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This shit reads like a lick-Princes-ass thread.

Explain. What about love do you want us to talk about?

Remember: This is general discussion. If you keep it broad,
this thread will end up being about anal sex and fisting eventually.

am the revolution..
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am the revolution..
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I don't think anal sex and fisting are a pre-requisite for a loving relationship or marriage, but they can't hurt.

No wait...

Imago said:

Lick my ass and fuck you.

am the revolution..
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Fauxie said:

Catty...was I right or wrong DWZ? You meant well.

While talking about anal sex and fisting is not specifically against site rules, clearly posting off-topic continuously will get you a warning.

So let's stay on topic, folks.

How do u feel about marriage? I feel fine about my marraige ~ marriage overall though it seems for many is a fleeting whim and a thousand other seemingly so, negitive things





What does it take for u 2 have a sucsessful relationship with another?

Honesty and Empathy


What does love mean 2 u and how can u best express it 2 another?

Love knows no human bounds ... that is real love in no way can be manipulated by people ...it either exsists or it does not

What have u found 2 be a sucsessful component in a healthy and balanced commitment with another? See above answers

DWZ said:

It works great for some people and not so well for others. I think far too many people get married too young and I think people make promises they don't actually believe they can hold up to and that makes me both sad and mad.

Well, considering I've never had one, I suppose I don't really know. I would imagine first and foremost is being honest and realistic with each other. And love certainly isn't enough, it takes dedication and hard work to make a relationship work.

Love means sacrifice and putting someone else's needs before your own from time to time. Not all the time, mind you. As for expressing it, we all have our ways we prefer, some like to be told, some prefer certain actions, etc. Finding out what your partner like best and utilizing those methods even beyond your own comfort seems the best way to me.

No tried and true methods from me, I've never really had one.

DWZ said:

I think marriage is a beautiful thing, and it's a commitment between one man and another man which shows a true bond. (Or one man and one woman if you will).


What does love mean to me? Hrrmmmm. I don't know.
For me it's when you picture yourself growing old and dying with somebody, whether it's a life partner, a sibling, or a group of friends. It's a bond you never picture will be broken, because ultimately no dispute or issue between you, in your mind is sufficient to break that bond.
For me, a successful component of a healthy and balanced commitment is not something I'm NOT qualified to speak about. I was in what I thought was one of those, but it was like being in a suffocating one-sided boobie-trap. And to escape feelings of abandonment and other emotions, I did things I should not have done when in and out of the relationship. I'm not ashamed of those things as I know they were also being done to me, but it only reinforced my view that nobody really truly knows what love is. Nobody really 'gets it', save maybe for mothers. There are just those who are lucky...then those who are not.
I rolled the dice, and ended up with a crap play.

But what do I do? Stop rolling dice? No... I'm just going roll the dice and not ponder my relationship too deeply. It will go where it needs to go in time.

I always see couples in relationships and wonder to myself if they are REALLY in love. Then I think to myself, was I ever really in love? Who the hell knows.

As far as anal sex and fisting goes, I personally don't think I would ever stick my fist in somebody's asshole. That's sort of rude. As far as anal, if I end up with a bossy bottom, I've learned to just kick them out of bed--I can jack off if I need to, I don't need whining and complaining. But I haven't had to do that since Feburary, and I'm über careful with casual sex now. It's not worth it anymore. But back to fisting. I just don't get it.


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