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Fauxie said: Could I now? No, because I'm happily married. Could I have before when I was single? No. Could I now, if I were single? Yes.
And it's probably because of your wife (or your experiences with her) that you could now, right? Fuckin' life.  | |
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NO I honestly can't.....I have waited 4 the love I have now for a VERY long time & I am going to keep it the way it is.....To grow and love and move from day to day... | |
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PunkMistress said: Fauxie said: Could I now? No, because I'm happily married. Could I have before when I was single? No. Could I now, if I were single? Yes.
And it's probably because of your wife (or your experiences with her) that you could now, right? Fuckin' life. Yes, just that I was wet behind the ears when single. Didn't know about fucking, was sappy, not aware of what I had to offer, and wouldn't have thought about trying to bed a woman I'd just met purely for fun. Now I could do it, but it's not gonna happen.
. [Edited 11/17/09 17:21pm] MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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Fauxie said: Yes, just that I was wet behind the ears when single. Didn't know about fucking, was sappy, not aware of what I had to offer, and wouldn't have thought about trying to bed a woman I'd just met purely for fun. Now I could do it, but it's not gonna happen. Same. I didn't really have much self esteem before I met my wife. Now I could do it, but I'd still rather do my wife. She's bisexual though, so I'm sure I'll end up with another woman in our bed sooner or later. W00t for that! |
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moderator No. I'm weird.
I've tried it and I just can't feel it.  I'm a freaky ol' vanilla. | |
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LadyLuvSexxy said: No. I'm weird.
I've tried it and I just can't feel it. I'm a freaky ol' vanilla.What? Your body turns numb? | |
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I'd prefer to have some deep feelings for the person I sleep with, but sometimes you just meet someone who gets you incredibly hot and horny, and you end up having some really freaky hot sex that blows each other's bodies and minds away. It can be just as passionate as sex with your true love, but you don't necessarily want to marry or even seriously date that person.    
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Dewrede said: i see all you shallow folks feel offended now because you know i'm right
and you don't wanna be honest to yourselves and therefore you're trying to hide that by insulting me how pathetic  you're one of those people who clearly fails to understand that YOUR life experience is NOT absolute, universal truth. there have been a couple times in my life where sleeping with someone i didn't love was really healthy for me and helped to get me out of a bad place in my life. just because you can't fathom that doesn't mean it's automatically shallow. and guess what? you opened the door to being insulted by calling all of us shallow! | |
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RenHoek said: Dewrede said: sex should involve love imo , not just animal like boning Well in many of our opinions it can and should be animal like when the situation demands it... time of our lives!! you haven't lived til you've had a hot stranger push you against a barrier and kiss you like his life depends on it, while NIN's playing this song mere feet away from you!  | |
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bluefish said: Why is "virgin" used, more often than not, as a derogatory term? What's wrong with never having experienced sex before?
I'm a 29 year-old guy who's a virgin. I don't consider myself repulsively unattractive, even though I'm sure some girls would (and do) look at a short, heavyset guy in a wheelchair and say "Ewww!" to themselves. I'm constantly struggling with the importance I put on losing my innocence. Sometimes, I let society convince me that I'm an ugly, pathetic loser for not having had sex at my age, and I get panicky thinking that I have to find some way to sleep with a girl, even if it would end up being pity sex. Other times, I think of how much I want my first time to be truly consensual, where the woman I'm with really wants to be with me--mind, body, and soul. To answer your question, Erin, in theory I think I could have sex without love, although I wouldn't really care to. Honey, don't let any of us influence you either way. You just simply do what you want to do. And if you keep putting yourself down like that, I'm gonna come over there and slap the shit out of you. Andy is a four letter word. | |
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JustErin said: LadyLuvSexxy said: No. I'm weird.
I've tried it and I just can't feel it. I'm a freaky ol' vanilla.What? Your body turns numb? In a way, yeah. I mean, I can feel things and they just feel mediocre, but it's not really exciting. It just feels wrong and uncomfortable even though I make like the person and am attracted to them. If I don't love them, I just can't enjoy myself. | |
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yes.....but sex with love is far superior | |
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vainandy said: Honey, don't let any of us influence you either way. You just simply do what you want to do. And if you keep putting yourself down like that, I'm gonna come over there and slap the shit out of you.
Hey, I'm just tellin' it like it is! https://www.youtube.com/@PurpleKnightsPodcast | |
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JustErin said: DanceWme said: U are my idol!
It's really more of me just being practical. I need my sleep, I have a young child and I don't want dude around in the morning...it's all done without my son having a clue. I remember those days. Ducking and hiding in the bathroom when the child wakes up in the middle of the night. Shit that used to be my cue to get the hell up out anyway particularly after sex. I didn't want to stick around and play lovey dovey. Don't laugh at my funk
This funk is a serious joint | |
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I need to at least like someone to have sex with them, but do I need to love them? Hell no | |
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I've had some pretty hot sex with a guy I don't really give a damn about. It was mainly because I wasn't self conscious with him like I have been with people I give a damn about.
The best sex I ever had though, was with someone I loved very much. To me, there is a difference. | |
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MoniGram said: JustErin said: 'Making love' and 'fucking' are both just sex. No different....  | |
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Absolutely... sex with love is for first time fuckers.
There's nothing loving about smashing a girls back doors in then finishing off by splashing population paste all over her face. Well, maybe that is my kind of loving, but not in a romantic way | |
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NightwalkerDNB said: Absolutely... sex with love is for first time fuckers.
There's nothing loving about smashing a girls back doors in then finishing off by splashing population paste all over her face. Well, maybe that is my kind of loving, but not in a romantic way That's where ur wrong. My man and I have been together for a long time and it's crazy, wild, untamed, sexy, wicked, unbridled, raunchy and unrestricted. Being in love is grand...  | |
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evenstar3 said: RenHoek said: Well in many of our opinions it can and should be animal like when the situation demands it... time of our lives!! you haven't lived til you've had a hot stranger push you against a barrier and kiss you like his life depends on it, while NIN's playing this song mere feet away from you! you're one of those people who clearly fails to understand that YOUR life experience is NOT...
I'm never gonna live  Unless NIN have a comeback tour that takes in Bangkok and Mon doesn't come, but Dan does and obliges me.  MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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Fauxie said: evenstar3 said: you haven't lived til you've had a hot stranger push you against a barrier and kiss you like his life depends on it, while NIN's playing this song mere feet away from you! you're one of those people who clearly fails to understand that YOUR life experience is NOT...
I'm never gonna live Unless NIN have a comeback tour that takes in Bangkok and Mon doesn't come, but Dan does and obliges me. you poor deprived thing 
it was definitely one of the most sexually charged moments i've ever had without actually
(i like how dan is the one you want to rough you up, btw  ) | |
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evenstar3 said: Fauxie said: you're one of those people who clearly fails to understand that YOUR life experience is NOT...
I'm never gonna live Unless NIN have a comeback tour that takes in Bangkok and Mon doesn't come, but Dan does and obliges me. you poor deprived thing
it was definitely one of the most sexually charged moments i've ever had without actually
(i like how dan is the one you want to rough you up, btw ) Dan hates beards though.  MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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Fauxie said: evenstar3 said: you poor deprived thing
it was definitely one of the most sexually charged moments i've ever had without actually
(i like how dan is the one you want to rough you up, btw ) Dan hates beards though. you can shave it off! just this once, it'd be a special occasion | |
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evenstar3 said: Fauxie said: Dan hates beards though. you can shave it off! just this once, it'd be a special occasion
Nevah! I wouldn't even do that for Mon. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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lilJ said: NO I honestly can't.....I have waited 4 the love I have now for a VERY long time & I am going to keep it the way it is.....To grow and love and move from day to day...
So u have waited for sex until u are in love... And he is in love/comitted to only u? Was it worth the wait ... Lol | |
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I'm not sure sex has had that much to do with love (although so much better with it ) it is more about raw passion and desire ...the lust and passion in riping off each others clothes and fulfilling fantasy and desire | |
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Raven7 said: lilJ said: NO I honestly can't.....I have waited 4 the love I have now for a VERY long time & I am going to keep it the way it is.....To grow and love and move from day to day...
So u have waited for sex until u are in love... And he is in love/comitted to only u? Was it worth the wait ... Lol I hope someday u understand  and was he worth the wait...YOU BET! | |
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JustErin said: zaza said: I'm not saying it's wrong Just that sex with someone who you love is much more beautiful. I'm not saying that pure fucking is something wrong Everybody loves that, just some people needs to feel love when they have sex."Beautiful" how? What does that even mean? Have you ever slept with someone you loved? Then you will understand. Maybe I'm too young and optimistic, but sex with love is way better and as I read some replies I can see some orgers share my point of view. [Edited 11/18/09 6:10am] | |
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