JayJai said:

That's how we do!

SCNDLS said:

Have you ever heard of a stone femme?

cborgman said:

Really?? I prefer 'em uncircumcised, partly because of that line.

PunkMistress said:

No, enlighten me.

tinaz said:

I didn't mean YOURS was nasty. And do you know how many straight men wish they could give themselves a blowjob???? Hell...if I could eat my own pussy I'd do it 24/7.







Oh...I forgot 24/7 was one of those sayings someone wishes would go away forever.

SCNDLS said:

A stone butch is a butch lesbian who does not like to have her genitals touched by her partner.

A stone femme is a femme lesbian who does not touch her partner's genitals. She just gets done, but doesn't do any of the doing.

PunkMistress said:

Prince.Org is so damn educational.
I hope its still around when I have children

I love this shit!

DanceWme said:

Seriously I don't know all of that myself.

noimageatall said:

PunkMistress said:

So why would anyone wanna be with a stone femme? I mean I understand people like to give, but NEVER receive!

DanceWme said:

I kno right! Damn!

PunkMistress said:

Thank you Lawd, that's the kinda lesbian I would be (you know, if I wasn't a gay man already)

tinaz said:

That's why stone butches are often paired with stone femmes.

A lot of stone butches do not identify as female, and don't identify with their female genitals. They like to give pleasure to women and that gets them off. In my experience they are also very giving and "gentlemanly" toward their women. This sometimes translates into macho possessiveness too.

And I'll probably get heat for this, but in my experience most stone femmes are bisexual (or closer to straight) and don't really have any interest in fucking women. They just like the way their stone butch girlfriends treat them and take care of them.

SCNDLS said:

Honey, you are so femme and fabulous, some stone stud would LOVE to have your fine ass on their arm (and on their face)!!!

thejason said:

very cool!

PunkMistress said:

Now, I've met chicks like these stone butches you talk about I just didn't know that's what was up. The cool thing about REAL lesbians (as opposed to the chicks that are really doing it to please some dude) is that they've always been real cool to me. They'll compliment me, buy a girl a drink, ask me to dance, and all that. Hell, I don't mind who tells me I'm cute.

But they'll all ask if I'm "straight fish" and when I say I am, they don't press the issue. Very polite. But these other fly by night just tryin' some shit out bitches are ultra aggressive and don't know the rules and be cruisin' for a bruisin'.

PunkMistress said:

Girl, you betta stop giving me ideas

Lawd, this thread TRULY has something for e'rybody.

Damn, here are the definitions on Wikipedia

A stone butch is a woman who is strongly masculine in character and dress, who tops her partners sexually (and sometimes emotionally), and who does not wish to be touched genitally. Not all stone butches identify in female terms, some are known to identify with male pronouns, and many stone butches do not identify themselves with lesbian or within the lesbian community. A common partner for a stone butch is a stone femme, who is a femme who bottoms sexually or who wishes not to touch the genitals of her stone butch partner. Butches are very diverse in emotion and sexual expression.

Stone femme has many different meanings:

a femme who is the bottom in sexual interactions
a femme who is attracted to or partnered with masculine or stone butches; who does not wish to sexually touch her partners' genitals[1]
an exceptionally femme femme (this sounds like it should be on a t-shirt
a femme top who does not wish to be genitally stimulated or touched by her partner during sex
[Edited 1/15/10 9:54am]

SCNDLS said:

you can always trust the org for some "learning" you wouldnt get in everyday life

SCNDLS said:

What, marry him and take a mistress?

Oh shit, seems like someone beat me to the coffee mug and t-shirt idea.

SUPRMAN said:

tinaz said:

You have tops that won't bottom and bottoms that never use theirs so . . .

SCNDLS said:

A gay man that won't douche that ass . . .

SUPRMAN said:

I almost added that part, so I guess that makes me a top.
[Edited 1/15/10 10:18am]

This is all so much to take in...

OK...
so since we're on this topic...
wat is the title for a woman who's a cross between a butch and femme,
likes femmes,
likes to do the touching & pleasing (to her femme partner),
doesn't want to be touched by her femme partner...
BUT only likes to be touched and fucked by men?

SCNDLS said:

A lot of tops out there taking dick then . . .