I'm so bored and not tired...bare with me...or is it bear with me...I don't fucking know...

Anyhoo, why are some people so damn sexy and others so not?

How does this happen?

I reckon it's the feedback people receive during their early sexual life that make them behave the way they do later on. It might be looks related initially, but knowing you are sexy (because people have responded to you with desire) gives you the confidence to act sexy, whether you realise you are even doing it or not.

There is something to be said for that look in a person's eye that says "I know you and I will fuck later"

Some people just haven't got lucky like that

I actually don't think it's looks related all that much. I've met a couple of dudes that I didn't find all that hot but I suddenly wanted to have sex with them after seeing how much sex appeal the had.

And its funny to see how some women just have no sex appeal at all. I was looking at some pics on facebook (yes, I was creeping) and this chick....man, zero sex appeal, I could just tell by her pics. It was so weird.

hormones? pheromones?

my favorite is when people don't outwardly exude a lot of sex appeal but are awesome in bed

sex appeal isn't always instantly noticed...because it's not always based on physical attractiveness or appearance...I've met beautiful women with 0 sex appeal and met avarage women that exude it from every pore on their body...it's hard to explain but some got it some don't...I have no answers...

JustErin

Cinnie said:

Yes, my dear?

I don't know. I'm pretty fuckin drunk right now.

johnart said:

I'm sorry, that was totally unlady-like. Let's call it "tipsy".

johnart said:

i am a good, sober girl this evening. for the first time in 3 days.

evenstar3 said:

Yes, me too. And I'm not liking it at all.

JustErin said:

Drink with me.

johnart said:

We totally should have a drunk webcam party some time.

JustErin said:

my liver needed a break. i out-drank a guy my size last night

evenstar3 said:

It took me years to be able to do that. Impressive, young cricket, impressive.

JustErin said:

that would be awesome...but it could only be hot people...nothing worse than looking at ugly fuckers when you're drinking...

thejason said:

I reckon it can be played up or toned down depending what company you're in

thejason said:

Only the sexy people allowed. No drive thru liquor store ugly motherfuckers please.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

You think so? I don't.

JustErin said:

totally, like if someone doesn't think you are hot, they would behave differently, more standoffish

ZombieKitten said:

she's talking about me...

I have no idea why I give an org fuck about her...

JustErin said:

Santa brought me a webcam, so that would be a YES on my end.

ZombieKitten said:

Well, this one dude I knew, man...crazy sex appeal. He flat out rejected me one night....like it was brutal


and he was still a sexy fucker after that.

JustErin said:

he's a work friend who's been claiming i can't do it for weeks. can't wait for tuesday when we're all back in the office

thejason said:

It wasn't me who called you an ugly mofo!

johnart said:

Dude, seriously...this needs to happen some night.

JustErin said:

that's because you like that shit!

JustErin said:

all I wanted was some Makers Mark....I didn't deserve that...

ZombieKitten said:

No, not that brutal. I like assholes that will at least sleep with me...not reject me.