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Isn't the child supposed to leave the nest? My mom's leaving to Hollywood.
Thanks mom. No job. No car. No money. No place to stay. One month to find all of this or I'm homeless. Anybody got an extra room or want to donate money? Your lips would make a lollipop too happy. | |
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How old are you? Is coming with her an option? What does she expect you to do?  | |
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this could be your opportunity to shine. kind of like a baby bird being thrust out of the nest so it can learn to shine.
You have a month....hopefully you'll work hard at finding a job, and from there a place to stay. The rest will hopefully fall into line. This may be a good thing for both you and mom | |
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JarviusLovesexy said: [Snip - Mars23]
i heard all of dis. | |
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Negritaluvyu said: My mom's leaving to Hollywood.
Thanks mom. No job. No car. No money. No place to stay. One month to find all of this or I'm homeless. Anybody got an extra room or want to donate money? Ill be brutally honest, imho ur 18 and a adult by law which really isn't ur moms fault for leaving u homeless. IF you knew prior to her leaving u should gotten those things before hand instead of relying on ur mom. You can't rely on mom the rest of ur life to support you...you need to stand for urself. This is your chance to show how responsible you are and show mom you can do it on ur own. Prior to me moving out I had a job, car, and a place lined out and extra money for deposits for the electric and such. I even helped mom with small bills around the home like water, trash, electric, and power. Sometimes even rent if pay was good. It showed me responsibility and her I could make it in the real world. As for "shoving you out of the nest" I don't think she did without warning. She was prolly warning prior with hints and should of heeded her warnings then. As for you going with her you both need to talk about it and decide what is best for u both individually and personally. Just my 2 cents.....good luck. Edited to say: Since ur 18 and a adult by some states regardless if living with ur parents or relative they don't have to let you live there once becoming of age aka adult age limit. Same with a family friend or a aquiantance or close friend of yours its actually their call. Their rules and such. [Edited 11/23/09 1:07am] Smurf theme song-seriously how many fucking "La Las" can u fit into a dam song 
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This just doesn't sound right. My youngest son will be 18 Dec. 17. He is in school and works. As long as he is in school and doing what he's supposed to do I would not kick him out of my home. I surely wouldn't go off and leave him alone. How far will she be away from you? Do you have other family you can stay with? "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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toots said: Negritaluvyu said: My mom's leaving to Hollywood.
Thanks mom. No job. No car. No money. No place to stay. One month to find all of this or I'm homeless. Anybody got an extra room or want to donate money? Ill be brutally honest, imho ur 18 and a adult by law which really isn't ur moms fault for leaving u homeless. IF you knew prior to her leaving u should gotten those things before hand instead of relying on ur mom. You can't rely on mom the rest of ur life to support you...you need to stand for urself. This is your chance to show how responsible you are and show mom you can do it on ur own. Prior to me moving out I had a job, car, and a place lined out and extra money for deposits for the electric and such. I even helped mom with small bills around the home like water, trash, electric, and power. Sometimes even rent if pay was good. It showed me responsibility and her I could make it in the real world. As for "shoving you out of the nest" I don't think she did without warning. She was prolly warning prior with hints and should of heeded her warnings then. As for you going with her you both need to talk about it and decide what is best for u both individually and personally. Just my 2 cents.....good luck. Edited to say: Since ur 18 and a adult by some states regardless if living with ur parents or relative they don't have to let you live there once becoming of age aka adult age limit. Same with a family friend or a aquiantance or close friend of yours its actually their call. Their rules and such. I'm hoping she gave you 28 days notice at least, that would only be fair  | |
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ZombieKitten said: toots said: Ill be brutally honest, imho ur 18 and a adult by law which really isn't ur moms fault for leaving u homeless. IF you knew prior to her leaving u should gotten those things before hand instead of relying on ur mom. You can't rely on mom the rest of ur life to support you...you need to stand for urself. This is your chance to show how responsible you are and show mom you can do it on ur own. Prior to me moving out I had a job, car, and a place lined out and extra money for deposits for the electric and such. I even helped mom with small bills around the home like water, trash, electric, and power. Sometimes even rent if pay was good. It showed me responsibility and her I could make it in the real world. As for "shoving you out of the nest" I don't think she did without warning. She was prolly warning prior with hints and should of heeded her warnings then. As for you going with her you both need to talk about it and decide what is best for u both individually and personally. Just my 2 cents.....good luck. Edited to say: Since ur 18 and a adult by some states regardless if living with ur parents or relative they don't have to let you live there once becoming of age aka adult age limit. Same with a family friend or a aquiantance or close friend of yours its actually their call. Their rules and such. I'm hoping she gave you 28 days notice at least, that would only be fair Actually I decided to move out after I had graduated high school but was working since I was 16 part time after school and during summer. Mom knew my plans since then she taught me things like grocery shopping how to pay bills aka timing of bills so many won't be late save money and such I'm 36 with a 14 yr old I teach her now to work hard ,save money and spend wisely. I even told her school first but after graduation if she wants to live at home she has to work and help with bills. My house my rules  Smurf theme song-seriously how many fucking "La Las" can u fit into a dam song
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Lol . She's not 'kicking me' out the nest so to say, SHE's leaving the nest; that's how I put it.
She's leaving for some reasons, which I understand. I wish she would've just given me more then a month's notice. I had been looking for a job anyway,(and everyone knows finding a job is so easy now a days  ) But it was always like this, If I got a job, I could get a car. So that's why I don't have a car either. I had a job before but that didn't work out for the best ..
She's not moving out the state, but she's moving to a whole new city and I think it would be easier for her if I didn't come with her (she's already taking care of my ill uncle). I have family here, but it's just my aunt and her family and there's already 8 people living in that house, lol. I don't know, right now I'm trying to find a job, and get some roommates and get my own place, but looking for work is work. I feel like no one is hiring  .
I'm not angry she's leaving, I'm just like, 'argh mommy! Why didn't you tell me a few months ago?!' Your lips would make a lollipop too happy. | |
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it might have been nice if she gave you more than a months notice.
So how old are you? And were there maybe some signs that you might have ignored that this was coming? My Legacy
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NDRU said: it might have been nice if she gave you more than a months notice.
So how old are you? And were there maybe some signs that you might have ignored that this was coming? I'm 18 now, and I don't know. I didn't notice any, I'm trying to think back. A part of me thinks she just came up with this last minute ,lol. Your lips would make a lollipop too happy. | |
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Negritaluvyu said: Lol . She's not 'kicking me' out the nest so to say, SHE's leaving the nest; that's how I put it.
She's leaving for some reasons, which I understand. I wish she would've just given me more then a month's notice. I had been looking for a job anyway,(and everyone knows finding a job is so easy now a days ) But it was always like this, If I got a job, I could get a car. So that's why I don't have a car either. I had a job before but that didn't work out for the best ..
She's not moving out the state, but she's moving to a whole new city and I think it would be easier for her if I didn't come with her (she's already taking care of my ill uncle). I have family here, but it's just my aunt and her family and there's already 8 people living in that house, lol. I don't know, right now I'm trying to find a job, and get some roommates and get my own place, but looking for work is work. I feel like no one is hiring .
I'm not angry she's leaving, I'm just like, 'argh mommy! Why didn't you tell me a few months ago?!' She is an adult your mom that is, she shouldn't have to tell you imho 
Although I agree with some she should of gave u more of a notice. IF ur staying in the same place that she is moving out of. My mother stays with me and my daughter right now(I pay the bills). If she wants to leave to get a place of her own its her decision. She is a adult so am I and this is my home she knows this before she moved in(she was forced out of her home and could not stay unable to pay rent cause of a bad relationship). I still think you need to have a deep convo with mom and see if shell help u out till she leaves or make sure ur in another place. Smurf theme song-seriously how many fucking "La Las" can u fit into a dam song
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ugh, i'm trying to leave the nest now. it's scary. both my brother and sister have been out, back and out again(well my sister has anyway).
good luck with whatever happens. 12/05/2011 
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Negritaluvyu said: Lol . She's not 'kicking me' out the nest so to say, SHE's leaving the nest; that's how I put it.
She's leaving for some reasons, which I understand. I wish she would've just given me more then a month's notice. I had been looking for a job anyway,(and everyone knows finding a job is so easy now a days ) But it was always like this, If I got a job, I could get a car. So that's why I don't have a car either. I had a job before but that didn't work out for the best ..
She's not moving out the state, but she's moving to a whole new city and I think it would be easier for her if I didn't come with her (she's already taking care of my ill uncle). I have family here, but it's just my aunt and her family and there's already 8 people living in that house, lol. I don't know, right now I'm trying to find a job, and get some roommates and get my own place, but looking for work is work. I feel like no one is hiring .
I'm not angry she's leaving, I'm just like, 'argh mommy! Why didn't you tell me a few months ago?!' what is happening to the place you are living in now? has she already made the arrangements for vacation? | |
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Well Guys, it's only been about 4 or 5 months since I graduated out of high school and I just turned 18 in july lol. So yes, I am living with my mom. She said she's giving the house to the bank. All my friends want to rent out the house, so I may be still living here, I'm not sure though. Eh, Idk, we'll figure something out. Just my first priority is to do another all day job search. Your lips would make a lollipop too happy. | |
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