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True Love Allright guys, I'm stuck between sin and a hard place. Let me explain.
No one is perfect, we all know this... when you're "in love" with someone, you must accept the good and the bad, and they must accept your strengths and weaknesses as well for anything to last and be healthy. I've known this guy for a few months, he's a great guy, and is also a devout Christian. He's sweet, intelligent and the like. He happens to be a little strange and scary-looking to the general public. My family members are a bit vain as well as against "organized religion". I've always been able to deal with their antics, but am getting afraid because he and I are really close and I want him to meet the family. I also admit I am a bit worried that no one is going to like him. I know I'm a freak, but does anyone have any suggesstions or advice? I appreciate it in advance. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Did you ever go skydiving, Insatiable? | |
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2the9s said: Did you ever go skydiving, Insatiable?
yes, yes I did. I've been two more times, and I'm gonna get my license! And I lost the weight! Thanks for the advice, Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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shoot, sorry guys. either no one's online, or... Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Scary looking how?
Just clean him up and invite him to dinner. This stuff has a way of working itself out. | |
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2the9s said: Scary looking how?
Just clean him up and invite him to dinner. This stuff has a way of working itself out. He's completely clean, just odd and different. Big eyes, crooked nose, wild hair. Wonderful though. My family and friends would consider him hideous! [This message was edited Tue Jan 21 12:04:50 PST 2003 by INSATIABLE] Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Insatiable said: He's completely clean, just odd and different. Big eyes, crooked nose, wild hair. Wonderful though. My family and friends would consider him hideous!
Sounds like you're dating Marty Feldman...lol There comes a time when you need to not concern yourself with what anyone thinks, including your family...if their only reason for not liking this guy is his looks, then don't sweat it...that's pretty much a guarantee that he is indeed a great guy if there's nothing else they can find "fault" with... | |
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You know what Insatiable, my boyfriend is not the handsomest man alive..But he is a wonderful man, and when my family met him (they can be critical), they loved him..
Don't worry just have fun.. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown | |
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the reality is who cares what people think. With family especially, you didn't pick them so who cares. As long as he treats you well, thats all that matters.
The religion thing is another issue all together, just change the subject. Politics and Religion - never start a conversation on these | |
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I think you need to just do what is right for you. Your family isn't dating him, you are. As for the issue of spirituality, they just need to agree to disagree with his beliefs, and leave the subject alone. Really, his spiritual views are a personal matter, and no one should judge him based on that. Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones. (Ecclesiastes 7:9) | |
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wellbeyond said: Insatiable said: He's completely clean, just odd and different. Big eyes, crooked nose, wild hair. Wonderful though. My family and friends would consider him hideous!
Sounds like you're dating Marty Feldman...lol There comes a time when you need to not concern yourself with what anyone thinks, including your family...if their only reason for not liking this guy is his looks, then don't sweat it...that's pretty much a guarantee that he is indeed a great guy if there's nothing else they can find "fault" with... i agree. your family will see that you care for him not because of what he looks like but who he is. i'm sure they'll be more concerned with how he treats you. i had the same concerns as you because i've always dated skinny,pretty boys, and then i bring home billysparxxx. i was nervous, but i know that my family will love him. if not, they'll get the tables next to the bathroom at the wedding reception. [This message was edited Tue Jan 21 15:05:35 PST 2003 by sparxxxtresss] | |
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Hey guys, thanks so much. Although most of us have this common knowledge, sometimes these truthful words are all a person needs to get up the courage. I pray to God my dad doesn't smack him around because he wears t-shirts that say "University of Heaven". Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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just let it run its course, and hang tight with him so even if they do react strangely he'll know you still love him | |
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