IDontBelieveYouHeardMe said:

when I was 17 I would have had no idea about any shit like that

And what about that fat kind of weird? The ones who have nothing but their huge, hairy dogs and can't do anything but to complain all day long! Complain about the weather, complain about the neighbor, complain about how I drive through 10 metres of a one-way street just to save 10 minutes!

Sometimes I stop to talk to them. I gently pull over, take my helmet off, walk to them and say something like: "Don't you think the world is already cruel enough? Why can't you just be peaceful and live your life? Are you bored? Try something like Sudoku! It enhances your mind! Peace and love, goodbye."

The look on their faces is priceless, usually.



But then there are day when I could just...

Dave1992 said:

She's either prick-teasing you for a power trip or unsure of what she wants from you. Possibly both (she is very young after all).

IIWY, I'd try to be a bit "cooler" and more aloof towards her and basically play her right back. If she does want you, then she will (hopefully) come running. However, if she's just f*cking with you, she will realise that the game is up and go and find someone else's head to mess with; you'll then be able to clear some mind-space for other things.

Just remember that if she doesn't really like you "in that way", then there is nothing you can do to change her mind.

Dave1992 said:

those folks probably became old and bitter because they got so frustrated with weird people that didn't "get" them.

ZombieKitten said:

right?


i also just realized that he referred to her as a woman... at 17?

ZombieKitten said:

Exactly!

Dave1992 said:

so that should tell you to not pursue those who give you this feeling of weirdness, right?

IDontBelieveYouHeardMe said:

when I was 17 I would have had no idea about any shit like that :falloff:

ZombieKitten said:

Thanks, mum!

Actually, you could be my mum.

ZombieKitten said:

I remember that plenty of 17 year old girls used to play mind-games and so on.

However, I may be wrong on that point because, unfortunately, it is quite a long time since I have had one of those conversations with a 17 year old girl.

Dave1992 said:

I could be YOUR kid's grandmother by now!

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ZombieKitten said:

It makes you come across as even more wise!

IDontBelieveYouHeardMe said:

you also have the benefit of hindsight now

I think what a girl thinks she is doing (with an incomplete grasp and awareness of her sexual power) is probably quite different to what you think she knows she is doing

ZombieKitten said:

I don't know, as I'm not and never had been a 17 year old girl. Nevertheless, and looking back, I do think some of them knew, more or less, exactly what they were doing. Also, OP claims that this girl is quite mature, so she might have the sexual dynamite of a 17 year old and the mind of a 25 year old. Good Lord, now that is a dangerous combination.

IDontBelieveYouHeardMe said:

what would be really dangerous would be the body of a 17 year old with the libido and intelligence of a 35 year old

Seems like she just thinks she's too good for you.
Move on, you'll be happier.

It's not that she's weird it's that she has tickets.

I love weird, weird is hot

I'm talking to a woman who I used to admire and who I actually thought was amazingly hot physically. But it's so fucking hard to get through with the person I am and not seeming to act like a crazy fool in her eyes. It makes her so unsexy, it's unreal! That bitch should be bithslapped for how uncomfortable she makes me seem to feel, although I'm actually the one with the overview!

Dave1992 said:

well i don't know what you mean when you wrote this.....
she might of been hot yaaaaa.a...and who what person are you...what are you trying to get throught to her as? (just curious)

ya it seems me and my ex, however, broke up cuz of our differences lol
i think it was moreso his issues but i do believe he thought my lifestyle was strange and he said i had no brain one time when we broke up and then we got back together but of course that didn't last.


I didn't know people were like that till i actually met one in person
it was like my first time dating and this happen to be the third guy i met along the line.

i don't live with a nice person as it is...im dealing with my way of life also...but to be totally judged like he knows my life is kind of crazy to me.
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booty said:

I don't understand what you don't seem to understand and I don't understand what you are trying to say. Weird situation.

Dave1992 said:

you mentioned that the person your talking about in your post, you said she was unsexy. well how was she unsexy and what was making her appear that way?

i hope that helps

booty said:

Ahh alright.


Well, physically she is very appealing to me. But her clumsiness when it comes to communication and feeling certain moments and vibes just makes it so difficult to fully appreciate her physical beauty.

To it sexiness in a person goes hand in hand with being physically hot and mentally capable of challenging me, not boring the hell out of me and being able to talk to me.

She doesn't sound weird to me.