SirPsycho said:

I don't break them out until he's gone. I don't want him to see me stuffing my face....wait...that's not right...stuffing my face with cookies that is.

JustErin said:

oh yeah...i forgot you have a fat complex

i had an ex once who reached for donuts WHILE i was giving her head

i'd never been more offended in my life

ZombieKitten said:

I think if the situation doesn't improve & they can't reach a compromise after years, then yes. It's pretty unfair really - most people need that closeness & intimacy (& release!), so to be stuck in a marriage where a partner holds out indefinitely, yet its grounds for divorce to get it elsewhere?? It's wrong to play games in order to get the ring & then change-up once in the marriage, they're duping the other person into a life they may not necessarily want. & that's w/ sex, abuse (verbal, physical), etc. Sex seems to be the biggest ruse though (or maybe just the most complained about)

SirPsycho said:

oh
hell
NO

CalhounSq said:

yeah it was high school

to her defense we were both high and it was her birthday

but still...

SirPsycho said:

No excuse, man NONE! Was she always that hungry??

SirPsycho said:

she was eating donuts????

CalhounSq said:

she was/is an interesting girl to say the least


but it was the best sex i'd ever had ..so ALOOOOOT of bad shit about her i slide (too much, to be honest)

SirPsycho said:

Hahahaha!

DanceWme said:

dont get me started on this woman...ya'llve heard about her several times, but still dont know the half

SirPsycho said:

Wait, I meant: !!








I feel sorry for you.

SirPsycho said:

thats not shorty by the lockers is it


im sorry

Dave1992 said:

its cool...

i knocked her out 3 times in a row that night...

i knew it wasnt me...she used to try to bribe me to come fuck her

DanceWme said:

!!!!

no not her...

she was a self-proclaimed vampire and used to blackout after she orgasmed

i was talkin bout the one before her

ZombieKitten said:

Sad for whom, Darlin'?

In all sincerity, I'm not saying that lack of sexual contact is a primary reason for dissolution of a relationship...there are about 4 or 5 stages to lifetime, committed relationships, the last of which being the "companionate stage" where there clearly is not as much sexual engagement as when a couple first felt the initial pangs of infatuate love 20+ years prior.

However, make no mistake that the sexual frequency in a marriage or long term relationship is usually a clear indication on where a couple stands together on deeper, possibly more troubling issues concrning their union. Disease or disorders notwithstanding, if you can't stand to lie down with he or she that you have chosen to build and spend your lifetime with, it might be time for the folks in question to re-visit where they are as a married or committed couple. Not that "no sex" is an indication of need for divorce in and of itself, but at least it is a sign that there are some other things to dig under the surface for...that might end you up in divorce court once they are unearthed.

Ottensen said:

damn... get'em auntie

Dave1992 said:

PanthaGirl said:

Once again I agree with everything pantagirl says

CalhounSq said:

what if it's not games, but a total mismatch in libido?

i never want to get married, its like i amlost feel like im married living withs someone ...if yall don't get along then ya i would see why two couples would break up
[Edited 11/25/09 15:06pm]

ZombieKitten said:

I think if that were the case, it would've made itself known before the relationship got to the marriage stage and those involved would've made their decisions accordingly.

I have had some friends of friends who purposely do more in the bedroom than they want to do, to get someone to marry them and when they get the ring, they cut it off b/c they feel like the mission is accomplished.

^what?? what mission is that? dang i don't get why people do that?
unless it's tied to money or something
i think there's more to a relationship then just sex though
ya thats my ex story by the way his wife wouldn't give him any so he went to other sources for that kind of stuff.

oh believe me i know what an abusive relationship is. and i also know what being in a loving one is. you just have to tell between the two.
[Edited 11/25/09 15:34pm]

SirPsycho said:

I think you should have reached for one too, while you were down there

thekidsgirl said:

a yeast infection as payback is not cool!

sammij said:

I didn't even think of that.

PurpleRighteous1 said:

I'm a "safety-first" type of fucker

don't call me, I'll call you.


don't tell me about your drama, I aint interested.



eat before you get here.



I'll come by when I'm good and ready and if I aint....tough titty.

bring your own condoms. pay for the hotel room.

Good lord

DesireeNevermind said:

Oh hell no, eat after you leave...not before.