Ugh so I'm irritated cuz my "boyfriend" rite b4 Christmas had a big arguement cuz I cancelled my boob surgery cuz I just can't justify it rite now.

Now he's all mad at me cuz I agreed to a threesome for his bday months ago, which was yesterday, but now I changed my mind n didn't do it he got all mad n hurt by it.

I'm not an idiot I no these things are wrong n that this is the last type of drama I need.

I only told u the bad stuff. He's a really good guy in other ways. Just venting a little

what's wrong with your boob's ? I'm assuming that he didn't have a problem with what you had when you got together and the whole 3some things is really just asking for problems babe

Hello gorgeousness why does he need anything else when he has spectacularness at home?

You are beautiful just how you are
If you feel something just isn't right he should accept that!

Dude thinks you have to have a boob job and do it with other girls/guys before you're good enough for him?

Ummmmm....he's a loser. Sorry to be so blunt, but he is.

Hi banks n supa!!
I know, I agree w all of the above, I do. U can't be a rug unless ya lay down. I no that, n I no that I am quite a catch. I'm just wondering WTF is wrong w me that I decide to jump from the pot into the fire....LOL. Like I guess maybe just cuzza all the other chaos disaster uncertai type in my life he is sumthing familiar to me...

Oh banks, I've been wanting my boobs done for yrs n actually got the loan out for them before I left my husband I just keep cancelling my appt LOL I'm scared

interesting that a couple of months ago you didn't have money to pay back rent, and was being threatened with eviction by someone who was your friend.

http://prince.org/msg/100...sg_7112621
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TotalANXiousNESS said:

Hi sweetheart, just as long as the boob job is something you want to do i guess it's cool

BlackAdder7 said:

[Flame snip - luv4u]

I got that loan 2 yrs. 4 I left my husband.

Where do you find these guys?

Is the same old fucker you were fucking before?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

have you already paid for the surgery with the loan money?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

i see you've fallen off the wagon again.

sextonseven said:

Yes Erin the old dude. Sexton he's originally from hazleton LOL don't u have family there or sumthing like that?

Oh Erin on the jersey app thread u's = yous I'm not opening that thread anymore it takes too long to load.
Prb no the loan isn't paid it still has a zero balance on it it's a care one credit. Are used by cosmetic surgeons

BlackAdder7 said:

[Name calling snip - luv4u]

TotalANXiousNESS said:

your boyfriend wants to have sex with another woman while you watch/participate..and gets mad when you say you're not comfortable with it, instead of being understanding. I think your dick judgement is misaligned.
[Edited 2/10/10 14:30pm]

You don't make him sound like a real charmer

Why did you back out of the threesome? Are you scared of having two dicks at the same time?

You need to re-think your opinions on nice guys with veiny arms!

BlackAdder7 said:

Um I'm sure if your dicks were alligned he'd win.


[Flame snip - luv4u]

NDRU said:

hey..wait a minute...don't you have..veiny arms????

Based on what little I know about him (practically nothing), I would have to agree with the general consensus here. He sounds like an asshole in nice guy clothing. Sorry if that's harsh, and I hope I am wrong.

vainandy said:

No. Well yes. But it was him me n another chic supposed to be not 2 guys. And I really was gonna do it. He really just wanted to watch
Ore than anythi g, and that doesn't make him an asshole I mean wat guy doesn't want that n I do appreciate his honesty.
I was willing to do it n honestly it does turn me on when we talk about it. And maybe I'm weird but secretly thinking of him banging sumone else turns me on. BUT if it actually happened I'd be crushed.
I really like this guy and as time goes on the closer we get I just no I could not watch him even TOUCH another girl.
In his defense I've been telling him yes for months got his hopes up then let him down

I was happy for you when you came back posting that you were focusing on taking care of you and your kids, and healing from your asshole ex-husband.

Now you're with some dude who's demanding breast implants and threesomes, even though you say you would be uncomfortable with it?

Doesn't sound like the path you said you wanted to be on.

Just some well-intentioned observations from someone who admittedly only knows a little of the story.

PunkMistress said:

Yup u r absolutely correct and that's exactly wat I posted this needing to hear.
Thanx for saying it constructivly.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

You can do it on your own, Dani. You really can.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Um, I know I"m jumping in late, but I don't understand why you went after him when other people also told you that it didn't seem right.
I highlighted what I did because you put yourself out there with this:



What else do people have to know about you? Once you posted that, you put yourself out there.

Just my

And be honest tho. Ya I find the boob thing totally outrageous. He knows it's not in my budget n if you don't like my titts hey, feel free to move on.

But the threesome thing. Was it wrong of me to agree to it for so long then say no?

Like I think his x wife used to make him feel dirty about his fantasies n I don't like that. Ppl should be open. I mean ....maybe I really let him down like hurt his feelings....or no?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Ask yourself that.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

I dunno, it's not like that was your intention, building up the moment just to let him down. And backing out of a threesome is the same as backing out of any sexual encounter. If you've decided you're uncomfortable, you should neither be forced into something you don't want, nor made to feel guilty for not going through with it.

As for implants, that seems like a really personal decision that shouldn't upset him one way or the other. Like someone else said in here, if you were good enough when you two met, not getting the surgery shouldnt change that.