I'm a firm believer that people should live their lives as they see fit and I think it's wonderful that your friend is doing what she wants SCNDLS...


but this thread has successfully strengthened my love for my penis....I'm hugging it right now...and I never, ever wanna let it go....



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ZombieKitten said:

you know what, that's an interesting point.
all I know is if she wanted to give it a try I'd do the same.

NastradumasKid said:

Why does everyone up in here think I'm a gay man who likes sports???

NastradumasKid said:

straight porn can be hot

confuses the $@#& outta me so I just go with it.

roodboi said:

I'm holding my metaphorical dick right now, my damn self

matthewgrant said:

I guess all you can do is try they would need all your support during that time. Tough one! All I know is despite me liking the girls, if my fella became one, he would be one UGLY lady

roodboi said:

Well, at least you have one....lucky bastard. And besides were you planning on getting a sex change?

SCNDLS said:

I know lots of gay men who love boobs if she kept the penis that would ROCK

most(???) transwoman don't have bottom surgery.

a transman MIGHT be a different story. I've seen what's goin' on down there and i'm not buyin' it but I've seen alot of hot transmen you wouldn't know they were born a female until the dropped troue(sp?)


I've so been watching Sex Change Hospital on OutTv(Canadian gay TV channel) Sunday afternoons

and yes i so had the impression you were a gay guy !
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SCNDLS said:

I don't know, something about your persona, it comes of as quite masculine. Not that I have a problem with it I find it to be quite interesting and don't take it the wrong way people think I'm a boy on here, sheesh I might as well be one. I use to think I was a little boy anyway.

matthewgrant said:

The gay men I know may like to touch boobs on occasion but don't want them around when they're fucking.

My friend used to be a drag queen and actually was Miss Drag Queen USA (not sure of the actual title) last year. She stopped performing because she felt she was living a lie because she IS a female and not pretending to be one. I asked her what the other queens had to say about her impending change and it seems like she's getting a lot of shade thrown her way. She said that most thought it was odd for her to do the bottom surgery but perfectly okay to have boobs and a penis. (Totally confuzzled with that shit right there)

Her response to that was: "Ummmmm, ya'll gon' look a hot ass mess in the nursing home cuz your top don't match the bottom. That won't be me, my shit has to go togetha!"

NastradumasKid said:

People tell me all the time that I think like a dude. I knew I was kinda masculine when a gay friend came into my bedroom and told me it looked like a man's room and we needed to do something to soften it up. Even straight men have said that.

SCNDLS said:

gurrrl I heard transwomen were becoming the hot thing for hire in "drag shows" in The States like in Thailand. there is shade for a good reason amongst the queens
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SCNDLS said:

SCNDLS said:

Don't feel bad Hell, my boyfriend knows I don't act like a girl. My ma gets on me about that. She'll be like "Stop acting like a boy!" I can't help it. Now I'm beginning to really think about my gender..... But I like guys Its weird sometimes, I really do want to be a guy....I'm confuse right now.

matthewgrant said:

There are so many factions within the subculture it boggles the mind

roodboi said:

While you're huggin it reach for the camera and...

PurpleRighteous1 said:

I likedta died

YAY for your friend SCNDLS!!!

And yes, I absolutely think a dude can be straight (or the other way around) and be in love with someone who is in transition and see it through and enjoy happiness as a hetero couple.

NastradumasKid said:

Well, I'm actually very girlie in person and love being a woman and most of what that entails. I could certainly do without the periods tho.

johnart said:

I don't doubt their viability as a couple, just curious about the sexual attraction part. Could YOU have sex with a transman that still had boobs and a vajayjay?

SCNDLS said:

I hate periods. I'm not girlie at all, most of the time I dress like a girl but I don't act like one and my voice isn't exactly feminine either so there you go. I guess you can say I have the mind of a man.

SCNDLS said:

It's difficult to see myself in the situation since I do love me some dick but if the ultimate result was happiness and a life partner that was the right "fit" (no pun) I think yes. Because as much as I love the Paynus, if something happened with my partner and he could no longer perform sexually due to injury or illness (god-forbid) I wouldn't trade him in for another.

In all fairness tho I'd say it's a very case to case situation. There are a lot of variables from couple to couple. A transitioning woman still has ways of pleasing her man sexually without involving her penis, and when the transition is complete she is left with a full set of happy places.

Creating a penis is not as successful a task yet. And that's not even going into top/bottom roles. If I were a top it would be a lot easier to have a trans man as a partner (for me personally) than being more of a bottom...even if I wanna switch it up now and then.
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Tell her congrats. I actually have a young family member (who was never really male but was born with the equipment) who just had her breast and chin implants. She says she is not sure about the rest, but is considering it. It takes a lot of courage. Some of my family members were very cruel to her and I'm still pissed about that. I had to school them on genetics vs.choice and let them know how ignorant they were. Tell your friend I applaud her for having the courage to not give a flying fuck what others say.

johnart said:

it's not
Lord knows I'd go get several more
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johnart said:

Thanks, hun!

Okay, so when she told me they rarely have sex although SHE wants it all the time, I was like What's up with that?

He obviously loves her and they've been living together for over a year. Although I'm not sure what is or isn't happening, his reluctance to fully engage sexually with her is bugging me for some reason.

noimageatall said:

Both her parents and brothers and sisters, who live here in Dallas, have been very supportive. I told her she's very lucky to have so much support. She didn't need any surgery done to her face. She always was a straight up girl even before the implants and when she dressed as a man. Face is just flawLESS even without makeup. Bitch!

SCNDLS said:

I don't know what to say to that!! Is he uncomfortable or something????!!! I'm confused, whats up with that???!!!

NastradumasKid said:

I dunno but something ain't right IMO and I didn't wanna press it after she said she thinks things will improve after the surgery. Almost like she was trynna convince herself.

SCNDLS said:

I know, right? I didn't think she needed anything done to her face either. I think she also had her nose shaved. I was like, "Ok, don't go all MJ on me now."

I make her do my makeup when I'm going out. I look gooood!!!

noimageatall said:

My friend is actually a makeup artist for a famous singer. She just got back from a European tour a few weeks ago. She knows how to beat a face down.