Every day when school lets out I hear all these boys outside my work ganging up on this one poor boy. They yell all kinds of mean stuff at him.

I wanna go out and yell at them, but I'm afraid it'll embarrass the boy.

I feel so bad for him. What can I do?

Tell the Principle when and where it is happening.
Insist that it happens often and that you're concerned.

TheVoid said:

Exactly

Good plan. I'm totally gonna.

My heart breaks for him.

Teach him to wax your car and paint your fence and he'll be kicking their asses before you know it.

how old are they??? go out there and tell the bullies that the kid is your boyfriend...he'll totally become a hero...

thejason said:

Its the middle school kids. So sumwhere from 6th to 8th grade.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

oh yeah, you'd totally make him the envy of every dude at school...hook him up!

thejason said:

OMG

thejason said:

the question is, can he do plumbing...?

BlackAdder7 said:

thats a reasonable question...that way they're both gettng something outta the deal...

thejason said:

BlackAdder7 said:

Listen here blackadder.

If you were my friend on facebook

Ud no

I just changed my own brake light on Monday.

JUST

so I wouldnt have to deal with the creepy car guy.

I'm self sufficient.

AND

My bills are all paid up to date at this moment.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Seriously.

You're my hero.






















Org-wise.

JustErin said:

My oldest son is not a punk....he is a good size...no longer the skinny kid...grows his curly hair out to a big old mess like his friends...he is strong...and is more or less the "bully" when it comes to physical altercations in school...with that being said....there is a kid at school that has been saying shit to Luke about his teeth....he needs braces something fierce, but needs to lose more teeth before the othodontist will put them on for him...yesterday....this kid said something again to Luke and he snapped and kicked this kids ass....

For those keeping score....that is my sons 5th altercation school so far this school year...it's becoming a once a month thing and always a different kid...

My point here....there is a breaking point for everyone and my guess is that this kid you are referring to is about to reach his....

For Luke, there are a BUNCH of tools in place to help him stay away from these situations in school and his teachers let him down yesterday and this was the result....for the boy you see everyday Dani....someone is letting him down...for me...I'd be in that bidness in a half a second...the first time you saw it....you chalk it up to kids being kids....maybe there is some story there...the second time...okay...wtf....maybe intervene...maybe keep a close eye on it...the third time....I am all over these kids and getting school staff involved before this other kid comes to school packing or WORSE his parents find him swinging in the closet....this shit goes on every day....Facebook...MySpace....all over the place...people have to get involved...and I am one scary dude when I wanna be....just sayin'....

I think about it this way...what would I do if it was my kid...I would do what my uncle did when I was younger...some kids were messing with my cousin everyday and one day is escalated to where my cousin got his finger broken....my uncle showed up at one of the kids houses and after about a 2 second conversation where this kids father told my uncle it was kid stuff and that he should go home....my uncle dragged dude out his front door and told him if it happened ever again...he was coming back with some of his friends and they were gonna break his fingers....

Maybe not the most mature thing to do...it was the 80's afterall...but the point is that we as the adults can have zero tolerence for these sort of things we observe....

Again....just my opinion here....

Hmm..i might take some pics of the kids doing the bullying..or even a video & show it to the principals.

all of the schools here have zero tollerance.

TheVoid said:

I think you should take his advice.

thejason said:

He'll totally rule the school.















Now I'm picturing the cops and the kid's parents knocking on TotalANXiousNESS' door.

Oh ya.
Cuzthat is something that would totally happen to me.

Offer to pay for martial arts classes for him so he can kick ass next time. It's so satisfying to see a bully get his ass kicked!