Thoughts?
Experience?
Know anyone?
Tips?
Stories?



I'm all ears.

I prefer to be dominated but I am fascinated by women who do this. Love the topic, Sammi.

Vendetta1 said:

thanks!
it came out of a conversation i had today, i was told i could probably do it well

and now that i think about it it sounds like fun..

i just know there's a lot more i need to know than safety words, trust issues, leather, studs n whips..



i'm kinda at this point in my life where i want to be able to say i've done or had unorthodox jobs

i think it'd be fun, and quite the experience... and side money!

sammij said:

I used to attend S&M parties here in Chicago. If there is anything like that there, I suggest you go to one. They would be more than happy to answer any questions you have.

Vendetta1 said:

i'll definitely have to check something like that out

sammij said:

Like Ivy, I'm a sub, but attending a party is a good idea.

I can also recommend some authors... Dossie Easton is a good start. She's coauthored a book or two on both bottoming and topping as well as other topics. Jay Wiseman too, I think he wrote SM101 which is a good start as well.


I mean

CarrieMpls said:

sammij said:

I think I have the perfect idea for what we should do next Saturday night

before I got married, I was a practicing Dom, with one submissive and one slave.

it has to be inside you. never let your sub/submissive top from below. never let
emotions get into your domination. be firm and don't waver.
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BlackAdder7 said:

Really?

tell me all about it.

what the fuck are you freaks talking about now....

I was so thinking about starting a thread sortof on this topic. I'm curious myself.

sammi you're canadian did you watch the tv series KinK?
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roodboi said:

down on your knees, you ...

Mach said:

hold that thought...

where's that delete your account link when I need it...

My friend/acquaintance Kate was one. I don't know if she's still doing it though. Let me know if you want to chat with her.

BlackAdder7 said:

i've been married for awhile. that's like being a sub without the sexual payoff, right?

Mach said:

That's hot.

thekidsgirl said:

omg yes!

CarrieMpls said:

Thanks!

BlackAdder7 said:

Sound advice, merci.

matthewgrant said:

YES!
i lurved that show

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

i just might, i'll let you know!

Vendetta1 said:

At a place I waited tables in chicago we had a couple private parties/demonstrations it was interesting.

sammij said:

same


you know i was watching another tv series(I think it's called Web Dreams) just on friday and a woman in it wants to become a dominatrix, she makes a few calls and although some of the doms chew her out over the phone she finally finds someone willing to take her on and gives her some hands on experience with one of her subs. I love these little documentary shows.

matthewgrant said:

yeah, i'm not sure i'm enough of a bitch to be a domme all the time
but i've been in the mood lately

A former good friend of mine was one in her 20's.


She's now a card carrying, registered, republican who thinks the War in Iraq is a war on terror.

TheVoid said:

damn, she got Stepforded

TheVoid said:

That's not so much of a switch.

Cinnie said:

i'm sayin

Vendetta1 said:

I got the boots and whip