he's hung.

Thanks ivy this too is just gonna make me stronger.

I'm going out to dinner w the football/ little league coach tom nite.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

well that explains everything

TotalANXiousNESS said:

ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR GOURD?
He's hideous.
You're hot.
Bag a stud.
End.

Entirely way too good! You can totally do better!!!

when will men learn to put a lock code on their phone?

thejason said:

and wears the shoes he cuts grass in.

needs to clip his nails.

is wearing a sleeveless T.

is wearing NASCAR daddy shades.


Life would be easy and grand for you in the city, girl.
[Edited 3/6/10 6:26am]

gotta say...your life is entertaining to those not living it.

Cuddles said:

I was working at a car show when that liture was taken!

BlackAdder7 said:

I don't get that impression at all. I think Ppl genuinly wanna help

BlackAdder7 said:

you need a fucking hobby, man.

evenstar3 said:

Fucking AS a hobby?

HamsterHuey said:

Hello laurel!! how are you?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

My name is HERMAN.

JustErin said:

stop saying that!
it reminds me of this

HamsterHuey said:

that's nymphomania, i think.

evenstar3 said:

a condition rather than a pastime

TotalANXiousNESS said:

hi! pretty awesome. who is that in your avatar btw??

TotalANXiousNESS said:

You need to focus on yourself right now. Just getting out of a bad relationship, You need to focus on ditching all of the past emotional pain and trauma and get yourself all better before thinking about meeting another man. I know it's very difficult because you feel so lonely and your ex has moved on and is probably banging some skank. Plus you're still young and attractive, but all the creepy guys come preying on your vulnerability and hope to get inside your pants. Then once they use you like some living breathing sex doll. they ditch you and leave you even more damaged.

My best friend just went through a divorce, and she has been spending much of the past year fending off a bunch of losers trying to hook up with her, most of whom were married or had a baby mama already. Though she fended off nearly all of the obvious losers, she did eventually hook up with a guy who lied to her about his relationship with his significant other. She specifically asked him to tell her whether this relationship was over or whether he was trying to get out of it, at which point she told him that if he was still seeing this other chick, he needed to stop pursuing her and get back with his girlfriend or end the relationship once and for all. Needless to say, he strung her along with her lies, only to have the girlfriend go through his cell phone and call her with a rather angry tirade.

I'm rather ambivalent about the dating scene myself. Some days I feel like banging my head through a wall because I'm not with a woman but after seeing what is happening to my best friend, or seeing some horrific dating story in the news or watching a bunch of clueless skanks on those dating reality shows, I feel glad that I'm not dating anyone. I just hope that you get yourself in a better place emotionally, and when you do, you will attract someone who feels likewise and appreciates you for who you are.

728huey, thank u, that kinda wat I'm going thru. Fending off a bunch of gross schmucks, when the guy I actually kinda, ok the guy I REALLY wanted to. E with is just as bad. I just don't understand why I wasn't enough for him. He admitted to me months ago that the whole time I was living next door to him w my husband he was we retly inlove w me n wished I was his, but then once he got me and knew he had my heart was so careless w it.

Then I have all these friends trying to hook me up w their husbands friends n shit n I just don't want to. I don't wanna deal w any of these guys.

I hate it.

I have so much fun w my kids during the week when it's just us n I feel so free not having to answer to anyone or have to worry about being screamed at n threatened all the time. It's just on the weekends n stuff that I'm so lonely. I guess I just have to get used to being alone

Oh evenstar, it's Jackie warner

TotalANXiousNESS said:

It does not have to be dating, right? You could, like, get a hobby or something?

HamsterHuey said:

I need a hobby too
can you name some that don't cost any money?

ZombieKitten said:

Running.

ANY money?

Jeez. Knitting is pretty inexpensive.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Girl, when you're financially stable we have GOT to get you organized on a trip to the city, or Europe or somethin'....too big a world and too many dudes out there to have to comb through the slim pickins of losers ..and as little as you and as flat as your abs are ...Nah...focus on you and the kids right now and chase those dollars. You'd be surprised how stability (on your end) will open up the gene pool (on the other end) considerably.

HamsterHuey said:

I'd (I'm not joking) have to outlay close to $100 for a sports bra that would fit me first

knitting?

ZombieKitten said:

Tits take the fun out of everything.

And yeah, knitting. I want a scarf.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

For starters, if this guy truly loved you, he would have been a friend to you, in your darkest days, and willing to build a relationship with you, not rush it. Instead, he used it to his advantage, and once he got what he wanted, he moved on. In the future, don't be so quick to lay up with these guys that interest you because many of them love a challenge, another thing to consider. Don't let your friends pressure you, neither. From my observation, I've noticed that folks end up with the right one they're with is when they're least expected it, and they build a relationship or they were truly friends from the start. Like others are telling you to do besides me, relax, take one day at a time, no rush. Many people have been in the same situation as yours. I have never married, but I've been in enough relationships, and one kid to know that you cannot rush love. As you heal, you'll be amazed how you can help others.

HamsterHuey said:

not EVERYTHING