PunkMistress said:

psssh yeah!

and it's better than just "a wank" cuz there's two at the party...

no need for flowers, dinner and all the romantic hang ups...

simpler times...

RenHoek said:

Anyone who says that getting some sex is the same as jacking off is a damn virgin.

Used to and have no regrets but I ultimately discovered it’s not for me.

Dewrede said:

well some days I just don't love myself...

PunkMistress said:

hell-to-the-yeah!!

RenHoek said:

sex and love don't have to go hand in hand as far as I'm concerned...it's a beautiful thing when they do...and when they don't, it's not any better or worse, just different...

PunkMistress said:

In all fairness, he said you might as well have a wank, he didn't say they were the same. I understand the sentiment even if I don't agree.

Absolutely...

i see all you shallow folks feel offended now because you know i'm right
and you don't wanna be honest to yourselves

and therefore you're trying to hide that by insulting me

how pathetic

Dewrede said:

I'd rather have the real thing than get off on my own...it's not the same at all. I prefer to have human contact.

Sex is never meaningless for me...and certainly never empty.

Dewrede said:

I'm not offeneded at all.

I just think it's weird, that's all.

CarrieMpls said:

I don't agree OR understand. "Might as well" implies that they're interchangeable. They're not. Masturbating is really just a way to have an orgasm. Sex is contact and touch and chemistry with another person, completely and totally different.

Yes.

Dewrede said:

Shut up, you ugly virgin.

PunkMistress said:

sex should involve love imo , not just animal like boning

PunkMistress said:

proving my point yet again


i'm not ugly nor a virgin


what's with the insults ?
[Edited 11/17/09 8:05am]

there's a handful of people posting on this thread that I'd love to have sex with....

shallow...yes!

Dewrede said:

1. It was funny.

2. You're calling people who have different sexual preferences and experiences from you shallow, animals, and in denial, so you started it!

Dewrede said:

Sex between two people is beautiful when they feel love to themselves. Without love - it's just fucking.

Dewrede said:

Is that what you say to the shallow girls who don't want to fuck you?

Dewrede said:

But we are animals.

Sex and love really don't have anything to do with eachother. Humans decided somewhere down the line that it should, but that doesn't mean that it actually does.

PunkMistress said:

I get what you mean. On the other hand there's sex that may as well be one or the other person masturbating. No connection, really just moving to get yourself off. I'd say he's equating sex without love to that - no connection, there may as well not be another person.

Now - I know it doesn't have to be that way. I'm just saying I can see where the idea comes from.

zaza said:

What's wrong with fucking?

Like I said above, eating cake doesn't give you any nutrients, it just tastes good.

But what's wrong with that?

PunkMistress said:

Dewrede said:

For YOU.

Why do you assume everyone's experience is the same as yours?

zaza said:

It's always just sex, people.

PunkMistress said:

and you know i'm right

CarrieMpls said:

You don't need to be in love with someone to have a connection. I totally have a connection to the guys I sleep with...it's just not romantic love.