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Printablewell what can you do about it? nothing!
you can't make them like you again, and any attempts would probably have the opposite effect | |
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Tainted said: Its weird, but once a man doesn't want me... I don't want him. Its a mental thing with me, I begin to see and scrutinize every flaw to the point where it bothers me. The anger helps me and I just move on. I may not meet a new guy for a while but I just take off the blinders and notice what's around me then.
 funny thing, they always tend to come back and want a friendship... fuck that, I am NEVER friends when a guy hurts me. I just keep it moving.now that's ballsy.  | |
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I get drunk and go to the night club two blocks away in order to find someone who fancies me.
Notice how I stated I get drunk before going to the club. | |
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novabrkr said: I get drunk and go to the night club two blocks away in order to find someone who fancies me.
Notice how I stated I get drunk before going to the club.  | |
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Genesia said: Walk away, keeping as much of my dignity intact as possible.
 I have a hard time doing that. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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JustErin said: I don't do all that well with rejection, so I find I need to just totally cut off all contact with the person.
Every single dude that didn't "fancy me anymore" eventually came back at some point, not for anything meaningful though... I have a really hard time cutting off ties with people I care about even when they stop caring about me. Yup. This is my exact situation rite now. YAEH! How do you just make a clean break when you cared about someone? HOW??? HOW????? I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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SHOCKADELICA1 said: I just stalk them until I get a retraining order....then take the hint & move on
Disagree with the first line, agree with the last one. | |
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Retail therapy and booze. | |
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How good looking are they? Cause I can either ignore it, treat them badly, or go totally Glen Close on their asses.
It depends on the person, my place in life, self-esteem and if I have a supply of bubble wrap to keep my mind occupied. | |
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Tainted said: Its weird, but once a man doesn't want me... I don't want him. Its a mental thing with me, I begin to see and scrutinize every flaw to the point where it bothers me. The anger helps me and I just move on. I may not meet a new guy for a while but I just take off the blinders and notice what's around me then.
funny thing, they always tend to come back and want a friendship... fuck that, I am NEVER friends when a guy hurts me. I just keep it moving. Yep I have found that to be true. I made that mistake twice, the third time he came back I cut him off for good. Even though he hurt me, I still cared about him (especially with the 4 years I wasted being with him), cutting him off was hard...but necessary. I wouldn't have met the man that I'm with now that treats me with respect, loves, cherishes me and supports me.I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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novabrkr said: I get drunk and go to the night club two blocks away in order to find someone who fancies me.
Notice how I stated I get drunk before going to the club. That's the Nordic way!   | |
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I piss on his tooth brush and shit in his coffee.....just saying.....like...  "I may not agree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it"
Be proud of who you are not what they want you to be... | |
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purplehippieonthe1 said: novabrkr said: I get drunk and go to the night club two blocks away in order to find someone who fancies me.
Notice how I stated I get drunk before going to the club. That's the Nordic way! | |
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TheVoid said: How good looking are they? Cause I can either ignore it, treat them badly, or go totally Glen Close on their asses.
It depends on the person, my place in life, self-esteem and if I have a supply of bubble wrap to keep my mind occupied. That's why they dumped you.  We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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missfee said: Tainted said: Its weird, but once a man doesn't want me... I don't want him. Its a mental thing with me, I begin to see and scrutinize every flaw to the point where it bothers me. The anger helps me and I just move on. I may not meet a new guy for a while but I just take off the blinders and notice what's around me then.
funny thing, they always tend to come back and want a friendship... fuck that, I am NEVER friends when a guy hurts me. I just keep it moving. Yep I have found that to be true. I made that mistake twice, the third time he came back I cut him off for good. Even though he hurt me, I still cared about him (especially with the 4 years I wasted being with him), cutting him off was hard...but necessary. I wouldn't have met the man that I'm with now that treats me with respect, loves, cherishes me and supports me.That's true and that's something many of us need to understand. Everything happens for a reason. | |
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When someone doesn't want you any more...
UPGRADE, and make sure they KNOW you've upgraded.  ACRYLIC
I do nothing professionally. I only do things for fun. johnart: Acrylic's old bras is where tits of all sizes go to frolic after they die. Tit Heaven. | |
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DesireeNevermind said: nobody yet posting about attempts to win a lover back?
sometimes when u want to try win the person back is to have a good talk with tht person abt why tht tht person wasnt interested in the first place and tell the person why u want tht person back and it has to be a real good answer why....thts the only way to win ur love back...  . | |
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I don't know if this is a sign of insecurity or what but i can't stand being more into a man then he is into me in the first place. I like the edge of feeling like he's in deeper than I am. However this does not always work some guys see me as their last hope I guess and they don't really have that much to offer. There came a time when the risk of remaining tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. Anais Nin. | |
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