JustErin said: zaza said: Sex between two people is beautiful when they feel love to themselves. Without love - it's just fucking. It's always just sex, people. I know, right?? the emotion doesn't define the act, it enhances it... | |
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CarrieMpls said: Dewrede said: sex should involve love imo , not just animal like boning For YOU. Why do you assume everyone's experience is the same as yours? ok i guess i should've added 'for me' | |
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Ex-Moderator | JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: I get what you mean. On the other hand there's sex that may as well be one or the other person masturbating. No connection, really just moving to get yourself off. I'd say he's equating sex without love to that - no connection, there may as well not be another person. Now - I know it doesn't have to be that way. I'm just saying I can see where the idea comes from. You don't need to be in love with someone to have a connection. I totally have a connection to the guys I sleep with...it's just not romantic love. I agree! But you can also have sex and feel absolutely nothing. |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: You don't need to be in love with someone to have a connection. I totally have a connection to the guys I sleep with...it's just not romantic love. I agree! But you can also have sex and feel absolutely nothing. That's just called "bad sex." Different thread. | |
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CarrieMpls said: But you can also have sex and feel absolutely nothing. this is gonna turn into the faking orgasms thread.... | |
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JustErin said: Can you do it?
I've had sex without love, and its just not worth it.... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here | |
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PunkMistress said: zaza said: Sex between two people is beautiful when they feel love to themselves. Without love - it's just fucking. What's wrong with fucking? Like I said above, eating cake doesn't give you any nutrients, it just tastes good. But what's wrong with that? I'm not saying it's wrong Just that sex with someone who you love is much more beautiful. I'm not saying that pure fucking is something wrong Everybody loves that, just some people needs to feel love when they have sex. | |
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JustErin said: zaza said: Sex between two people is beautiful when they feel love to themselves. Without love - it's just fucking. It's always just sex, people. Thank you sex is an animalistic act wether you pour in your dose of love or not it's fucking ... you can call it making love sure, it's still fucking | |
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My only desire is 2 please. | |
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BklynBabe said: yes
otherwise I'd never get laid! [Edited 11/17/09 7:32am] | |
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yeah...but truth be told, we prob wont even get to the point of laying down unless i have some type of sincere feeling for you...even if it cant be classified as love at the time...
the more meaningless a situation is, the more turned off i am. it's kinda funny | |
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Sure. Raw sex can be great.
But passionate sex with person you love is the best. I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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i can't remember. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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PunkMistress said: Dewrede said: i see all you shallow folks feel offended now because you know i'm right
and you don't wanna be honest to yourselves and therefore you're trying to hide that by insulting me how pathetic Shut up, you ugly virgin. | |
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hmmm....animal like boning.
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SCNDLS said: PunkMistress said: Shut up, you ugly virgin. oh the irony i'd be mad at her if she wasn't so dumb and pathetic [Edited 11/17/09 8:46am] | |
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Dewrede said: SCNDLS said: oh the irony i'd be mad at her if she wasn't so dumb and pathetic [Edited 11/17/09 8:46am] | |
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JustErin said: PricelessHo said: that's about the only way for me to really enjoy it without it being a turn off right now.
sure i have to at least like the person though. Being in love with the person is a turn off? not exactly, but with the last person i've been with it became a real turn off towards the end as we both sucked at maintaining a relationship. and it's gotten back to good after we agreed to keep it strings free. so for now i'm keeping it that way. | |
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I have a penis. Yes. | |
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yes | |
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JustErin said: Dewrede said: ^
having sex just for the sex is meaningless and empty might as well have a wank I'd rather have the real thing than get off on my own...it's not the same at all. I prefer to have human contact. Sex is never meaningless for me...and certainly never empty. meh, can do it myself if I have to. less messy. | |
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Nope. I never have, and I would not even want to try. | |
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Dewrede said: PunkMistress said: I don't agree OR understand. "Might as well" implies that they're interchangeable. They're not. Masturbating is really just a way to have an orgasm. Sex is contact and touch and chemistry with another person, completely and totally different. sex should involve love imo , not just animal like boning Well in many of our opinions it can and should be animal like when the situation demands it... time of our lives!! A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon | |
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Yes, and I have a lot. I've only had one real relationship in my life, when I was 30. It lasted for 3.5 years. It's always been about sex before and after that. I'm a dude. I can separate love and sex. I love sex, so I guess there is some level of love in the sex; it's just the love of sex. | |
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don't know... probably. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Hell, I prefer sex without love. I've been with probably around 150 men in my lifetime and have been in love with only two of them that I can think of. I won't be making that mistake a third time if I can help it.
I prefer to be the role of "the other woman". Hell, get all the dick you can out of that motherfucker and send him back to his wife or girlfriend. Let that son of a bitch be their problem. Hell, I've got enough problems of my own without listening to some man talking stupid shit. Give me the best part of him, which is the dick, and let her put up with the bad parts. He starts talking shit to me, I can always send his ass back to her because I don't want to hear it. Let that wife listen to that shit and while she's listening to it, I can be having another dick in the meantime until that motherfucker sneaks back out away from her. And ain't no shame in having both those dicks over for a threesome. Hell, threesomes are tame though, four and fivesomes are much more fun. Andy is a four letter word. | |
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vainandy said: Hell, I prefer sex without love. I've been with probably around 150 men in my lifetime and have been in love with only two of them that I can think of. I won't be making that mistake a third time if I can help it.
I prefer to be the role of "the other woman". Hell, get all the dick you can out of that motherfucker and send him back to his wife or girlfriend. Let that son of a bitch be their problem. Hell, I've got enough problems of my own without listening to some man talking stupid shit. Give me the best part of him, which is the dick, and let her put up with the bad parts. He starts talking shit to me, I can always send his ass back to her because I don't want to hear it. Let that wife listen to that shit and while she's listening to it, I can be having another dick in the meantime until that motherfucker sneaks back out away from her. And ain't no shame in having both those dicks over for a threesome. Hell, threesomes are tame though, four and fivesomes are much more fun. YOU. ARE. gOD. By the way, you realize you started 4 sentences with "Hell,..." ? LOL It was cute. | |
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PricelessHo said:
that's about the only way for me to really enjoy it without it being a turn off right now. sure i have to at least like the person though. Hell, I don't even have to like them. I've had plenty of men that I couldn't stand. I just told them to unzip their pants and don't spoil it by talking. Andy is a four letter word. | |
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