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Reply #90 posted 12/03/09 12:35pm

DesireeNevermi
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Sneak the money out his wallet next time you see him, then give it back to him and say "here's what I owe ya". lol Or charge him $50 the next time he wanna git dicked.
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Reply #91 posted 12/03/09 12:38pm

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rolleyes OH MY GOD...PLEASE explain THAT shit! How can something be my fault if I didn't know about it?



but you did know about the hotel before you left his house. At that point you had 3 options: ask him about the cost of the hotel, not go, or go and take a chance getting stuck part of the hotel bill. So your claim that you did not know, by your first post is not true. You did know, at that point you could have decided not to go.

Oh did to tell him that you do not own him the money for the hotel? If not that would also hurt you in court. Not replying is basically acceptance.
[Edited 12/3/09 12:39pm]
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Reply #92 posted 12/03/09 12:54pm

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

ScarletScandal said:


rolleyes OH MY GOD...PLEASE explain THAT shit! How can something be my fault if I didn't know about it?



but you did know about the hotel before you left his house. At that point you had 3 options: ask him about the cost of the hotel, not go, or go and take a chance getting stuck part of the hotel bill. So your claim that you did not know, by your first post is not true. You did know, at that point you could have decided not to go.

Oh did to tell him that you do not own him the money for the hotel? If not that would also hurt you in court. Not replying is basically acceptance.
[Edited 12/3/09 12:39pm]


Lord have mercy, you know what? Just stop replying. Because I've already explained that I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT PREVIOUS PAYMENT ARRANGEMENTS WITH THE OTHER PEOPLE WHO CAME UNTIL AFTER WE STAYED THERE AND ANOTHER ONE OF HIS FRIENDS THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO REPAY HIM DID NOT!!! And then he comes to me and says I owe him money. He better get the fuck outta her with that shit.
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Reply #93 posted 12/03/09 12:54pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

Sneak the money out his wallet next time you see him, then give it back to him and say "here's what I owe ya". lol Or charge him $50 the next time he wanna git dicked.

Girl, I'm in enough trouble with the man as it is lol
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Reply #94 posted 12/03/09 12:58pm

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lol tell him to kindly fuck off and you'll pay his 90 dollars back when you can stop being a little ridiculous bitch
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Reply #95 posted 12/03/09 1:02pm

Cinnie

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And I just realized something, who the fuck does shit like that to his friends? Why do something for them and then expect them to pay you back? Wow.


What do you mean?
http://www.youtube.com/wa...Ek#t=1m04s
That's what friends do for each other.
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Reply #96 posted 12/03/09 1:03pm

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lol tell him to kindly fuck off and you'll pay his 90 dollars back when you can stop being a little ridiculous bitch

WHOA...Are you seriously coming at me like that? So ya'll would pay the man his $90 back?
Pussies :disgust:
I'm not giving him shit but a hard time. He's trying to make me pay him some money that someone else owes him, and that shit is ABSOLUTELY not happening. IF he would've said something BEFORE we went to the hotel room, I would guarantee him getting his money back. It's the fact that AFTERWARDS he wanted to approach me saying I owed him money, AFTER one of his friends didn't pay his part. So he can go sit and spin, and expect that money any time he wants to, because he's NOT GETTING IT. He must not want it that bad anyway, because I haven't heard from him since. Oh well shrug
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Reply #97 posted 12/03/09 1:04pm

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Cinnie said:

ScarletScandal said:

And I just realized something, who the fuck does shit like that to his friends? Why do something for them and then expect them to pay you back? Wow.


What do you mean?
http://www.youtube.com/wa...Ek#t=1m04s
That's what friends do for each other.

Video won't play comfort
And this is what I getting for fucking with cheap bastards. Why the fuck would you rent a $300 hotel room for one night, not far from where you live, invite your friends, and then tell them to pay you back? I can see if it was their idea as a whole to get a $300 room, he pay the bill, and they pay him back, but that's not the case.
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Reply #98 posted 12/03/09 1:06pm

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ScarletScandal said:

Christopher said:

lol tell him to kindly fuck off and you'll pay his 90 dollars back when you can stop being a little ridiculous bitch

WHOA...Are you seriously coming at me like that? So ya'll would pay the man his $90 back?
Pussies :disgust:
I'm not giving him shit but a hard time. He's trying to make me pay him some money that someone else owes him, and that shit is ABSOLUTELY not happening. IF he would've said something BEFORE we went to the hotel room, I would guarantee him getting his money back. It's the fact that AFTERWARDS he wanted to approach me saying I owed him money, AFTER one of his friends didn't pay his part. So he can go sit and spin, and expect that money any time he wants to, because he's NOT GETTING IT. He must not want it that bad anyway, because I haven't heard from him since. Oh well shrug


lmao im talkin bout him not cho,booboo
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Reply #99 posted 12/03/09 1:07pm

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Christopher said:

ScarletScandal said:


WHOA...Are you seriously coming at me like that? So ya'll would pay the man his $90 back?
Pussies :disgust:
I'm not giving him shit but a hard time. He's trying to make me pay him some money that someone else owes him, and that shit is ABSOLUTELY not happening. IF he would've said something BEFORE we went to the hotel room, I would guarantee him getting his money back. It's the fact that AFTERWARDS he wanted to approach me saying I owed him money, AFTER one of his friends didn't pay his part. So he can go sit and spin, and expect that money any time he wants to, because he's NOT GETTING IT. He must not want it that bad anyway, because I haven't heard from him since. Oh well shrug


lmao im talkin bout him not cho,booboo

Oh...cuz when you said "You" I thought you meant "Me", because he's the one whining like it's the last $90 he'll ever get in his life. And he has BANK too, I don't know why he's acting like this. Cheap motherfucker.
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Reply #100 posted 12/03/09 1:08pm

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ScarletScandal said:

Christopher said:



lmao im talkin bout him not cho,booboo

Oh...cuz when you said "You" I thought you meant "Me", because he's the one whining like it's the last $90 he'll ever get in his life. And he has BANK too, I don't know why he's acting like this. Cheap motherfucker.

yeh that sounds i dunno.id try to get him back his little 90 bucks(or dispute it) and then be done with him sounds like more drama than hes worth it.
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Reply #101 posted 12/03/09 1:10pm

Cinnie

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Cinnie said:



What do you mean?
http://www.youtube.com/wa...Ek#t=1m04s
That's what friends do for each other.

Video won't play comfort


Well you better use that $90 towards upgrading your internet speed booboo
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Reply #102 posted 12/03/09 1:10pm

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Christopher said:

ScarletScandal said:


Oh...cuz when you said "You" I thought you meant "Me", because he's the one whining like it's the last $90 he'll ever get in his life. And he has BANK too, I don't know why he's acting like this. Cheap motherfucker.

yeh that sounds i dunno.id try to get him back his little 90 bucks(or dispute it) and then be done with him sounds like more drama than hes worth it.

Oh, I've been done with him. Don't even talk to him anymore. I should just give him his fucking money back, but then i'll feel stupid because I don't even owe it to him.
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Reply #103 posted 12/03/09 1:13pm

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ScarletScandal said:



Lord have mercy, you know what? Just stop replying. Because I've already explained that I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT PREVIOUS PAYMENT ARRANGEMENTS WITH THE OTHER PEOPLE WHO CAME UNTIL AFTER WE STAYED THERE AND ANOTHER ONE OF HIS FRIENDS THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO REPAY HIM DID NOT!!! And then he comes to me and says I owe him money. He better get the fuck outta her with that shit.



none of that matters. You owe the money. The fact that you did not know that the other people had agreed to pay their share and the one that did not pay him back is not legally relevant to your debt to him.
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Reply #104 posted 12/03/09 1:34pm

DesireeNevermi
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money money money.....MON NAY!!!


some people, got to have it
some people, really need it

do thangs do thangs do thangs...bad thangs wit it!!!
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Reply #105 posted 12/03/09 3:02pm

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

ScarletScandal said:



Lord have mercy, you know what? Just stop replying. Because I've already explained that I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT PREVIOUS PAYMENT ARRANGEMENTS WITH THE OTHER PEOPLE WHO CAME UNTIL AFTER WE STAYED THERE AND ANOTHER ONE OF HIS FRIENDS THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO REPAY HIM DID NOT!!! And then he comes to me and says I owe him money. He better get the fuck outta her with that shit.



none of that matters. You owe the money. The fact that you did not know that the other people had agreed to pay their share and the one that did not pay him back is not legally relevant to your debt to him.

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Reply #106 posted 12/03/09 3:22pm

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I am going to try this one last time.

First of all, YOU DID have a contract with this person. He said "you can pay me back" and you went along with it. That is a legally binding contract.

Here is an analogy that best suits that situation. Imagine that you own a home and you decide to put a new roof on the house. You call a contractor. They could price it in 2 different ways. They could give you a quote. This means you would be given a set price for the job, and that would be the price you would have to pay. On the other hand, the contractor could charge time and materials. This way, the contractor would charge for all costs incurred in the process of replacing the roof.

If you agreed to a time and materials contract, there would be no set price. As a result, if the contractor takes off the old roof, and there are a few sheets of plywood that need to be replaced, you have to pay for the cost of the new plywood. You can't say, "well, I didn't know it was going to need plywood, so I am not paying.

If it was a quote job, the contractor would have to provide the plywood, since a set price was stipulated in the contract.

The situation you are in is essentially the time and material example. You agreed to pay the person back without a set amount stipulated. You should have stipulated a specific amount, but you didn't. This is a contract, and if you don't get by now then I can do nothing for you. Pay this guy back please.
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Reply #107 posted 12/03/09 3:24pm

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Darwintheorgangrinder said:

I am going to try this one last time.

First of all, YOU DID have a contract with this person. He said "you can pay me back" and you went along with it. That is a legally binding contract.


He NEVER said: "I plan to rent a hotel room for the night, I have friends staying over as well and they're going to reimburse me for the room. I need you to pay me back as well." Nope, not once never did we have that conversation.
So he's not getting shit.
I'm starting to wonder if you're him hmmm
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Reply #108 posted 12/03/09 3:27pm

Darwintheorgan
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ScarletScandal said:

Darwintheorgangrinder said:




I am sorry, but this is getting to be very difficult because you not comprehending the plainly stated facts that I and others have provided. It is your responsibility to understand all aspects of a contract to which you enter. Since you failed to do so, you have no defense.

Had you not used the hotel room, you might be able to avoid paying. However, you stayed in the damn room. A service was provided to you, and you owe for the service. You could have refused to stay in the room, but you didn't, so you owe. Think of it this way, you can't go to a restaurant, eat the meal, and then claim that you don't owe because you were unaware of the price. Once you put your fork into the meal, you must pay for it. And once you enter the hotel room, you must pay for it.

Please, pay this dude back, before he takes you to court. If it goes to court, you will lose. And the judge won't keep explaining him/herself and elaborating as I have. He or she will simply say "judgment for the plaintiff."

In the future, do not enter into contracts that you do not understand. Furthermore, don't agree to pay people back if you really have no intention of doing so. It is a pretty crappy thing to do to somebody.


There WAS NO CONTRACT! And yes, it was pretty crappy what he did to me. He NEVER said "After you stay the night in the hotel, you're gonna have to pay me back." He never even brought it up until another one of his friends that DID KNOW and DID AGREE to help reimburse him never did. So...



I did not say what he did was crappy. I said that you are being crappy, because you agreed to pay him back and are now refusing to do so. Where I come from, we call people like that deadbeats.

You did have a contract. Every single post I have made on this issue, and many of the other posts on this thread, explain why.

At this point, I really hope this guy takes you to court. If I knew him, I would seriously recommend it. For the hell of it, I would also do some research for the guy and provide him with the exact legal principles needed to state his case, but he would not need them because there is not a single judge in this country that would rule in your favor. Good luck!
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Reply #109 posted 12/03/09 3:30pm

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Darwintheorgangrinder said:

ScarletScandal said:



There WAS NO CONTRACT! And yes, it was pretty crappy what he did to me. He NEVER said "After you stay the night in the hotel, you're gonna have to pay me back." He never even brought it up until another one of his friends that DID KNOW and DID AGREE to help reimburse him never did. So...



I did not say what he did was crappy. I said that you are being crappy, because you agreed to pay him back and are now refusing to do so. Where I come from, we call people like that deadbeats.

You did have a contract. Every single post I have made on this issue, and many of the other posts on this thread, explain why.

At this point, I really hope this guy takes you to court. If I knew him, I would seriously recommend it. For the hell of it, I would also do some research for the guy and provide him with the exact legal principles needed to state his case, but he would not need them because there is not a single judge in this country that would rule in your favor. Good luck!

Well, fuck you, he ain't gettin' shit evillol PLEASE tell him to take me to court! PLEASE DO IT!!!
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Reply #110 posted 12/03/09 3:38pm

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ScarletScandal said:


He NEVER said: "I plan to rent a hotel room for the night,


that he told you before you left. RIGHT?


I have friends staying over as well


from you OP it seems he also told you that before you left. RIGHT?


and they're going to reimburse me for the room.


has not legal importance at all.

I need you to pay me back as well."


in your OP you said that at first you did not want to go for lack of funds, that you did not want him to pay for you, he said you could pay him back, and you agreed. RIGHT?

Nope, not once never did we have that conversation.


not necessary. he offered to pay and you agreed to pay him back.

So he's not getting shit.


probably not, unless he sues or you give in.


I'm starting to wonder if you're him hmmm


if so you sure will lose if he sues
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Reply #111 posted 12/03/09 3:39pm

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ScarletScandal said:

(EDIT) PLEASE tell him to take me to court! PLEASE DO IT!!!



you would LOSE. And then have to pay the court costs too! And if he see this and prints it out, it will devastate your case.
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Reply #112 posted 12/03/09 3:43pm

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

ScarletScandal said:


He NEVER said: "I plan to rent a hotel room for the night,


that he told you before you left. RIGHT?



probably not, unless he sues or you give in.


I'm starting to wonder if you're him hmmm


if so you sure will lose if he sues

You're completely missing the point. He's trying to get me to pay for something that someone else agreed to pay for. Which I am NOT doing. So nana
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Reply #113 posted 12/03/09 3:44pm

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

ScarletScandal said:

(EDIT) PLEASE tell him to take me to court! PLEASE DO IT!!!



you would LOSE. And then have to pay the court costs too! And if he see this and prints it out, it will devastate your case.

HA! There's NO WAY he would find THIS! He doesn't know this site exists.
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Reply #114 posted 12/03/09 3:46pm

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ScarletScandal said:

OnlyNDaUsa said:



if so you sure will lose if he sues

You're completely missing the point. He's trying to get me to pay for something that someone else agreed to pay for. Which I am NOT doing. So nana



what was the total cost of the hotel?
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Reply #115 posted 12/03/09 3:50pm

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

ScarletScandal said:


You're completely missing the point. He's trying to get me to pay for something that someone else agreed to pay for. Which I am NOT doing. So nana



what was the total cost of the hotel?

Something between $200 and $300. I don't know. Don't care either.
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Reply #116 posted 12/03/09 3:52pm

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We are all in org court now. Imabe a witness for Scarlet ready to testify based on hearsay. falloff


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Reply #117 posted 12/03/09 3:59pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

We are all in org court now. Imabe a witness for Scarlet ready to testify based on hearsay. falloff


Darwin is Judge Judy.

oh heelllll naw!!! falloff So basically, so far, the only case that the plaintiff has is that I "had an agreement" to basically pay him back for something I didn't know he was paying for. Yeah, that makes a world of sense rolleyes
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Reply #118 posted 12/03/09 4:10pm

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ScarletScandal said:

DesireeNevermind said:

We are all in org court now. Imabe a witness for Scarlet ready to testify based on hearsay. falloff


Darwin is Judge Judy.

oh heelllll naw!!! falloff So basically, so far, the only case that the plaintiff has is that I "had an agreement" to basically pay him back for something I didn't know he was paying for. Yeah, that makes a world of sense rolleyes



oh man you gotta watch some Judge Judy. She all about the "agreement" and "spenses". At best the case would be thrown out because somebody got somethin on both ends but at worst....SHE GON MAKE U PAY! falloff
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Reply #119 posted 12/03/09 4:11pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

ScarletScandal said:


oh heelllll naw!!! falloff So basically, so far, the only case that the plaintiff has is that I "had an agreement" to basically pay him back for something I didn't know he was paying for. Yeah, that makes a world of sense rolleyes



oh man you gotta watch some Judge Judy. She all about the "agreement" and "spenses". At best the case would be thrown out because somebody got somethin on both ends but at worst....SHE GON MAKE U PAY! falloff



she would say "you stiffed him" lol
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