Doesn't bother me any, but the person I'm having sex with absolutely has to be comfortable with it, too. Some people have issues with periods, and some people just have issues with blood of any kind.

Just in general with sex if either party is uncomfortable with the proceedings it's a no go.

meow85 said:

If we are talking vaginal penetration....er Nah.

bj's, wanks etc are all fair play, to me.

It's really not that big a deal. Put down a towel and hit it.

An orgasm will ease cramps and help you sleep better after.

I thank God for my hysterectomy!

Serious said:

I have insecurities.

Genesia said:

Looks like we do agree on something after all. I'll be God damned.

You're right, though. Sex or no sex, getting off eases cramps. Headaches, too.

Genesia said:

I've usually been told that it eases the cramps and even makes the bleeding stop (sometimes altogether) much faster.

Genesia said:

That shit's going in my signature.

Dave1992 said:

I'll pass on that.

sammij said:

I have loads of insecurities myself, just not when it comes to that.

TheVoid said:

Dumbass.

I'll only have sex during those days if my partner is ok with it. Luckily my boyfriend doesn't have a problem with it, so we do it !!

FauxReal said:

The first part is logically and practically true. However, I can't imagine it stopping the bleeding and I have never witnessed or heard that. If anything, it should even support the bleeding a bit, but I have never met a woman who really [/i]bleeds[i], so it would not make much of a difference anyway. Usually my shaft had a few stains on it and it would run down her ass onto the bedsheets where it would also be just about visible (as 98& pussy juice and 2% blood), so talking about "increasing" the bleeding would be an exaggeration in any way.

whistle said:

Dave1992 said:

It makes no sense to me either...but hey, I didn't ask for my dick to be the cure to menstruation.
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I have done this before...way back in the day...didn't care for the mess of things. That's when I started doing mutal masterbation...worked real well, and took off that edge.

Now...it's not an issue for me, since I no longer have the lady parts for a period.

Hell no. You generally can tell when a woman's cycle is coming on
because it don't feel the same. It normally feels nice and slimy but
if it doesn't and it just feels blah then that usually indicates cycle time
and i don't like Bloody Marys.

the thought of this is just gross to me!

Have I done it, yes

It's just not really my thing ... I'm not against it though

when I am on my period, it's a huge time for introspection and alone time so sex really isnt on my mind

now the week before and the week after OMG I NEED/want it at least 2 times a day

whistle said:

That's YOUR experience.

My husband and I entered marriage as a partnership, not a war with "agendas." That sounds horrible. Our "agenda" is to have a mutually respectful, happy, fulfilling and beneficial relationship. With lots of sex.

What Dave is describing does exist. You just didn't wait for the woman with whom you could have that type of relationship. That doesn't mean all women are like your wife, or all marriages are like yours.

Never. I never have to deal with this

Sure, but only in the shower.

PunkMistress said:

I'm glad someone so happy pointed that out.

Dave1992 said:

I'm glad I waited to get married til I was absolutely positive it was right, and for all the right reasons.

PunkMistress said:

That is exactly what I am planning to do. I won't get married just because being with a person felt good for the first two years. I'll get married when it felt good for ten years and every day is still making it more and more beautiful to be with that person and vice versa.

And if I don't find that person, I simply won't marry . I certainly won't get married for the sake of it.

NAY AND NEVA AGAIN!

DesireeNevermind said:

Why is that?

PunkMistress said:

ok, ok, you're happy. don't be smug about it

Dave1992 said:

Was too messy and my cramps didn't go away.