Just wondering. Had a strange dream last night about my ex, whom I broke up with a year ago. Don't know what sparked it, though it could have been when I saw the "Bulletproof" Raheem DeVaughn video last night before I went to bed and thought that he looked just like my ex...but then I brushed it off. Anywho, a year later and I'm with in love with a really good guy who has been so great to me. We have a wonderful relationship and I'm very happy with him. Maybe the dream meant nothing. Okay quick synopsis:

I had agreed to go with my ex to a wedding that he was in (apparently I had agreed to go with him while we were together, but now we were broken up and I was with my current boyfriend). Anywho, my current boyfriend thought that it was disrespectful of me to attend a wedding with my ex but I was trying to argue my point that I don't like to say I'm going to do something and then back out of it. The day came, my current bf tries to understand but ultimately does not which results in him about to walk away from me and end our relationship. Seeing him walk away makes me realize how much of a bitch I had been and decide that going to a wedding with my ex isn't the best decision to make. I tell my current bf to wait just as my ex pulls up in front of my house to pick me up. I decide to not go with him to the wedding after all and I run away from him and run to my current boyfriend whom I can't stand to be without.

So that was my dream...maybe its pointless, maybe it has meaning, who knows. All I know is that my ex is in the past and I'm happy with the relationship that I'm in.

You guys got any stories???

this is so weird....I had a dream about your ex too!!

I use to have a dream about one particular ex.
He. was. crazy.
And i use to dream that he would come after me.

Like we would bump into each other on the street or something and i would have to run

in the last dream i can remember having, i was talking to Obama. and no, he isn't an ex of mine.

I used to dream about an abusive ex, that he was in my house and I couldn't get away, stuff like that.

Not anymore.

i did once around pride.

i saw him during the parade and we ended up in a parking garage loading up tshirts on forklift and he looked at me and smiled and said you know why it has to be this way and i replied i do but when will it changed and he smiled and said he didn't know if or when it would and than left because his roommate was coming and he didn't want him to see me.

I dreamed I had a threesome with my current and ex-girlfriend

JarviusLovesexy said:

lawd

Yeah....the most recent ones. Totally forgettable dreams, though. One was full of conflict, the other was full of some kind of weird sex/action movie type stuff. I think my most recent one (the conflict dream) will always be in my head. He's so mysterious and way different once you're out his VIP circle. BIG mystery. But he's been through crap.

Meh. Don't they have pills for this kind of stuff?

BlackAdder7 said:

very funny.

ehuffnsd said:

whistle said:

I had a dream about Obama, too . Nothing romantic. It happened last week

PurpleDiamond2009 said:

thats what i was saying.

I've had one or two dreams about one particular person, but that's about it. Nothing interesting either -- I think we were having a verbal argument in one, and I just saw him in passing in traffic in another.
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missfee said:

we broke up because his roommate has a crush on him and it easier for him to continue on with his roomie than to try to balance the two of us and deal with any drama his roommate might have given him.

I haven't been contacting my ex though, he usually is the one to make the first move. You know the annoying random text messages or emails. The fool even had the nerve to send me a facebook friend request this summer...ummm no. Not happening. He had three chances with me and fucked them all up to high hell with his selfish ass. Those four years of off and on-ism with him was an emotional rollercoaster. Thank God I found my sense and broke it off with him for good or else the rest of my life would had been on a yo-yo with him.

Don't you hate it when guys who fuck up the relationship keeping trying to contact you after the fact? I've always wondered why they do this. When you had me you acted like you didn't want to be in a relationship, you didn't appreciate me, and so now that I've moved on, now you want to see what I'm doing, how I'm doing, etc. Loser.
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missfee said:

my ex troy, not the one i had the dream about that's Sean, we dated for 5 and half years off and on, didn't talk for almost two years than started talking to each other on facebook. we have a pretty damn good friendship now.

ehuffnsd said:

Well thats good that ya'll have a good friendship now. I mean don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that I don't ever want to be friends with my ex, but I don't think enough time has passed yet for us to be buddy, buddy right now. Maybe in a few years or so, but definitely not now. I need completely no contact with him for at least 2 years or so, so I can breathe and enjoy life without getting those annoying once in while messages from him.

missfee said:

yeah that's probably a good thing... troy and i went two years with out talking because were getting really passive agressive with each other.

nope!!!

Yup, I do.

They r called ex's for a reason.....this gives me nightmares.....calling a therapist now

I used to dream for years about that one particular one, in my dreams I was always searching for him and when I found him I was always waking up before we

ZombieKitten said:

Awwww...

JustErin said:

I know, 10 years of that gave me the irrits

Nope. When they are past tense, they don't really get thought of like that again.

ZombieKitten said:

you had unfinished business with him.

ehuffnsd said:

we only broke up because he moved away, there was never any bad feeling or conflict

ZombieKitten said:

that sounds kind of sad. I had one like that too. I suddenly moved away but there was definitely unfinished business. And for years I dreamt that I went back to that town and found him there still sitting in his office. Finally, about ten years later, I DID go back and he was still sitting in his office in the exact same place where I left him. Then I didn't dream about him any more.

heartbeatocean said:

freaky!!!

I called this guy and we started emailing him for a while, but then he stopped answering and I got mad and I had closure, and the dreams stopped.