Maybe this outfit would be less disturbing if it was worn in another context.

MarySharon said:

Such as?

SCNDLS said:

Open-crotch models are sometimes worn in porno.

novabrkr said:

SCNDLS said:

Such as ballet







what did u expect?
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I don´t think she has a bad body for her age, but that outfit is just ugly and doesn´t do her any good.

She is still nice 2 gaze upon.

MarySharon said:

I was racking my brain but looking at that second one, I'ma say, "NO" Not even is this appropriate for ballet, it's all a big mistake in any context.

Im still wonderin why you all think that after 40 a women goes to shit...

tinaz said:

I don't think that...for some, that is.

tinaz said:

It's not that it has to happen, but let's just say it's a lot easier to look great at 20 than at 40--male or female.

Pretty much every woman looks good at 20. Some do improve with age, but I think that has more to do with their behavior than nature.

NDRU said:

Disagree!!!

JustErin said:

I 2nd that...

tinaz said:

'cause she's been holding it for 39 years??

NDRU said:

I also think most men look better at 40 than 20... But then that could just be my age starting to show!

roodboi said:

tinaz said:

I don't think that. Some even get better.

But, there's no doubt her body changed drastically after those twins and all the surgery and working out will not restore her to her former glory. I'm sure that if she hadn't had kids or was pregnant with only one she prolly wouldn't have changed as much. But she's still a bad bitch.
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roodboi said:

Who knew when she dropped her load the ass was gonna go wit it?

JustErin said:

well I'm a straight man I look at them differently

tinaz said:

women look good from a younger age, it takes men a while to grow into their looks. I think maturity is attractive on men--and that is about more than pure physical appearance, but includes their character. I think women are [perhaps unfairly] judged on a more purely physical basis.
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NDRU said:

I think most of your statement is true... Im always getting irratated at women my age who look like shit or turn into men... why because we get older do some women stop trying to be attractive... Thats what its all about, not how old they are but how they just dont give a shit anymore...

SCNDLS said:

I agree with you here... She still looks great but its just a fact her ass has dropped and there aint no getting it back...

tinaz said:

It's not just her disappered ass, she's just boxy now. Some of the pics I saw of her preggers were so sad cuz she looked SOOOO uncomfortable. Her face even changed. It was crazy.


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tinaz said:

ah, interesting, that's not quite what I thought you meant. I thought you meant how they were perceived, but you meant more how they perceive themselves & the effort they put out.

My feeling is that some women don't want to be judged in that way anymore. Maybe they feel like their character is more important than being physically attractive (Personally I think both things are important).

Plus there's a lot of work involved for women (hair & makeup & heels) so I see some women adopt mens' styles--short hair, no makeup, jeans & tennis shoes--probably because it's a lot easier!

NDRU said:

It is easier I agree but where do they lose their femininity? At what point do you say...meh, i dont care anymore... I still like to feel girly, know that my husband still finds me attractive, etc... I cant imagine ever giving up what makes me look like a woman, and that isnt always about make up either... I think thats why women get old and ugly, cuz they dont care...

tinaz said:

40 doesn't have to be a death sentence; it's what you do with it.
Some of us are still "on the market" and can't afford to let ourselves go.
When you're over 40, it becomes harder because a lot of men- even if they are fat, balding and look like shit- think they are entitled to young hotties...

I always use the analogy of grocery shopping: Do people buy the dented can with rust and the label hanging off even if the contents are perfectly fine? No. They want a shiny new can.
I have to keep it "shiny", or I'll be sitting on that shelf forever...

NDRU said:

short hair if they still colour it to hide grey, cheaper and easier to do at home in the long run
comfy shoes because years of the wrong shoes play havoc on your spine and arches

yet neither of those have to make you look like a man either
they have funky comfy shoes and you can have cool hair even when it's short

ZombieKitten said:

yeah I have to say I don't understand women getting boy haircuts (and by that I don't mean "boy" like Victoria's Secret sell "boy shorts") unless it's purposely to look more like a boy.

As you said, you don't have to wear makeup & heels to look like a woman. And Halle Berry has done fine with short hair. Well, to choose a simpler style, lets say Sinead O'Connor never looked like a boy!

NDRU said:

well, sinead had the features to pull that off and Halle looks nothing like her age her hair on someone else might not look entirely feminine