us

I had a high school sweetheart who i knew since i was very little he was an awesome guy.I always thought he would be the one i would marry but we went our seperate ways.I think about him every once in awhile but i have a husband now who makes me really happy.