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TODAY is Adoption Day! **Now with PIC!** As most of you know, JerseyKRS and I got married and formed a twisted little Brady Bunch not too long ago: me and my two daughters, him and his daughter and son.
Before we met Chris, it was just me, Rosie and Mari. Their biological father chose drugs and being crazy over his kids, but we were doing pretty well just the three of us. It was exhausting at times being mom and dad, but my girls made it worth it. When Chris came into the picture, though, it became clear what they had been missing, what I couldn't give them. Sometimes I watch him warning them about boys, changing a tire on their bicycle, filling out their emergency cards from school, or rolling his eyes and throwing up his hands at all the girly hair accessories cluttering up his house, and my heart fills with gratitude. Tomorrow, we go to court to finalize his adoption of Rosie and Mari. We have already been a family for a couple of years now, but tomorrow a judge will bang a gavel and make it legal. I just wanted to share this happy news with you all, who have been so supportive of our family. YAY! [Edited 12/14/09 13:38pm] | |
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Your family is truly blessed. |
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that's amazing | |
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Thanks, guys.
We are so, so blessed. We have no fucking money for Christmas after paying the lawyer (of course it ended up ballooning to three times their initial estimate), but I think this is the best Christmas present! I'm looking forward to everyone having the same last name. | |
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I'm looking forward to the additional child tax credits. | |
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To make a thief, make an owner; to create crime, create laws. | |
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LOVE ♪♫♪♫ ♣¤═══¤۩۞۩ஜ۩ஜ۩۞۩¤═══¤♣ | |
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This is so amazing. | |
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Beautious ! | |
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I got all misty-eyed. I'm so happy for you guys. | |
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congratulations!! | |
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Absolutely beautiful!
Congratulations! | |
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That is AMAZING!!!!
OMG! "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
johnart says: "I'm THE shit" | |
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PunkMistress said: As most of you know, JerseyKRS and I got married and formed a twisted little Brady Bunch not too long ago: me and my two daughters, him and his daughter and son.
Before we met Chris, it was just me, Rosie and Mari. Their biological father chose drugs and being crazy over his kids, but we were doing pretty well just the three of us. It was exhausting at times being mom and dad, but my girls made it worth it. When Chris came into the picture, though, it became clear what they had been missing, what I couldn't give them. Sometimes I watch him warning them about boys, changing a tire on their bicycle, filling out their emergency cards from school, or rolling his eyes and throwing up his hands at all the girly hair accessories cluttering up his house, and my heart fills with gratitude. Tomorrow, we go to court to finalize his adoption of Rosie and Mari. We have already been a family for a couple of years now, but tomorrow a judge will bang a gavel and make it legal. I just wanted to share this happy news with you all, who have been so supportive of our family. YAY! That is beautiful! Just beautiful! | |
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PunkMistress said: As most of you know, JerseyKRS and I got married and formed a twisted little Brady Bunch not too long ago: me and my two daughters, him and his daughter and son.
Before we met Chris, it was just me, Rosie and Mari. Their biological father chose drugs and being crazy over his kids, but we were doing pretty well just the three of us. It was exhausting at times being mom and dad, but my girls made it worth it. When Chris came into the picture, though, it became clear what they had been missing, what I couldn't give them. Sometimes I watch him warning them about boys, changing a tire on their bicycle, filling out their emergency cards from school, or rolling his eyes and throwing up his hands at all the girly hair accessories cluttering up his house, and my heart fills with gratitude. Tomorrow, we go to court to finalize his adoption of Rosie and Mari. We have already been a family for a couple of years now, but tomorrow a judge will bang a gavel and make it legal. I just wanted to share this happy news with you all, who have been so supportive of our family. YAY! | |
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That is fantastic this is something I plan to do as well. I inherited 3 girls who I love like i put them here and I know Chris feels that way with Rosie and Mari love is a truly beautiful thing. | |
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That is absolutely beautiful. Congratulations! [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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That is some of the best news I have heard all week! Congrats I am very happy for all of you!!!! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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I'm all teary eye'd with this news. You two are a pretty awesome couple, settin' the bar mighty high...
A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon | |
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their Dad is a hairy photowhore.... | |
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This is nice and all, but you're not truly a family until you girls all make up his face -- you know, lipstick, eye shadow, the whole nine... while he sleeps. Do this and report back to us. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: This is nice and all, but you're not truly a family until you girls all make up his face -- you know, lipstick, eye shadow, the whole nine... while he sleeps. Do this and report back to us.
...And don't forget the photos! Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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awesome news!
Congrats to all | |
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That is fantastic Congratulations! We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color. Maya Angelou | |
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Congrats! The check. The string he dropped. The Mona Lisa. The musical notes taken out of a hat. The glass. The toy shotgun painting. The things he found. Therefore, everything seen–every object, that is, plus the process of looking at it–is a Duchamp. | |
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PunkMistress said: ...rolling his eyes and throwing up his hands at all the girly hair accessories cluttering up his house....
I had to look for my eldest daughter's mobile, my middle's DS and my wife's bangles on Friday before a weekend trip away. I turned the house upside-down but only found the DS and a gazillion hair-bands, bobbles, clips, clasps, closps, clusps, etc, etc! If I had a pound for every hair-thing I found on Friday, I'd be // Congrats! | |
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U guys | |
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Thanks so much, everyone. Reading your posts is making me teary-eyed!
We hear so much about broken families and deadbeat dads, I love celebrating the men who are working like hell to keep their families together. | |
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Lammastide said: Lammastide said: This is nice and all, but you're not truly a family until you girls all make up his face -- you know, lipstick, eye shadow, the whole nine... while he sleeps. Do this and report back to us.
...And don't forget the photos! | |
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