Today's the big day . . .

Imago said:

! I just knew that was gonna come out wrong

but no, i just meant i was going to be keeping her in my thoughts today as she undergoes the procedure.
[Edited 12/10/09 9:59am]

SCNDLS said:

I've always been of the mind that no "truly" straight guy would be sexually involved with a person with a penis regardless of their situation unless they were somewhat gay, bi, or something.

But I've heard several people that are pre-op refer to their significant others as straight males.

NastradumasKid said:

me too!

where's she getting it done at?
[Edited 12/10/09 9:26am]

Imago said:

! I just knew that was gonna come out wrong

but no, i just meant i was going to be keeping her in my thoughts today as she undergoes the procedure.
[Edited 12/10/09 9:59am]

Exactly. And they always do. But it's up to us to let them know that they are not no matter how much they don't want to accept it.

matthewgrant said:

I was finnta say!

now that she's okay- nosy question-

what exactly precisely specifically happens during the whole process of gender transition? and don't you have to pyschologically qualify?

now that she's okay- nosy question-

what exactly precisely specifically happens during the whole process of gender transition? and don't you have to pyschologically qualify?

Evvy said:

I saw that the doc's give the patients after the surgery these dildo looking thingies they have to insert in thier inside out penis.

KidaDynamite said:

Yeah, it's to help them dilate and form the cavity

All went well, she's been walking around since Friday and is already off her pain meds. She goes home on Friday!

So, I was in Vegas this weekend and got a chance to see a friend of mine who informed me that next week she will be completing her final phase of her transition from male to female. I'm so excited for her that she finally gets to be the person she feels she was meant to be. I think she's very courageous and I'm so proud of her. I'm totally cool with her decision and support her 100%.

On Saturday, I spent time with her and her boyfriend of more than a year. When they met, he thought she was a girl and when she told him her status he decided to pursue a relationship with her. He apparently is totally straight. Since I'm a nosy ass heffa, I asked her how the sex was. And she said it was good, when they do it. I asked, "Is he uncomfortable because of . . . well . . . you know." She said she wasn't sure but thinks things will improve after her surgery. After spending time with both of them, it's obvious that he loves her very much cuz he was so sweet and attentive and all that.

I've always been of the mind that no "truly" straight guy would be sexually involved with a person with a penis regardless of their situation unless they were somewhat gay, bi, or something. But I've heard several people that are pre-op refer to their significant others as straight males. What do ya'll think? Straight dudes, if you fell in love with a girl who was transitioning would you overlook her penis and get down? Would you question your sexuality?

Exactly. And they always do. But it's up to us to let them know that they are not no matter how much they don't want to accept it.

All went well, she's been walking around since Friday and is already off her pain meds. She goes home on Friday!

Evvy said:

I saw that the doc's give the patients after the surgery these dildo looking thingies they have to insert in thier inside out penis.

SCNDLS said:

Oh, heckie naw.

KidaDynamite said:

ok so this is the org and no one posted the road map to gender transition surgery? y'all slippin

ThreadBare said:

Is that all you got for me?

SCNDLS said:

http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/...S/SRS.html

ThreadBare said:

Is that all you got for me?

SCNDLS said:

As in, "he ain't straight."

ThreadBare said:

I got that, I thought you'd break it down for me

Ima say dude is a bisexual and in the closet about it. Or shit maybe out of the closet since there are some dudes that specifically look for and date transgendered. Honestly, a truly straight dude does not want to play with, look at, or be anywhere near a dick that is not his own. Also straight dudes tend to have that ego trip about knocking a woman up.

Now if your friends' man is okay with the penis, looking at it, even touching it, in no hurry for the surgery to get done, prefers rear ending it and finds other transgendered persons sexy...then he aint straight yesterday, today or tomorrow. But hell, that makes him the perfect man for your friend. He is accepting of things as they are with no hassle i.e. no explanations required. I hope he treat her right.