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Thread started 02/22/10 7:19pm

Lammastide

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"Made-up" personalities: Imaginary friends, alter egos, etc.

I predict this thread will tank. But, hey, that's never stopped me before smile...

Talk of orgers hearing external voices in the "Are you lonely" thread got me to thinking about something possibly, tangentially related: I'm intrigued that some people I know at various times in their lives have engaged "made-up" personalities for various reasons. I'm not talking about full-on diagnosible delusions or dissociations, but rather something more benign: Some kids, for example, have "invisible friends" when they need a confidant, a protector or someone to blame who's not there. Some adults come up with a personality -- and occasionally even imagine it as part of themself -- when they need inspiration, audacity, impartiality, etc. from some external force that they may otherwise not be able to tap. (Beyonce's got "Sasha Fierce," for example; Prince, though mostly for artistic reasons, has had "Camille"; my mother-in-law says she's got "Christina" when she needs to muster attitude).

Have you or someone you know ever done this? Who was/is this personality? And what function did/does it serve?
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
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Reply #1 posted 02/22/10 7:30pm

ernestsewell

I have an alter ego character I created about 10 years ago named Bernie. He's not really an imaginary friend. He just pops up now and again. Only my roommate really recognizes when he's around. I can have a certain expression on my face, and he knows Bernie is here.
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Reply #2 posted 02/22/10 7:37pm

Lammastide

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ernestsewell said:

I have an alter ego character I created about 10 years ago named Bernie. He's not really an imaginary friend. He just pops up now and again. Only my roommate really recognizes when he's around. I can have a certain expression on my face, and he knows Bernie is here.

What does Bernie do for you?
Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.”
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Reply #3 posted 02/22/10 7:56pm

thesexofit

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I talk to the window on the bus.
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Reply #4 posted 02/22/10 8:11pm

ernestsewell

Lammastide said:

ernestsewell said:

I have an alter ego character I created about 10 years ago named Bernie. He's not really an imaginary friend. He just pops up now and again. Only my roommate really recognizes when he's around. I can have a certain expression on my face, and he knows Bernie is here.

What does Bernie do for you?

Make me and my roommate laugh. Sometimes I might do the voice, under my breath, if either of us are anxious or excited for something.
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Reply #5 posted 02/22/10 8:15pm

Lammastide

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ernestsewell said:

Lammastide said:


What does Bernie do for you?

Make me and my roommate laugh. Sometimes I might do the voice, under my breath, if either of us are anxious or excited for something.

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Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.”
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Reply #6 posted 02/22/10 8:17pm

Lammastide

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thesexofit said:

I talk to the window on the bus.

hmm

I think that's a tad bit different than the phenomena I'm talking about. lol
Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.”
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Reply #7 posted 02/22/10 8:33pm

thesexofit

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Lammastide said:

thesexofit said:

I talk to the window on the bus.

hmm

I think that's a tad bit different than the phenomena I'm talking about. lol


lol Ok being serious now, I have never put on any persona or anything like that. But Prince use to do a sorta pimp persona to amuse his friends apparantly?
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Reply #8 posted 02/22/10 8:38pm

johnart

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Miss Demeanor was my only alter ego. Sometimes I miss her. rose
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Reply #9 posted 02/23/10 12:58am

ZombieKitten

I used to pretend to be an old lady called Mrs Rubber

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I have a recording (or rather HAD) of Mrs Rubber and her Band singing When Doves Cry
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Reply #10 posted 02/23/10 2:31am

chocolate1

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A friend of mine is getting a divorce. His wife has accused him of being with a few different women...
She has called these women up and gone off, then later claimed it was her "other self" who went off, and she doesn't remember what she did. confused
Not too long ago, she grabbed one woman in church! eek But it wasn't her... it was [forgot the name].
disbelief

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Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

-Cher, "Woman's World"
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Reply #11 posted 02/23/10 2:54am

whistle

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does drawing a face on your hand before wanking count? hmmm
everyone's a fruit & nut case
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Reply #12 posted 02/23/10 3:11am

mcmeekle

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whistle said:

does drawing a face on your hand before wanking count? hmmm

Tip: Draw a face on each hand and have a "threesome". Ooh la la!

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Reply #13 posted 02/23/10 4:10am

HamsterHuey

johnart said:

Miss Demeanor was my only alter ego. Sometimes I miss her. rose


I love how the person in the snuggie IS actually you.
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Reply #14 posted 02/23/10 4:11am

HamsterHuey

HamsterHuey said:

johnart said:

Miss Demeanor was my only alter ego. Sometimes I miss her. rose


I love how the person in the snuggie IS actually you.


"Just John!"
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Reply #15 posted 02/23/10 4:14am

HamsterHuey

And I am sure EVERY person has got different sides, just the really emotional ones are actually aware enough of them to name them and to give them separate attention by actually giving them a stage.
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Reply #16 posted 02/23/10 4:15am

Harlepolis

I thought being a manic depressive will make me develop an alter ego, but I don't have it lol

Not to bring a morbid mood into this thread but since you asked, the ONLY person I knew who had an alter ego was a girl who I went to Jr.High with, she was constantly raped by a family member(I'm not talking molesting, I'm talking FORCED rape) anyway, the only reason I know is because they sent him to jail(and my mother who was a friend of her mother confirmed this to me later in life).

I assume that she developed this alter ego as a defence mechanism,,,but it could be for other reasons, who knows.

Its def an intersting subject and I'd love to learn more about it nod
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Reply #17 posted 02/23/10 10:15am

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I sometimes pretend I'm a dorky 37 year old dude from South Carolina named GottaLetitgo.
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Reply #18 posted 02/23/10 10:36am

Mach

Cow said:

I sometimes pretend I'm a dorky 37 year old dude from South Carolina named GottaLetitgo.



lol


This is a great thread topic Lammastide
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Reply #19 posted 02/23/10 10:42am

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hmmm I can't say that I have one now, but when I was in 2nd grade, I used to go into the bathroom, "transform" by touching my pink star earrings and then pretend I was the African American version of this character:





lol
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Reply #20 posted 02/23/10 10:43am

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I at times have conversations with myself in my head... and these conversations sometimes grow to actual arguments... soon as i know it, i'm screaming "shut the fuck up", "you don't love me" or "son of a bitch" at the top of my lungs. I come back to, when i notice people are taking notice...

I think it could be a slight disorder of torets...

I'm very reclusive and secluded but, i have a alter ego when im on stage. Performing my music. the name of this charicter is Nyse. he is very loud brash and unpredictable...

now that I think about it... those arguments in my head must be between me(michael) and that Nyse charicter...

yea Im kuh-razy I know... but im just keeping it real

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Reply #21 posted 02/23/10 10:45am

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HamsterHuey said:

HamsterHuey said:



I love how the person in the snuggie IS actually you.


"Just John!"


falloff

Because I'm stupid like that. lol
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Reply #22 posted 02/23/10 10:57am

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I have a drunk alter ego named Paul Tolberson. It's a very long story and an inside joke, but Paul only comes out after one too many cocktails. He is a very competetive loving drunk, but can be obnoxious. We actually killed him off a long time ago, but its sort of like Weekend at Bernies. He occasionaly makes apprearances at parties.

Ohh yeah, he also likes to get naked often. Big fan of public nudity.
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Reply #23 posted 02/23/10 11:02am

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I'm an actor. It goes with the territory. shrug
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Reply #24 posted 02/23/10 11:11am

Lammastide

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missfee said:

hmmm I can't say that I have one now, but when I was in 2nd grade, I used to go into the bathroom, "transform" by touching my pink star earrings and then pretend I was the African American version of this character:





lol

falloff

African American version of Jem, eh? Was your name "Ice" or "Bling?" mr.green








giggle








Racist joke. duh I'll take my lashes.
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
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Reply #25 posted 02/23/10 11:15am

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being as that I'm painfully shy around people I don't know Sister Iona allows me to reach out to people and spread my message
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Reply #26 posted 02/23/10 11:15am

Lammastide

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Harlepolis said:

I thought being a manic depressive will make me develop an alter ego, but I don't have it lol

Not to bring a morbid mood into this thread but since you asked, the ONLY person I knew who had an alter ego was a girl who I went to Jr.High with, she was constantly raped by a family member(I'm not talking molesting, I'm talking FORCED rape) anyway, the only reason I know is because they sent him to jail(and my mother who was a friend of her mother confirmed this to me later in life).

I assume that she developed this alter ego as a defence mechanism,,,but it could be for other reasons, who knows.

Its def an intersting subject and I'd love to learn more about it nod

It's apparently common in cases of trauma like this. What I find interesting is to what extent some victims retain the personality into their teen and adult years.

Convention says this sometimes hints at some potential onset of schizophrenia or dissociative identity disorder. But it can't possibly be that pathological always. And it can't possibly be relegated to cases of trauma... can it? hmmm
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
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τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.”
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Reply #27 posted 02/23/10 11:17am

Lammastide

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nyse said:

I at times have conversations with myself in my head... and these conversations sometimes grow to actual arguments... soon as i know it, i'm screaming "shut the fuck up", "you don't love me" or "son of a bitch" at the top of my lungs. I come back to, when i notice people are taking notice...

I think it could be a slight disorder of torets...

I'm very reclusive and secluded but, i have a alter ego when im on stage. Performing my music. the name of this charicter is Nyse. he is very loud brash and unpredictable...

now that I think about it... those arguments in my head must be between me(michael) and that Nyse charicter...

yea Im kuh-razy I know... but im just keeping it real


Are you just messing with me? lol

If not, I actually find this interesting... particularly the full-on arguments.
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
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Reply #28 posted 02/23/10 11:19am

Lammastide

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NewPowerToad said:

I have a drunk alter ego named Paul Tolberson. It's a very long story and an inside joke, but Paul only comes out after one too many cocktails. He is a very competetive loving drunk, but can be obnoxious. We actually killed him off a long time ago, but its sort of like Weekend at Bernies. He occasionaly makes apprearances at parties.

Ohh yeah, he also likes to get naked often. Big fan of public nudity.

hmmm


Pictures!?!?! wink
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.”
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Reply #29 posted 02/23/10 11:19am

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Genesia said:

I'm an actor. It goes with the territory. shrug


You're also crazy in your head and a drunk. Your bases are covered.shrug
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