JackieBlue said:

minneapolisgenius said:

Hate the word 'cock.' I don't hate it but I ain't feelin it.
Just don't use it around me please.

SUPRMAN said:

But I actually hate it. I've never heard a brutha I was with use that word, thank Gawd!!!

Oh my! Heyyyyy Jamie!

Why the hell don't these brothas take pictures when they're on full salute? HELLO?

myfavorite said:

Showing pics makes you a whore?
Oops . . . .
What if that's not what you meant . . .

(Yeah, there's pictures of me floating around out there. I even get sent them randomly.)

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

A limp dick is definitely bad PR.

SUPRMAN said:

I feel you... that shit makes my skin crawl

SCNDLS said:

It's really weird hearing a brother use it.
I generally have to stop and make a course correction.
(Up in here, it don't go down like that. Cease and desist or I will and you can go.)

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

Because it doesn't have to be hard to be admired.

SUPRMAN said:

True but if you're going to show it, why not in all its GOOD, GLORY, HALLELUJAH?

Y'all are crackin me the fuck up with your phobia of the word cock.

You can call it a dinwiddydinglepusher for all I give a fuck if it's good.

banks said:

Thanks for the pic, Banks.

I don't care for either popular term so I'm kinda caught and end up working around it by not referring to it at all.

JackieBlue said:

Your welcome babes.... You know i gotcha back

SCNDLS said:

Dick always reminds me of the boys I went to grade school with. They used that word all the time, so it reminds me of little stupid boys. That and "humping".

minneapolisgenius said:

Same.

SO not sexy. Neither one.

johnart said:

You gotta call it sumthin! I think this aversion to "cock" is a cultural thang.

SCNDLS said:

Dick, cock, 'his unit', 'his member'.....ain't we splittin' hairs?

TD3 said:

Depends on what you like. I like to hear a man describe his dick and what he's doing with it or gon' do with it whether it's during phone or actual sex. So, to me it definitely matters cuz the word cock makes me fucking cringe.

Like I said, I've never heard a brutha use that word during sex talk but my white friends say it all the time. That's why I think there's a definite difference in what's preferred.

SUPRMAN said:

Do you make 'em sign an agreement describing approved coital lingo?

SCNDLS said:

splain.

I'm with johnart, who damn cares. just let me have whatever it is

SCNDLS said:

i don't prefer hearing any of the words myself, if they must say something is hot then just tell me it's me (coz it actually works better), just don't go into details

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I did

PricelessHo said:

What about phone sex? It's hard not to call it sumthin!

SCNDLS said:

i forgot to mention i'm terrible at that so

SCNDLS said:

you explained sndls problem, not the cultural issue

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Oh! Well, I can't explain it or speak for all black folks. I'm just saying that in my experience in talking about sex with men and women, I've never heard a dude I'm fucking or just friends with or, even, black girlfriends talking about sex say "cock." Yet, we HAVE discussed how much that word annoys all of us, and how funny it is that we don't say it but folks of other races do. I have a homegirl who had a white fuck buddy and she always made fun of the way he'd refer to his "cawwwwck" and how she'd give him the side eye when he did it

SCNDLS said:

i can see where you're coming from by the way.

in here, there are many words for it (in Arabic), some of them could sound so vulgar as you go west of the country coz the word familiar there is less harsh sounding, so to speak. same with western region folks taking their own word east and getting mocked for it, or if they try use each other's words and so on

SCNDLS said:

You failed to get my double entendre.... my pun. "splitting hairs"....
Nevermind, if your dirty mind didn't get it ... it was no good.

TD3 said:

Oh shit, I'm slow today!

SCNDLS said: