MacDaddy said:

You would have loooved the old-skool Invasions. Boozed up, crazy fun.

We always made jokes about a Gay Invasion. Just gays guys going to clubs and of course, getting it on, but I bet that would just turn into one, nasty bitchfest in, like, ten minutes. LoL

I tend to meet orgers one at a time or in small groups.

NDRU said:

Definitely not alone, but I do feel very lonely most of the time. Even when I'm surrounded by people

Sometimes we have to admit that we like our own company and only want to socialise on our own terms. Thats when the Org comes in handy. Having to deal with people face to face can be challenging for some people so the Internet is the way out for some people.

I like my own company and I admit that sometimes I want to be on my own without family or friends -I am happy about that but would not want to be without interaction at all. We are a complicated species.

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

I know how that feels
I read that HSP thing, sounds like me too

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

Wish we lived closer.

The org can take up a lot of time for some of us. Do you think that it's because you're missing something in the way of human interaction in your real life and the org (or internet in general) helps to fill it?

I know that sounds negative so I'll start by admitting that I think that's the case for me!

I'm surrounded by people all the time, but I feel lonely, and there is some socializing that is just easier to do with strangers. I've always been quiet, I don't think I've had as many conversations in my life as I have had here.

Maybe it's not just loneliness, but the internet actually offers a format that real life interactions can't.

I'm just here to meet fans of Prince music and stay up-to-date...

NDRU said:

that's understandable.


Erin and I don't really hide much with our personality's, so we don't worry much about what is said. I only get a little embarrassed when she gives a little too much bedroom detail.

I'm lonely, but when I go out and surround myself with family and friends and obligations, all I want is to retreat

Alej said:

that's the only time I ever feel lonely. If I'm surrounded by people and don't want to be there. Otherwise, solitude is golden.

ZombieKitten said:

ME TOO. Exactly.

I think that's why I'm back on the org more lately. The second I've had enough of humanity, I can just close the muthafuckin' tab. Doesn't usually take long.

I'm not exactly lonely, though life does feel pretty meaningless lately, and that's probably partly because my level of social interaction has mostly been intentionally shallow.

NDRU said:

To me it's more about WHAT people say than the amount of it.

But, I must admit I think I click quicker if an Orger has a pic up of himherself as an avatar or at least posted his/her picture; it makes it easier to relate. My brain does not say "Zombiekitten". It says "Charlotte"or "Lotta". And that makes it... more personal.

And even though I have never met her (but going to, soon) she already feels like a friend. And has felt like that for years.

NDRU said:

I can totally relate to this too

I'm a bit of a loner anyway. I don't want to be, but I can't help it sometimes, and online interactions can somewhat fill the void.

It's like, the more I'm around people IRL, the less I'm here, and vice versa.

NDRU said:

To me it's more about WHAT people say than the amount of it.

But, I must admit I think I click quicker if an Orger has a pic up of himherself as an avatar or at least posted his/her picture; it makes it easier to relate. My brain does not say "Zombiekitten". It says "Charlotte"or "Lotta". And that makes it... more personal.

And even though I have never met her (but going to, soon) she already feels like a friend. And has felt like that for years.

HamsterHuey said:

i live in the same country as Charlotte, and we still havent met

damn island i live on

HamsterHuey said:

Well put
When I met Marion, it felt like we had been friends for a long time. It felt comfortable and natural.

HamsterHuey said:

you didn't even call me twat!!!!!

ZombieKitten said:

That's why I put the link down.. I recognized things you said

HamsterHuey said:

True, you associate people with their avatars, naturally. And yeah Charlotte posts a lot of photos that let us in on her life.

Of course I HAVE met her, so everything else pales in comparison!

ZombieKitten said:

You're gonna like her Herman!

I met her IRL.. and going to meet again
I'll order some coffee for you when you join us

NDRU said:

you really wanted to write na na na na na

ZombieKitten said:

I think it's already evident that I am superior to Huey, no need to rub his face in it!

JerseyKRS said:

I'm sorry I killed your "Boner is Missing" thread with talk of your actual boner.



your not sorry you wanted to mess up his boner

lol: your not sorry you wanted to mess up his boner

PunkMistress said:

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drgnfly said:

That's like saying I wanted to throw my birthday cake in the garbage!

PunkMistress said:

A moment on the lips a lifetime on well you know the rest...a boner on the other hand would that be one hand on the hip another on the well I think we all get the picture there too

drgnfly said:

a boner in the hand is better than a what?