johnart said:

I would imagine so. Hopefully he lives up to his reputation as a great lover, since he's French, and all.

Oddly, this is the second female friend I have that's married a real Frenchman. Go figure.







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[Edited 12/23/09 23:00pm]

ernestsewell said:

Well I'll tell you this, when we went to Paris I wanted to fuck everyone.

Everyone.


Every. one.

johnart said:

I feel the same way if I went to England. GAWD that accent! Aussie ranks a tad higher, but UK is closer.

johnart said:

Hallelujah and Amen!

awwww that was really nice! Im at work so it took about 6 times to keep trying to read it without being interrupted.

Im glad that you shed your veil of hate and fear and that you turned out to be a positive and open minded person.

You got me teary eyed.

What a wonderful story. You are both lucky to have each other.

The things I've learned throughout my life is that you don't have to be white to be racist. I've gotten it from everyone, and yes, even gay folks. It's horrible.

ernestsewell said:

i personally like the scottish accent and irish accent.

johnart said:

Remind me, one day, to tell you about Amsterdam.....
[Edited 12/24/09 12:40pm]

Awww, thanks for the sweet story dude...you really caught me off guard.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Tell us about Amsterdam. Start a new GD thread.

babynoz said:

Off guard? hehehe What did you think it was going to be about?

ernestsewell said:

I'm just not used to this side of you and it's really touching.

babynoz said:

Lord, I'm not some hard assed angry guy or something. I'm just blunt, not angry. And yes...I have a soft side (but it's usually covered w/ a nice pair of boxer briefs. LOL)

ernestsewell said:

With little hearts on 'em,

Seriously though, good friendships are precious and I'm glad you've found each other.
[Edited 12/24/09 15:13pm]

babynoz said:

I can't imagine what the past 18 years would have been like without her. Even without the lessons on racism, her guidance has proved priceless. To pull a Prince line: Coincidence vs. Fate?


Fate.

ernestsewell said:

NOT! HAHAHHAHA!!!

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

This is beautiful, Ernest. Thank you

jeami said:

It's simple, attraction is more powerful than prejudice. Think of the misogynist who hates women. They scare him cuz he doesn’t know what they want and feels like he hasn’t been treated fairly by them in the past. Does that mean he would never sleep with a woman if given the chance?
Plus to a man having sex with a woman isn’t necessarily about positive feelings, it might be about dominance or power. Same with a racist. He might get a little kick out of sleeping with black women so he can feel like he got ‘revenge’ against the black guys for sleeping with white women. Maybe even he’s intimidated by black men so to be with a black woman is like having his own masculinity affirmed.
[Edited 12/26/09 7:37am]

jeami said:

it sums up with one word.....stupidity!

nyse said:

Damn! You are way too nice to be called any nasty names.

Great story, Ernest. As you said in your original post, people are in your life, long term or short term, for a reason. I truly believe that!