FUCK BUDDIES!!!


Yay or Nay?


Can people truly be fuck buddies or is this an oxymoron like....marital bed and jumbo shrimp.



Discuss.

DesireeNevermind said:

Anytime sugah...
NOW...Let's get down to business.
I completely believe it is possible. Even though I had one dude STRAIGHT UP tell me he "loves" me after the second time we had sex. Lawd...he got cut off. Then the next guy acted like he wanted us to be a couple, then he would tell everybody that we're just fuck buddies...HE got cut off...Then the guy I just had "intercourse"(because it wasn't fuckin or sex...)is getting cut off. Now my current guy is saying he doesn't want to have sex or kiss or any of that shit, because he's "saving himself for his future boyfriend" Okay, whatever. Then I find all these little messages saying how he misses me "sooooo" much, and he can't stop thinking about me, and saying shit like "I care for you"...that doesn't sound like shit "fuck buddies" say to each other So I'm conflicted right now. Why can't I find a motherfucker who can tell me what he does and doesn't want. Is that TOO fucking hard? Sheesh.

Can we get a sticky for best org post and put this shit up in there?



p.s.


I'm conflicted too.

Indeed.


In fact, I consider half of the org's women future fuck buddies.

Oh yeah. The key is, both parties have to be clear in what they want and don't want.

DesireeNevermind said:

I mean really. Shit...kids do that shit! Kids will tell you FAST whether or not they like or want to do something. That's why I gotta keep cuttin mufuckas off left and right, because they can't make their damn minds up. Plus, I'm getting old. I need to settle my hoe ass down.

CHIC0 said:

I'm glad you find humor in my pain.

ScarletScandal said:

i was laughing at the thread. 'thank you...now let's talk about fucking'

i saw this thread after the orgnotes. guess that's what my ass gets for clicking on a thread with your name on it.

friends with benefits....yeah, I could work with that

you know what's fucked up about so called fuck buddies? they get mad when your schedule doesn't jive with theirs. the point is for the encounter to be mutually beneficial not just when one person wants it.

DesireeNevermind said:

How much experience have you had with fuck buddies?

bboy87 said:

I have one and its a new concept for me, but I know exactly what DesireeN is talking about. Its not good enough that you are drama free and are Ok with just sex because you are mature enough to not get clingy but then a muthafuggah also wants you to be available at every beckon call.

he sees me twice a week now, and that's how I like it. He wanted to see me everyday.

paintedlady said:

That means your pussy is extraordinary!

bboy87 said:

DesireeNevermind said:

this is the deal right here

Christopher said:

Jia!

Yay.

I've had one since 2002 - and we're still sleeping together on a regular basis - 1 to 2x a week.

CHIC0 said:

yes. that's EXACTLY what yo ass get!!!! Of course it's some scandalous shit, hence, my username.

JustErin said:

That's a long ass time. I think I would've gotten tired of him by then. lol

ScarletScandal said:

You're like Vainandy Jr.

AnckSuNamun said:

But why? When we're not in anything serious we hook up. It's incredibly convenient.

bboy87 said:

Hursh, you.
I need a new guy. Who tells me "I want you to do this, this, and that to me, and don't stop." Instead of "no, don't touch it.." "I really don't do that..." "not to hard" "I think I felt teeth" "That's enough fingers" "I don't want to"

being fuck buddies can work...I had one for over a year...we never hung out, had little in common but she was hot and we liked to fuck each other....it was a good arrangement for both of us...

bboy87 said:

Or he's not getting any other pussy but mine....for now.

thejason said:

aahh this is interesting.


now did you call her? she call you? for just chit chat or to see how the other is doing? or did you two act like you didn't know each other outside the bedroom?

i think fuck buddies can be tricky if folks aren't also some other degree of buddy to begin with. Like scarlets said..."know what you want."


I've had a fuck buddy who thought he was my boyfriend and I've also had a boyfriend who thought he was my fuck buddy.

DesireeNevermind said:

her best friend was dating my cousin, who was my rommate at the time...she and I had no mutual friends and nothing in common other than a strong physical attraction...as for calling, she called me when she was ready...I never wanted to be "that guy" calling to get a piece of ass...she was ready a lot...

paintedlady said:

I'd rather think it was cuz your pussy was the bomb kitty kat but I know dudes and it's usually (unfortunately) the lack of other available ass. Don't it make ya mad? That's why I try and drain my menz....why let the next bitch get the milk? Ima make a mofo sweat!!!

DesireeNevermind said:

Go hard or go home!

paintedlady said: