'i dont look at other men'.....my girlfriend comes out with this line all the time.....either when she thinks i have had a glance at other women or if i comment on someone being attactive on the tv or whatever but its ok for her to tell me if some guy on the tv is good looking or sometimes seeing some guy out and about and saying he is a bit of all right ???....then she comes out with.....i dont look at men the way you look at women.....????.....women can be so full of bullshit sometimes.....

Maybe she is busy looking at other women?

I absolutely understand..this is just nonsense, especially that "I don't look at men the way you look at women".

zaza said:

Why is that nonsense? I don't look at men the way my bf looks at women.

Serious said:

Well..how does your bf look at other women? It depends on the way man looks at them - I'd never look at another woman in a "I-want-to-fuck-you" way..but some men could.

Yeah, ZaZa'a right. Without seeing this look, I'm afraid we are ill-equipped to judge. If you're leering at them, she probably has a point.

blackbob said:

Are you my husband???

zaza said:

Yes he does. My ex never did though, so yeah everyone is different. But IMO more men do it than women.

Serious said:

I see. Well, men are bitches!

Your girlfriend is terribly insecure.

JustErin said:

It's not about being insecure. It may often be, but it need not be. I know that my bf looks at other women. Just because I notice that doesn't make me insecure.

Serious said:

If you have a problem with your man simply looking at other women, you're insecure.

The end.

JustErin said:

I never said I have a problem with it. As long as he is just looking I am okay with that. Even though his comments are a bit much at times .

We employ a look but don't touch rule...

zaza said:

Nah you're not.

"Checking out" a woman isn't and doesn't have to be offensive. Many men do, so what?

My ex never made it obvious that he looked. I know he did, I did not care. I would point out hot women to him.

MrsMdiver said:

M. and I discuss hot bitches at.length.together.

that's kinda hot!

MrsMdiver said:

I always used to do that too . But mainly because my ex wouldn't have paid attention to them otherwise as he never looked at women .

RenHoek said:

It sure can be hot .

Serious said:

But I never actually said you did in the first place.

JustErin said:

okay

Serious said:

Cuz women are too busy bitching about how other women look and behave.

HamsterHuey said:

I don't do that . I do notice how they look though just as I notice how men look

HamsterHuey said:

Actually, women check out other women more than men do.

HamsterHuey said:

JustErin said:

In a different way though.

Serious said:

Of course. It's not that they are appreciating them like men are, it's just to size up their competition.

HamsterHuey said:

"some" women do that.

JustErin said:

But according to you isnt sizing women up as competion when your with your man just a way of being insecure? I mean once you are in a committed relationship there should no longer be any competion...

tinaz said:

Women size up other women, period. With a man or without. Having a man doesn't just turn off the natural competitive drive we all have - whether it be to get a man or to keep a man.

Plus I think we're all a little insecure to a certain degree. But being a bit insecure and understanding it for what it is, is totally different than being insecure and taking it out on someone else.