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AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: Stop playing the victim role for sympathy..you know better than this.
Your Psychology 101 is not going to cut it here. Look who's talking !  It isn't anything to do with psychology ..this shit is OBVIOUS to any layman.I backed off and gave up on the topic of men/women and sex because it took a nasty turn with your comment. This is not "playing the victim", it's realizing that it went too far to remain playful. I am continuing on this thread because you repeatedly make inaccurate statements about what I said and what I meant. Again, not "victim" behavior.[/quote] No what you did was state your piece and then try to keep on this "rd was mean to me" schtick failing to se any wrongdoing or misunderstanding on your part whatsoever. Ive merely been playing catch-up trying to protect my name is all from your accusations. "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: I don't know your reputation here or anywhere, and that's not where I'm functioning from. (Although apparently, YOU are). I don't need or want any apology from you anyway...
Im functioning form my intergtrity because you are trying to assisnate my character which is surprising but expected. Give me a fucking break--I am not trying to assassinate your character! You're doing that all on your own. The thread speaks for itself, and you've done FAR more mudslinging than I have. If thats the cae then why do you kep responding for the last ten posts u made? So, in your mind, continuing this conversation (regardless of what's said) is assassinating your character? Um no...its when u add bold print etc trying to say what was my intent etc--stuff like that. My "bold print" is emphasizing certain words so that it sounds the way I speak--not to "assassinate" your character. Who's playing the victim now? The words are the words, regardless of what's boldfaced and what isn't. I don't need to get all subliminal and shit, the words can speak for themselves. | |
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For the record, I have usually paid. Somehow, I always felt if a girl friend wanted to pay to dine, something was wrong
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: Stop playing the victim role for sympathy..you know better than this.
Your Psychology 101 is not going to cut it here. Look who's talking ! It isn't anything to do with psychology ..this shit is OBVIOUS to any layman.I backed off and gave up on the topic of men/women and sex because it took a nasty turn with your comment. This is not "playing the victim", it's realizing that it went too far to remain playful. I am continuing on this thread because you repeatedly make inaccurate statements about what I said and what I meant. Again, not "victim" behavior. No what you did was state your piece and then try to keep on this "rd was mean to me" schtick failing to se any wrongdoing or misunderstanding on your part whatsoever. Ive merely been playing catch-up trying to protect my name is all from your accusations.
"Protect your name"--oh my goodness!
(here, let me fix rdhull's quote problem....) [This message was edited Mon Jan 13 23:31:11 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2] | |
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AnotherLover2 said: Nah..she's busy being hysterical for many reasons and not because what she says ( I hurt her). Its basically due that she wasnt used to me..most lay down to her because she likes to come off as sage advice lady with some schooling etc and her pride is hurt and theres nothing that can make it better.
Once again, completely unnecessary. You're regressing, big time, having to resort to petty insults such as this. My posts would most definitely don't reflect a "hysterical" point of view. You're projecting your own shit big-time here.
Im just being forthright . You have literally been hysterical since your second post lol. Pissed of beyond all pisstivity as usual when it comes down to men and women issues. Partly because you thought I condoned biological makeup lol. Projecting?..dont give me that Psych 502 stuff please. I know all about it. . [This message was edited Mon Jan 13 23:31:49 PST 2003 by rdhull] "Climb in my fur." | |
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AnotherLover2 said: "Protect your name"--oh my goodness!
that was dumb huh? lol "Climb in my fur." | |
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I OFTEN take friends out to dinner (female and male) just to do it- no strings attached, no hopes of anything developing. What's wrong with simply making someone's day? What's wrong with simply wanting to spend time with someone away from the hectic schedule?
As for two people finding each other attractive and maintaining a platonic relationship, it is entirely possible. I have a friend Joanna who models and I can certainly see why. However, we both know that a relationship would never work out for us. There really is no tension and we have a blast the way things are. | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: Nah..she's busy being hysterical for many reasons and not because what she says ( I hurt her). Its basically due that she wasnt used to me..most lay down to her because she likes to come off as sage advice lady with some schooling etc and her pride is hurt and theres nothing that can make it better.
Once again, completely unnecessary. You're regressing, big time, having to resort to petty insults such as this. My posts would most definitely don't reflect a "hysterical" point of view. You're projecting your own shit big-time here.
Im just being forthright . You have literally been hysterical since your second post lol. Pissed of beyond all pisstivity as usual when it comes down to men and women issues. Partly because you thought I condoned biological makeup lol. Projecting?..dont give me that Psych 502 stuff please. I know all about it. . [This message was edited Mon Jan 13 23:31:49 PST 2003 by rdhull] I think you confuse "hysterical" with "animated". And I think you are attempting to push buttons using that particular word. Finally, your attempt at John Edwards psychic abilities is wasted--you really don't know what I thought about you. Let's just say it probably wasn't nearly what you thought it was. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: I think you confuse "hysterical" with "animated".
I dont confuse them but youre right--i should have said animated And I think you are attempting to push buttons using that particular word.
Finally, your attempt at John Edwards psychic abilities is wasted--you really don't know what I thought about you. Let's just say it probably wasn't nearly what you thought it was.
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Ready to stop now and make up? | |
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Moonbeam said: I OFTEN take friends out to dinner (female and male) just to do it- no strings attached, no hopes of anything developing. What's wrong with simply making someone's day? What's wrong with simply wanting to spend time with someone away from the hectic schedule?
As for two people finding each other attractive and maintaining a platonic relationship, it is entirely possible. I have a friend Joanna who models and I can certainly see why. However, we both know that a relationship would never work out for us. There really is no tension and we have a blast the way things are. I never meant to mean that these platonic etc events cant happen or dont. I was talking in general and dealing specifically in dating..especially when a potential date calls and its a female asking a guy out etc . "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: Moonbeam said: I OFTEN take friends out to dinner (female and male) just to do it- no strings attached, no hopes of anything developing. What's wrong with simply making someone's day? What's wrong with simply wanting to spend time with someone away from the hectic schedule?
As for two people finding each other attractive and maintaining a platonic relationship, it is entirely possible. I have a friend Joanna who models and I can certainly see why. However, we both know that a relationship would never work out for us. There really is no tension and we have a blast the way things are. I never meant to mean that these platonic etc events cant happen or dont. I was talking in general and dealing specifically in dating..especially when a potential date calls and its a female asking a guy out etc . And all I was saying is that I don't want to feel like the only reason a man wants to spend time with me or do something caring for me, like buy dinner, means there are sexual strings attached. | |
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rdhull said: Moonbeam said: I OFTEN take friends out to dinner (female and male) just to do it- no strings attached, no hopes of anything developing. What's wrong with simply making someone's day? What's wrong with simply wanting to spend time with someone away from the hectic schedule?
As for two people finding each other attractive and maintaining a platonic relationship, it is entirely possible. I have a friend Joanna who models and I can certainly see why. However, we both know that a relationship would never work out for us. There really is no tension and we have a blast the way things are. I never meant to mean that these platonic etc events cant happen or dont. I was talking in general and dealing specifically in dating..especially when a potential date calls and its a female asking a guy out etc . You're right in your assessment of the way a lot of males think. Dead on in fact! I guess I've been out of the dating loop for too long. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: Ready to stop now and make up?
Yes..I didnt mean for nor use that example to hurt you etc and thats the truth. Im sorry if it did and I wish I could take it back since it hurt you. Sometimes I dont use the best judgement in quick debates etc. but Im fallable in my debates I guess. "Climb in my fur." | |
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AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: Moonbeam said: I OFTEN take friends out to dinner (female and male) just to do it- no strings attached, no hopes of anything developing. What's wrong with simply making someone's day? What's wrong with simply wanting to spend time with someone away from the hectic schedule?
As for two people finding each other attractive and maintaining a platonic relationship, it is entirely possible. I have a friend Joanna who models and I can certainly see why. However, we both know that a relationship would never work out for us. There really is no tension and we have a blast the way things are. I never meant to mean that these platonic etc events cant happen or dont. I was talking in general and dealing specifically in dating..especially when a potential date calls and its a female asking a guy out etc . And all I was saying is that I don't want to feel like the only reason a man wants to spend time with me or do something caring for me, like buy dinner, means there are sexual strings attached. I know that RD isn't like that. But sadly enough, a lot of "mature" men are ALL about sex. It just comes down to insecurity, I think. Those guys that really ARE all about sex aren't really in it for only the pleasure. They want to be able to brag about it as well and detail their conquests to their peers in order to be viewed as masculine. Fortunately, though, most females are rather perceptive about intentions. | |
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Do you two want to go out for dinner now?!
I suggest photos beforehand would be a bad idea for both parties  Just let nature take its course... | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: Ready to stop now and make up?
Yes..I didnt mean for nor use that example to hurt you etc and thats the truth. Im sorry if it did and I wish I could take it back since it hurt you. Sometimes I dont use the best judgement in quick debates etc. but Im fallable in my debates I guess. And I'm sorry I didn't take the time to ask you exactly what you meant by some of your posts, and that I implied you only care for your wife sexually. I was just trying to get you to admit that women mean more to you than sex. Hmmm, I wonder if we can get this thread deleted if we ask a moderator?  | |
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Anji said: Do you two want to go out for dinner now?!
I suggest photos beforehand would be a bad idea for both parties Just let nature take its course... NO WAY--he's SOOO married, silly! | |
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Oh my... :O I wondered why this thread got so long
Both of y'all hush up! Sophia home now - pass me dem peas!!   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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CalhounSq said: Oh my... :O I wondered why this thread got so long
Both of y'all hush up! Sophia home now - pass me dem peas!! I am exhausted, actually. Now I have to nurse my wounds and crawl to bed...I feel like I'm in Fight Club!  | |
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umm...never had that problem. I'm always the one being asked. _______________________________
Miss Cute
For whatever it's worth, I'm sorry. | |
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awww...  I'm so happy to see that you two worked things out. I like you both and it was distressing to see you hurting each other.  | |
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AnotherLover2 said:
--- rdhull said: --- AnotherLover2 said: --- You win, rdhull. You pulled out the personal, hurtful thing and, I'll admit, I am no match for that. I would not EVER do that to you, bring up something like that in order to shut you down. --- Ya know what? Im am so tired of this bullshit tactic..someone wants to debate and gets to say whatever they want but then they get offended and try the "you win..you pulled out the hurtful personal" to make them look good etc. Remember the steady pussy comment about my missus? That wasnt personal? Mine was NOT meant to shut you down or even as a get back as god is my witness, but your steady pussy was sure meant to "aha..what a guy u are to your lady" comment. I cannot believe this but I should have expected it. Maybe I shouldnt have made that as an example. If I knew that youd frwak or was still upset over it i wouldnt have and thats the gods honest truth..but theres no way to win this ( sure RD, anyone would know that) etc. And Im not trying to "win" anything. --- I obviously have no personal information about your wife or your marriage. My point was to go to the extreme example, as you seemed to be doing. Not for one minute did I think it was true. But you knew of my situation first hand--yes, I put it out there, but as a warning about online romances. [This message was edited Mon Jan 13 22:29:37 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2] --- Uh huh..first it started with u calling me The Chronic so to speak when u entered seeing another man-woman thread then call my wife "steady pussy". Well see Im not the neanderthal you think I am because that WAS a low blow to my wife whom I love dearly..yet I did bring up that exmaple as a mudslinging tactic or to hurt you. I still stand by my point though. added addendum but too late..I did NOT bring up that example as a mudslinging tactic etc. I forgot the word "NOT" in front of "did" ..dammit. No wonder it went on like this. The last sentence and previous one before it should show that since it wouldnt make sense in context. But If I would have went back and re read what I said like Anotherlover said I should have I would have realized my faux pas that much sooner and I can see why someone would be upset after me mistakenly saying that. Thats why I was so steadfast about her getting it all wrong because I thought she was crazy for saying something I did not write when in actuality I did albeit mistakenly. But it looks like "yeah the more you explain" but I just had to. Sorry for bringig this up again etc.We apologized,no beef. Sorry for this.End trans . "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: ... Pissed of beyond all pisstivity...
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It was late. Folks were gettin tired. Everyone said there piece, and it got personal. The two of you recognized that, eventually, and that is very cool.  | |
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LaVisHh said:
It was late. Folks were gettin tired. Everyone said there piece, and it got personal. The two of you recognized that, eventually, and that is very cool. yeah but it could have ended way before if I hadn't made that boo boo..that boo boo caused a lot of continued arguing. Im surprised she even considered making up with that as it stood before I just now corrected it. I commend her. "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: LaVisHh said:
It was late. Folks were gettin tired. Everyone said there piece, and it got personal. The two of you recognized that, eventually, and that is very cool. yeah but it could have ended way before if I hadn't made that boo boo..that boo boo caused a lot of continued arguing. Im surprised she even considered making up with that as it stood before I just now corrected it. I commend her. She is one smart lady. I am sure she will be back and see what you have just explained. | |
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Org Fight Club!
rdhull, s'allright. Just go back and edit like I did, and you'll look just peachy! | |
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