dag said:

i don't think every relationship is the same though:

he was the type that could never laugh. i know we are not supposed to be talking cuz he was serious and alot of other things that went with it but ya im not supposed be "harassing him"

so if im viewed as that then i guess my humor is different
i just think the way he is acting sinse our break up is really messed up.
so thats why im not interested...if im bothering him that much he could of changed his number a long time ago.
i don't like games.....but this guy is wacked on drugs.....im scared.
at the same time im viewed as a stalker to some here.
the thing is i haven't bothered him i made money the other night going out with a another guy.....its just very very sad that it got to that point
ya but some of yall would be like ya just leave it alone..
thats what i been doing... i hope he changes his number if im bothering him that much lol

after michael jackson died that really pissed me off i left a messege on his machine he must overheard the things i typed on the net (oh well)


i really feel he has no emotions whatsoever after michael jackson died we didn't speak for a while then he called me up (i didn't bother him)out of no where i thought we were done after that

i was pissed off he had nothing to say about that whole insident cuz mj had impact on alot of folx

i never been the same after that...if he doesn't have any emotions for me or mj

it's heartless
[Edited 3/2/10 7:39am]

some guys at a bar i'll just pass up cuz im not interested. i don't know what it is.. ya im that way too

I can´t figure out this situation of yours.
I don´t expect my potential partner to like MJ, but it´s true I couldn´t be with someone who hates him. I just want someone who respects that I am a fan.



Well, for me it doesn´t have to be a bar. In general, on the streets, anywhere. I rarely see someone I like and by that, I don´t want to say that I am looking for some kind of Brad Pitt or something. But something special just has to shine from that person. Like someone just wrote on another thread on Sade here on the org that they aren´t feeling any of the hot artists today, but they do feel her.
[Edited 3/2/10 8:05am]

dag said:

he didn't mention anything about mj after he died, the whole world talks about it but not him..... i didn't say he had to like him


to top the motherfucker off he had the nerve to break up with me in person
when he just could of told me over the phone.....wth

so what would you think about a man like that that took all that time to travel to some folx house to break up with someone?

comment if you like cuz i can't figure that out
[Edited 3/2/10 8:40am]

dag said:

i don't think every relationship is the same though:

he was the type that could never laugh. i know we are not supposed to be talking cuz he was serious and alot of other things that went with it but ya im not supposed be "harassing him"

so if im viewed as that then i guess my humor is different
i just think the way he is acting sinse our break up is really messed up.
so thats why im not interested...if im bothering him that much he could of changed his number a long time ago.
i don't like games.....but this guy is wacked on drugs.....im scared.
at the same time im viewed as a stalker to some here.
the thing is i haven't bothered him i made money the other night going out with a another guy.....its just very very sad that it got to that point
ya but some of yall would be like ya just leave it alone..
thats what i been doing... i hope he changes his number if im bothering him that much lol

after michael jackson died that really pissed me off i left a messege on his machine he must overheard the things i typed on the net (oh well)


i really feel he has no emotions whatsoever after michael jackson died we didn't speak for a while then he called me up (i didn't bother him)out of no where i thought we were done after that

i was pissed off he had nothing to say about that whole insident cuz mj had impact on alot of folx

i never been the same after that...if he doesn't have any emotions for me or mj

it's heartless

to top the motherfucker off he had the nerve to break up with me in person
when he just could of told me over the phone.....wth

so what would you think about a man like that that took all that time to travel to some folx house to break up with someone?


so anyone can comment
he is long time joke in my book...
[Edited 3/2/10 8:38am]

booty said:

I agree that no relationship is the same, but I believe that at the end of the day, you learn something from them, and move on. My first boyfriend broke up with me on the subway platform in NYC after six months. He told me he had a dinner date to my face which resulted in an argument. Nine years later, he wrote me from jail, but I didn't write back because I felt strongly that there was an ulterior motive for writing me, and I was also seeing someone else. He knew I was a sucker for him back then, but not this time. In 2005, I ran into him after so many years. He told me the reason that he was in jail was because his ex-wife gave him hell during the marriage. He got married maybe a couple of years after we broke up. We exchanged numbers, but never contacted each other. That's the way it is.

BTW, nobody is like MJ because he was being himself, and you can only be you. He wasn't afraid to show his vulnerability and compassion. Few men would do that because society teaches men to man up and be strong. Don't cry because that makes you a wimp. The truth is, not so.

booty said:

I agree that no relationship is the same, but I believe that at the end of the day, you learn something from them, and move on. My first boyfriend broke up with me on the subway platform in NYC after six months. He told me he had a dinner date to my face which resulted in an argument. Nine years later, he wrote me from jail, but I didn't write back because I felt strongly that there was an ulterior motive for writing me, and I was also seeing someone else. He knew I was a sucker for him back then, but not this time. In 2005, I ran into him after so many years. He told me the reason that he was in jail was because his ex-wife gave him hell during the marriage. He got married maybe a couple of years after we broke up. We exchanged numbers, but never contacted each other. That's the way it is.

BTW, nobody is like MJ because he was being himself, and you can only be you. He wasn't afraid to show his vulnerability and compassion. Few men would do that because society teaches men to man up and be strong. Don't cry because that makes you a wimp. The truth is, not so.