lilJ said:

you reckon? only bad things?

me personally find such youngsters unattractive, but I don't think I would be a bad influence - I'd have a lot to teach them and show them

it could be a good temporary thing for both
he good for her ego,
she good for his experience

anyway, not anything I'm interested in trying!!

ZombieKitten said:

That wasn't my question tho.

SCNDLS said:

no, I know, I was just responding to lilJs comment

when my 3 guys are 20, I will probably only be advising them should they happen to ask me. What can I do if he is in love with a 40 year old? Do you mean that the potential for pain and hurt is worse? is the fear that should it become serious your son will possibly miss his chance to become a father?
or that people will talk and you will be shamed? I don't see the big deal really
I guess I would question her judgment, her motives as in "what do you see in him? what do you have in common" but seeing as it is my own beautiful son who has the sun shining out of his ass, I think that EVERYONE should think he is wonderful, even a 40 year old and 40 isn't that old

SCNDLS said:

I'm gonna post this GIF til I get tired of it. It's fuckin' hilarious
[Edited 1/4/10 21:27pm]

SCNDLS said:

dude has patience least.

NMuzakNSoul said:

SCNDLS said:

You just can't stay away from the young stuff, can ya?

uPtoWnNY said:

No baby, they trynna get at this well-seasoned

SCNDLS said:

I like you, I really do...

but well seasoned is the absolute fucking worst adjective for pussy ever....



EVER!!!!

roodboi said:

It made me think of Garlic salt

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Garlic Salt Douche...

roodboi said:

roodboi said:

You fucka!!! I'll have you know my marinade is exKRA tastee!

roodboi said:

With a touch of rosemary, bitch!

SCNDLS said:

Let Chef uPtoWnNY be the judge of that.

SCNDLS said:

uPtoWnNY said:

You ain't said nuthin' but a word. I'll mail you a sample

Graycap23 said:

My younger sister has a hx of dating men 20 years older than her.

I've always wanted to caution her, but she considers that interference so overall I've said nothing. She doesn't listen anyway, and gets pissy if you say anything other than notions of "You're fantastic! You make the best choices! You're the very smartest in the WHOOOOOLE family!"

So I just watched time and again as she hooked up with these guys. I haven't, one time, seen it go well for any kind of long term, but ce la vive. It is her life.

Nothinbutjoy said:

Would you say anything if it was your son with someone your age?

SCNDLS said:

You mean rosehairy right?

luv4u said:

Prince?

Fury said:

SCNDLS said:

When he was 20, my son was beating 40 year olds off with a stick. Now he's 24 and he's still like a pretty bunny to the cougars out there.

He's never been interested, as far as he's let me know. Maybe he's sharpened his tool with some of them, but there's only been one he's brought home and he's now married to her. His wife is older but only by 3 or 4 years, not 20.

Honestly, I'd probably want to kill the heffa and leave her in the desert, but, since my main desire is for my son to be happy, I'd let him do his thing and try to get to know her. If she were a nice woman, I'd be happy for them.

It wouldn't be an easy happy. A 20 year age difference is big, but in reality, every relationship has something to deal with.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Depends on the diner's preference

I don't think I can properly date a 20 year old. You have to go through all that bullshit all over again. I don't have time.

Now if it's strictly ballroom, then hey, it's on!!!!!

Nothinbutjoy said:

At least there's sexual congruence. Is that the right phrase?

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Damn, you gay . . . me too!

SCNDLS said:

God y'all are funny!!