I agree w/ everyone else - do NOT see him/meet him under any circumstances. Also, the suicide mention could be real OR it could be to manipulate you (or a bit of both) - don't fall for it. You're not responsible for his life. It didn't work out between you two & he's got to find a way to pick up the pieces & move the fuck on. You have, so stay on your path & be happy. He'll find his way.

and if you were ever married to him, you must have a divorce, none of that living separate nonsense....then he thinks you're a revolving door while hes moving in and out of relationships or what have you.

CalhounSq said:

pretty much. been there done that.

lisa merie presley got out the relationship she had with michael jackson obviously cuz what she witnessed what happened to her father Elvis. She seen Michael was already on a downward spiral. and didn't want to end up the same legacy/predicament so that was a good choice for her leaving.

watching your own father going downhill is sad
[Edited 12/14/09 17:45pm]

not really lol

ThreadCula said:

Yes. I worry that they're still breathing.

... just pityful.

At some of the responses


Well...Since I started this thread,he's been calling and texting.
Asking me to meet him. He said he doesnt understand why I wont give him a second chance.

I answered his call yesterday and I told him AGAIN,that we will never get back together.

He went on to say that I was hurting his feelings on purpose. I told him I wasnt. I really dont care that much to hurt his feelings....I've moved on.

I'll be changing my number,so I wont be hearing from him. Let's just hope I never run into him while I'm out.

ThreadCula said:

SCNDLS said:

what's that face for?

sammij said:

At that fool for trynna be manipulative/intimidating to the point she has to change her number
[Edited 12/15/09 11:20am]

SCNDLS said:

Oh lol Im not changing my number because of him. His ring tone is "Silent"
My contract is almost up. I'll be getting a new phone and new number.

ThreadCula said:

Oh, okay cuz I was finnta say. You could transfer your existing number to whatever company you switch to if you still wanted to keep it tho.

But he's still being manipulative by playing the pity card
[Edited 12/15/09 11:41am]

SCNDLS said:

Yeah...I think I'll start fresh. Whoever had this number before was a teenage boy.
I still get texts and pics from his lil girlfriends. His teacher even called once.

ThreadCula said:

Alrighty, then.

I'm pissed. I hate to post but breaking up wit my ex was good. cuz ya know if he can't show his emotions and stuff about me and be real for once, then fine. someone who never smiles or anything, pretends to be something he's not. if he thinks i'll be sorry like he says, im just laughing

fuck you ,,,,,fuck you for life

i also fucking found out right now online that the guy i dated the other night
he thinks he was playing me but i was really playing him i didn't really like him yall. he gets online and shit and hes like posting a photo of him and this fat chick "being a daddy is great".

im not sure if thats really him in the photo, cuz one he has a michael jackson tribute, HE LIED IT SAYS HE'S FROM CALORADO IN THE PROFILE!!!!!
OMG!!!!

on the front page and then there another account with his name on it but it says he from a different state/different age from the other profile

wow what should i believe?


fuck you too.

This is bullshit! that night when i gave that guy my number he probley got pissed off.

im planning to leave my house any day now and if i catch him in the streets (i think he left back to California like he says he is with his friends) he's an impersonator of michael jackson.

Another words when i leave my house to seek counceling. i'm not sure if he left town or is BULLSHITTING me!

I'm sorry but michael jackson fans and prince fans DON'T MIX
we love hard and hate hard

THIS IS A LIE!!! he probley isn't
i'll just ignore him
[Edited 12/16/09 17:52pm]

having dated someone bi-polar who went off his meds, I whole heartedly think (as so many have)

1. break ties. all ties.
2. do not be the one he can talk to. he is doing this to connect with you, not because he needs to talk to someone.
3. If he is suicidal, he will either seek help elsewhere, or kill himself, neither of which you are responsible for.
4. Tell his sister. Tell her today.
5. document all conversations you had, communications, etc. in case you need them in court.

I felt the "red flags" dealt with the phone calls, the suicidal talk, and eventually the death threats. It was bad. Really bad.
Don't talk to him. Ever. Again. He cannot deal with it.

i would only worry about my ex if i get caught by him.....