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PrintableSupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: TheVoid said: Johnart could possibly be in the only man-couple that I would say I think would be great for kids.
Name dropping.... pure ploy! 
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Would you ever have a child?
Yes. How would you go about doing it? Lawd, I don't know
Do U think you would be a good father? Sometimes I do, sometimes I really don't. | |
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Alej said: Would you ever have a child?
Yes. How would you go about doing it? Lawd, I don't know
Do U think you would be a good father? Sometimes I do, sometimes I really don't.  | |
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johnart said: Alej said: Would you ever have a child?
Yes. How would you go about doing it? Lawd, I don't know
Do U think you would be a good father? Sometimes I do, sometimes I really don't. | |
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I'm surprised we haven't gotten the usual homophobic drivel from some of the usual suspects on this thread yet. | |
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Would you ever have a child?
Maybe. I would need 2 b in a stable LTR. How would you go about doing it? The old fashioned way. Yeah, I said it. Do U think you would be a good father? I can only hope. There is no such thing as the perfect parent and I'd need 2 remind myself of that a lot. DO you have a child and what are your experiences? Uncle 2 four great kids, but no kids of my own. [Edited 1/27/10 22:34pm] Listen to me on The House of Pop Culture podcast on itunes http://itunes.apple.com/u...d438631917 | |
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You know, I would like to say yes but I need to know how well I am in a looooong term relationship first. | |
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paisleypark4 said: Would you ever have a child?
It's unlikely. How would you go about doing it? Turkey-Baster, of course Do U think you would be a good father? I'm told so by my friends and family and students. DO you have a child and what are your experiences? N/A  | |
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vainandy said: paisleypark4 said:
Would you ever have a child? Hell naw. Do U think you would be a good father?
Nope.  **--••--**--••**--••--**--••**--••--**--••**--••-
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I wonder how much of the desire, drive and need for gay men to have kids stems from the early imprinting of societal expectations.
Don't you think nature came up with that desire just a little bit before society? | |
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Thank you for all your answers I read every single one of them just now. I really do appreciate the thoughts and the feedback Straight Jacket Funk Affair
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Lammastide said:  You really think that? I think it's never exclusively for the kids, but I know couples -- adoptive couples at least -- who chose to become parents to do some good for a child.
[Edited 1/27/10 17:57pm] Only then but children are either accidents or vanity projects. my kids were not accidents and certainly not vanity projects. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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vivid said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I wonder how much of the desire, drive and need for gay men to have kids stems from the early imprinting of societal expectations.
Don't you think nature came up with that desire just a little bit before society? I don't believe that men really truly ever want children. Rarely, sure. It's women that con them into believing that what she wants he wants. Women have that gift that way 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Shorty said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Only then but children are either accidents or vanity projects. my kids were not accidents and certainly not vanity projects. 1st point - I believe. 2nd point you believe. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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vivid said: I'm told so by my friends and family and students.
You're a teacher?  | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Shorty said: my kids were not accidents and certainly not vanity projects. 1st point - I believe. 2nd point you believe. tis true, but you state your beliefs so emphatically it's hard to find room for anyone elses beliefs. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: vivid said: [/b]
Don't you think nature came up with that desire just a little bit before society? I don't believe that men really truly ever want children. Rarely, sure. It's women that con them into believing that what she wants he wants. Women have that gift that way You are too funny, Richard. My wife didn't con me into thinking I wanted my first kid. She really wanted a kid, but, frankly, I remained rather "take it or leave it" to the idea all the way up to my daughter's birth -- then I was bowled over! And at that point the gratification wasn't some domestic/societal matter for me; it was some straight-up animal kingdom stuff!
And the idea of a second kid is probably more of my impetus than my wife's, though she's cool with it. I first brought it up. I've found having a daughter to be a huge blessing, I've found we're pretty good at being parents, we have the material/emotional/spiritual/etc. wherewithal to do it for two kids, and there are kids out there who desperately need a good home. Just seems to make sense for all parties involved.* (*All this, plus my daughter doesn't seem to like my taste in female headwear and footwear.  I need a little girl I can put a beret and some cute hobbit boots on.  )[Edited 1/28/10 12:27pm] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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paisleypark4 said: Would you ever have a child?
Not now until I have been in stable employment and a stable home life for 3 years How would you go about doing it? Adoption, possibly any neglected child in my larger family Do U think you would be a good father? Well I am a great uncle, so yes, I would be worried about the bullying the child would receive if picked on at school about their 2 dads. I would also be worried if the child became gay themselves. They would hopefully like Prince. DO you have a child and what are your experiences? Probably not answerable now So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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Alej said: vivid said: I'm told so by my friends and family and students.
You're a teacher? I manage now - but I was a teacher for 12 years. | |
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vivid said: Alej said: You're a teacher? I manage now - but I was a teacher for 12 years. That's hot. | |
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