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PrintableThen again, a little nip and tuck, so people can hardly tell is different than a total facelift or something!
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AnotherLover2 said: Then again, a little nip and tuck, so people can hardly tell is different than a total facelift or something!
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AzureStar said: bkw said: Can you possibly imagine how fucking boring it would be if we were all perfect?
I mean this! That would suck! It would suck... I am very happy that I am SO far from perfect. I consider myself "strangely unique."  me too! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: Then again, a little nip and tuck, so people can hardly tell is different than a total facelift or something!
(See, I'm conflicted! )I really do understand what you're saying. Do you think it will really make a difference? ( I ask this non-judgmentally because how could I know) When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else.  | |
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AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah...  sorry, but I've heard that one waaay too often. Maybe they were the right guys, and I just wasn't the "right" weight? Maybe they couldn't help it, they just naturally weren't attracted? I have to be realistic about it and not just blame them.
And really--I've learned it's not fair (though it's much easier) to tell other people they're lovely just as they are, when I can't even believe it about myself. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah... sorry, but I've heard that one waaay too often. Maybe they were the right guys, and I just wasn't the "right" weight? Maybe they couldn't help it, they just naturally weren't attracted? I have to be realistic about it and not just blame them.
And really--I've learned it's not fair (though it's much easier) to tell other people they're lovely just as they are, when I can't even believe it about myself. I know what you are saying. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah... sorry, but I've heard that one waaay too often. Maybe they were the right guys, and I just wasn't the "right" weight? Maybe they couldn't help it, they just naturally weren't attracted? I have to be realistic about it and not just blame them.
And really--I've learned it's not fair (though it's much easier) to tell other people they're lovely just as they are, when I can't even believe it about myself. I know what you are saying. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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| I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah... sorry, but I've heard that one waaay too often. Maybe they were the right guys, and I just wasn't the "right" weight? Maybe they couldn't help it, they just naturally weren't attracted? I have to be realistic about it and not just blame them.
And really--I've learned it's not fair (though it's much easier) to tell other people they're lovely just as they are, when I can't even believe it about myself. No, they were the wrong guys. If they can't appreciate YOU for who you are, then fuck 'em. They're not the ones for you. You are lovely... and I'm with you... I can say it to others and I really do mean it... but I see myself so far from lovely, hell, I don't see myself in the same universe as lovely half the time... | |
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AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"... 
Really. | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah... sorry, but I've heard that one waaay too often. Maybe they were the right guys, and I just wasn't the "right" weight? Maybe they couldn't help it, they just naturally weren't attracted? I have to be realistic about it and not just blame them.
And really--I've learned it's not fair (though it's much easier) to tell other people they're lovely just as they are, when I can't even believe it about myself. No, they were the wrong guys. If they can't appreciate YOU for who you are, then fuck 'em. They're not the ones for you. You are lovely... and I'm with you... I can say it to others and I really do mean it... but I see myself so far from lovely, hell, I don't see myself in the same universe as lovely half the time... Good Lord, woman, you don't even know what I look like! See, we're speaking about interiors of self with one another (you refering to me as "lovely"), yet both of us would admit that in order to fall for someone, there has to be a physical attraction. Right? So am I "wrong" because I am not attracted to someone sexually? Were these guys "wrong" because they didn't find me as attractive after I gained weight as perhaps they did before? To be fair--probably not! | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: tommyalma said: Please, ladies, don't. Any woman who thinks more self-confidently, as though you were larger in certain areas, is going to be treated differently. Guys respond to confidence.
Carrie has the right idea. It won't look or feel real. Love yourself. Although I hate to say this, there is only just a certain amount that 'confidence' will cover up...I know from experience. I was balls-to-the-walls confident, but my weight gain apparently said more to the guys than anything else. They were not the right guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah... sorry, but I've heard that one waaay too often. Maybe they were the right guys, and I just wasn't the "right" weight? Maybe they couldn't help it, they just naturally weren't attracted? I have to be realistic about it and not just blame them.
And really--I've learned it's not fair (though it's much easier) to tell other people they're lovely just as they are, when I can't even believe it about myself. No, they were the wrong guys. If they can't appreciate YOU for who you are, then fuck 'em. They're not the ones for you. You are lovely... and I'm with you... I can say it to others and I really do mean it... but I see myself so far from lovely, hell, I don't see myself in the same universe as lovely half the time... Good Lord, woman, you don't even know what I look like! See, we're speaking about interiors of self with one another (you refering to me as "lovely"), yet both of us would admit that in order to fall for someone, there has to be a physical attraction. Right? So am I "wrong" because I am not attracted to someone sexually? Were these guys "wrong" because they didn't find me as attractive after I gained weight as perhaps they did before? To be fair--probably not!I know what you look like. You had your profile picture up once.
No, I will not admit to that. lol... not for myself anyway. I am not attracted to men physically. Believe it or not... I have heard I am strange for that. But, you will never find me turning my head to look at a guy because of his looks. It doesn't happen. Sure, if someone points a supposedly good looking guy out to me, I will look and say "yep" and continue on. Intelligence and humor will get my attention, and if I fall for that, I could care less about their physical appearance TO AN EXTENT... you know... if their hygiene lacked and they had all of their teeth missing, etc..
I've dated some less than "handsome" guys in the past... but what I was attracted to was their mind and that's all that mattered to me. I just really, really, really like intelligent guys. But... I do know what you're saying.. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! We should have! But... that probably wasn't the best time for giggles, if you know what I mean. | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! We should have! But... that probably wasn't the best time for giggles, if you know what I mean. No, they were NOT. But if we could go back in a time machine, knowing what we know now...and...and...ya know...party and shit! | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! We should have! But... that probably wasn't the best time for giggles, if you know what I mean. No, they were NOT. But if we could go back in a time machine, knowing what we know now...and...and...ya know...party and shit! Yeah... that would work! We would have torn the town up! It would have been fun... really. | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! We should have! But... that probably wasn't the best time for giggles, if you know what I mean. No, they were NOT. But if we could go back in a time machine, knowing what we know now...and...and...ya know...party and shit! Yeah... that would work! We would have torn the town up! It would have been fun... really. Well, we shall see! I will still go home to Michigan at least 1 or 2X per year, most likely. | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! We should have! But... that probably wasn't the best time for giggles, if you know what I mean. No, they were NOT. But if we could go back in a time machine, knowing what we know now...and...and...ya know...party and shit! Yeah... that would work! We would have torn the town up! It would have been fun... really. :lol; I often think about things I could have done could I go back in time. What an advantage it would be to know what you know now when you were a teenager or in your early twenties. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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(But you'd have to show me your new boobies!  )[This message was edited Thu Jan 16 22:43:22 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2] | |
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bkw said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: I just noticed this thread is entitled: Plastic Sugerery--almost like "Sugary" I'll tell you a secret. Each time I click on this link... I say aloud to myelf.. "going to post in the Sugary Factory again"...
Really. Ah, yes, more and more I'm thinking that you and I should've gotten together for some giggles before I left Michigan! We should have! But... that probably wasn't the best time for giggles, if you know what I mean. No, they were NOT. But if we could go back in a time machine, knowing what we know now...and...and...ya know...party and shit! Yeah... that would work! We would have torn the town up! It would have been fun... really. :lol; I often think about things I could have done could I go back in time. What an advantage it would be to know what you know now when you were a teenager or in your early twenties. I think about that often... things that I would have done or said differently... things I would have paid more attention to... in fact, I was just writing about this very thing tonight! | |
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AnotherLover2 said: (But you'd have to show me your new boobies!
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[This message was edited Thu Jan 16 22:43:22 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2] Deal! I probably won't be able to take my hands off myself! | |
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AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: (But you'd have to show me your new boobies!
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[This message was edited Thu Jan 16 22:43:22 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2] Deal! I probably won't be able to take my hands off myself! I'll film you! | |
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AnotherLover2 said: AzureStar said: AnotherLover2 said: (But you'd have to show me your new boobies!
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[This message was edited Thu Jan 16 22:43:22 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2] Deal! I probably won't be able to take my hands off myself! I'll film you!  When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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sugerery ?
I won't be lettin anyone perform any sugerery on me surgery perhaps but SUGERERY ? not until they can at least explain what the hell it is. | |
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| Damn those edits, this time I won't even bother, let's just say that I'm speaking ghetto terminology, not ghetto but gitto | |
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I'm just now noticiing it  ... damn those edits | |
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LaVisHh said: I would get lipo-suction. Then a tummy tuck.
I'm right there with you. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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