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PrintableOttensen said: HamsterHuey said: "It's not a question of having to know you. I have two reasons; firstly, I am not attracted to you and secondly, even if I was; I would never date students. Hope you will find someone that answers your feelings soon. Good luck!"
This is good. Just take out the "even if i was" part so that you don't leave the door open for any misunderstanding or glimmer of hope on his part. But Huey's answer works too  I tried this once - she left the school! | |
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thekidsgirl said: I usually say that I'm seeing someone, or that I'm really busy and not looking to meet anybody anytime soon
 So basically, you lie. Does that come naturally? >> |
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i would just go out with them the once. an evening with me would be the quickest and most efficient way to get them out of my life forever. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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vivid said: Ottensen said: This is good. Just take out the "even if i was" part so that you don't leave the door open for any misunderstanding or glimmer of hope on his part. But Huey's answer works too I tried this once - she left the school! Yeah, or what if I start dating some other student. 
i would just go out with them the once. an evening with me would be the quickest and most efficient way to get them out of my life forever.
How can it be the quickest and most effiecient way? Isn´t it even more painful to have to deal with it in person? I don´t know what to do. I am having lesson tomorrow with them. I won´t know how to behave. Not looking forward to that.
One of my friends said she´d go that you never know...I don´t know. I am usually attracted or the guy draws my attention somehow immediately. This one hasn´t. [Edited 2/9/10 12:45pm] "When Michael Jackson is just singing and dancing, you just think this is an astonishing talent. And he has had this astounding talent all his life, but we want him to be floored as well. We really don´t like the idea that he could have it all." | |
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HamsterHuey said: thekidsgirl said: I usually say that I'm seeing someone, or that I'm really busy and not looking to meet anybody anytime soon
So basically, you lie. Does that come naturally? No, I'm actually a very bad liar  If you will, so will I | |
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HamsterHuey said: thekidsgirl said: I usually say that I'm seeing someone, or that I'm really busy and not looking to meet anybody anytime soon
So basically, you lie. Does that come naturally? I feel like a person like this is not worth turning me into a liar. Plus if you lie, you have a weakness that they could find out you're lying. Truth is a much, much better defender. However, when I traveled alone in the Middle East for six weeks, I wore a wedding ring and that alone cut out the crap really quick. | |
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dag said:[quote] vivid said: Yeah, or what if I start dating some other student.
i would just go out with them the once. an evening with me would be the quickest and most efficient way to get them out of my life forever.
How can it be the quickest and most effiecient way? Isn´t it even more painful to have to deal with it in person? I don´t know what to do. I am having lesson tomorrow with them. I won´t know how to behave. Not looking forward to that.
One of my friends said she´d go that you never know...I don´t know. I am usually attracted or the guy draws my attention somehow immediately. This one hasn´t. [Edited 2/9/10 12:45pm] Don't let him get the upper hand! Maintain your boundaries, don't explain, act professional. I agree with Ottensen that his response is a red flag. He's going to test you. I also hear you questioning yourself and I'm sure he's picking up on it too. | |
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heartbeatocean said: dag said: How can it be the quickest and most effiecient way? Isn´t it even more painful to have to deal with it in person? I don´t know what to do. I am having lesson tomorrow with them. I won´t know how to behave. Not looking forward to that.
One of my friends said she´d go that you never know...I don´t know. I am usually attracted or the guy draws my attention somehow immediately. This one hasn´t. [Edited 2/9/10 12:45pm] Don't let him get the upper hand! Maintain your boundaries, don't explain, act professional. I agree with Ottensen that his response is a red flag. He's going to test you. I also hear you questioning yourself and I'm sure he's picking up on it too. | |
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