Mach said:

Oh shit.

The safe word is "banana".

Mach said:

i've got a whip too

It just honestly looks like too much work for me. Safe words, The right area to slap, how to slap, proper way of tying a slip knot. I don't have the time.

The org sure has been educational lately...

lazycrockett said:

I'd say it's about as much work as the anal douching... But probably a lot more fun for the Dom...

noimageatall said:

I would depend on what you're into. I've got friends on both sides of the spectrum.

sammij said:

Don't forget this

I tried it. An ex boyfriend sort of thought I'd be perfect to dominate him. I thought it was weird. Some guy I didn't even know barked at me for having an opinion on it, so um...yeah...I sorta left the ex and and the dominatrix world behind. It just wasn't for me.

>_< I'm more of the submissive type in the bedroom anyway. I can't boss people around very well.

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Eric, thank you very very much!

bboy87 said:

sammij said:

bboy87 said:

LadyLuvSexxy said:

Did you say please a lot? heehee. I know I probably would. I'm a better sub.

sammij said:

no problem.

I was friends with a "Dom" once, he was very ummm interesting.

sammij said:

there's lots to be learned here too...

www.collarme.com

check the forums...

RenHoek said:

hmmm, thank you!

I've only met two dudes that were true doms. I think a lot of guys say they are dominant but a lot just can't do it. Although I know I would make a kick ass dominatrix, being with a submissive man is a complete and utter turn off for me.

I've never really understood the whole whips and chains and leather scene...to me it's kinda silly, like kids playing dress up, like it's all an act and it's more about playing some preset role than it is about just doing exciting things to each other...but maybe that's just the sex shows I've been to.

I like to be dominated, in fact, I'm pretty sure some of the shit that I've been involved with would turn the average dom/dominatrix right off for being too rough and humiliating.

I've never had a safe word either.

lazycrockett said:

I know what you mean, just destroy the shit outta each other and screw all the safe rules.

JustErin said:

Domination doesn't have as much to do with sex as you think, though.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Nah. I just...hesitated. It was a very sad event.

sammij said:

But I didn't say it did.

So you are thinking of maybe doing this as a side job for a bit?

JustErin said:

Yeah once i move out, just something interesting to try

sorry, the way you wrote your post made it sound like the focus was on the sexual relations and not the power relations, my bad.

sammij said:

Although professional dominatrixes don't have sex with clients, they're still a part of the sex industry and, I would think, it's illegal. Equally as important, it'll fuck with your mind - perhaps scarring you irreversibly.

Not worth it, Sammi!

lazycrockett said:

Yeah, you just can't start beatin' someone; you gotta know which parts of the body are safe to beat and how.

It's entirely too much work.

I've never met one. I'm sheltered.

RenHoek said:

Bookmarked.

Ace said:

well that's a strike for "noooo"
thanks!