OK so im approaching 20 in about 12 days. And i still dont know if im gay or straight. Ive done sexual stuff with both male and female but have never gone all the way. Ive kissed both male and female and much more. And im not really much masculine and not really feminen. I like looking into the mirror a lot and i hate gettin dirty. i dont wear make up either but have used tanning stuff in the past.
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why can't you be both!
your thinking in stereotypes as well!
get rid of your standard forms of what is male and female! who do you fall head over heels for?

which kiss did this for you...

hon you can be both aka bi and there isn't a thing wrong with it. I learned to accept my sexuality a few years back. As long as your happy who cares.

Good luck

toots said:

No post on this thread will help you with this.
It's something you have to figure out on your own.

Post a picture of yourself, we'll pretend you're a celebrity, and then we'll tell you what you really are.

Fauxie said:

Or there's that.

johnart said:

if you liked being with both then your bi

if you disliked being with either then your asexual

who cares! sleep with whatever gender you find hot, and if that's both, rad.

one-gender people are so deprived

You created an account on Prince.org, delicate.

Imago said:

Dude, there are straight male orgers and even straight Thai men. Not many, but they exist.

Imago said:

so nice to have you back...

johnart said:

Exactly.

Zinzi said:

or both were simply unattractive!

Fauxie said:

It's only a question of time.

vivid said:

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Imago said:

bboy87 said:

Daaaaayummm!!!! The back of yo head is ridiculous!

Imago said:

Work that up do!

bboy87 said:

Did you like her "Cuz I'm black" skit? That shit was insane

dance4me3121 said:

Who cares? ....I don't mean that in a nasty way at all - I just mean is it really important that you can't put a label on yourself; you've answered your own question - you've done both and neither have turned you off yet, so why pick.

Do your own thing until you know 100% what you want and if that time never comes then it never comes.

There's all sorts of folks in the world and they've all got their own way if doing things, there's no right or wrong way to find your feet in this world and there's no time limit...as that beautiful Sunscreen song says...
"the race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself"

your 20, enjoy life, don't wish it away looking for a lock-down in what you are or where you're going...you'll only look back in years to come and wish you'd just let it unfold.

whatever you do play safe, be kind to peoples hearts and don't put up with people who aren't kind to yours.

Infact ...dig out that Baz Lurhman Sunscreen song
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Imago said:

OH DAMN! and she's rockin' a mullet!

bboy87 said:

"A Skill-Less... A SKILL..... LESSSSS!!! "

I don't know who that comedian is but she's a genius

You may be bi.

Imago said:

You so damn foolish. In regards to the initial question asked, Dude, a hard dick doesn't lie...
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evenstar3 said:

I remember the movie PARTING GLANCES (one of my fave gay themed movies ever). There's a scene where this one minor character is explaining how he came out and how he just asked his dick what it liked and went for it. Don't get me wrong sometimes it's more complicated than that.

I thought it was a cute scene.
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RenHoek said:

exactly