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sextonseven said: DanceWme said:  Right? Dude's gonna hang out with someone from Jersey when he visits NY.  What you got against Jersey people huh?  | |
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I haven't read the whole thread but here is my take...As a woman today I feel that whatever you want in your life you should get your damned self. Do not depend on a man to "get" things for you or make your life "materially" better. Do that for yourself and look for a man who can passionately love you, is kind and considerate, is trustworthy, is a good friend, will listen to your problems and really offer advice--not just say "uh-huh."
If you take care of yourself and and make sure you can provide all the things you want in life YOURSELF--then you won't have to depend on some woman you don't even like to take you on a trip. You go yourself and take your "best friend" with you. And if a stinkin' trip to Miami is worth more than having someone you can depend on and talk to, then the postcard should read "good riddance and hope you get sand in your crotch..." 
Two people should never be together because of "need" but because they "want" to be together... Maybe you should look closer to home at some of the women who sit with you for hours "just talking."   Just sayin'"Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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I say be true to yourself & you'll find someone on the same page as you, who likes to chill like you do, etc. Some people are smart enough to know being materialistic is unattractive, so they hide it or front like it's really not them. But the shit comes out eventually, just like it came outta her. She wants "things" despite the connection (or lack of), & that's who she is. & people like that will always have their hand out, looking for the next better "thing". It's better this ended before anybody moved in w/ anybody, etc.
Believe it or not (Supa, are you listening?? ) there are women who aren't looking @ somebody's wallet as a gauge of whether to spend time with them or not. You need to find someone who digs you for who you are, not what you got. I'm of the belief that it's wrong of me to ask of any man what I can't ask of myself: I don't expect him to have more than me, pay more than me, give more than me - just be on my level & we can do the shit together. Some of my friends think that makes me a damn fool for not trying to get what I can out of men, but that's just not who I am. Know yourself, know that you're building your future the way you want it, & know that the person by your side needs to hold that position in sincerity, love, true acceptance & happiness (not lying in wait for your check!)...
Music, drinks & some dick is a damn good recipe me thinks
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I bought 2 boxes of warm white, non-flashing christmas tree lights (because I got a brand new bushy fantastic tree  and I didn't like the red lights we've had for years) and the master asked "you're not becoming… materialistic, are you?"
and I was like "fuck off, they were $6!!!!" some people have no idea. Materialistic would mean I would not be happy driving around in my 95 Camry  | |
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ZombieKitten said: I bought 2 boxes of warm white, non-flashing christmas tree lights (because I got a brand new bushy fantastic tree
and I didn't like the red lights we've had for years) and the master asked "you're not becoming… materialistic, are you?"
and I was like "fuck off, they were $6!!!!" some people have no idea. Materialistic would mean I would not be happy driving around in my 95 Camry Well, zombie... ...we all know you are that breed of woman supa doesn't talk about in his "diamond" threads. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: ZombieKitten said: I bought 2 boxes of warm white, non-flashing christmas tree lights (because I got a brand new bushy fantastic tree
and I didn't like the red lights we've had for years) and the master asked "you're not becoming… materialistic, are you?"
and I was like "fuck off, they were $6!!!!" some people have no idea. Materialistic would mean I would not be happy driving around in my 95 Camry Well, zombie... ...we all know you are that breed of woman supa doesn't talk about in his "diamond" threads. yeah, me and my cubic zirconium (and I don't give a shit ) engagement ring that I got for my birthday like 6 years after we married | |
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: Well, zombie... ...we all know you are that breed of woman supa doesn't talk about in his "diamond" threads. yeah, me and my cubic zirconium (and I don't give a shit ) engagement ring that I got for my birthday like 6 years after we married I'd take cubic over a diamond any day. They are way overrated and I don't care if they say they are conflict free...bullshit. I won't wear a dead kid on my finger. Just give me a garnet or a sapphire. 
d edit [Edited 11/19/09 0:35am] "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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SirPsycho said: nothing i can provide on an everyday basis...not right now at least, and honestly, tho i dont knock the beauty of it...nothing i really need to be moved yaknow?
...for all my "for show"-confidence...im too insecure for this shit...which is another thing i've noticed women dont take too well either... You talk about insecurities but it doesn't sound like you're too far from being 'there' in that contented place, comfortable and happy with who you are. Maybe just the odd bit of introspection and self-affirmation from it. I wouldn't worry about women at all if I were you. I wouldn't worry about what they might want or expect. Don't think about what you have or haven't got to offer to another. You're not an electrical appliance with specifications, you're you. That's enough. If you feel moved to make some changes for yourself then you can make them. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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noimageatall said: ZombieKitten said: yeah, me and my cubic zirconium (and I don't give a shit ) engagement ring that I got for my birthday like 6 years after we married I'd take cubic over a diamond any day. They are way overrated and I don't care if they say they are conflict free...bullshit. I won't wear a dead kid on my finger. Just give me a garnet or a sapphire.
d edit you might be interested to read this:http://www.towardfreedom.com/home/content/view/1352/1 | |
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: Well, zombie... ...we all know you are that breed of woman supa doesn't talk about in his "diamond" threads. yeah, me and my cubic zirconium (and I don't give a shit ) engagement ring that I got for my birthday like 6 years after we married Mon still doesn't have an engagement or wedding ring. If she really wants one she can save up and go and buy it. Seems she doesn't really want one because she hasn't done that. I just don't go messing around, I'm home every night, I listen to her and I tell the truth. That's plenty.  MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: I'd take cubic over a diamond any day. They are way overrated and I don't care if they say they are conflict free...bullshit. I won't wear a dead kid on my finger. Just give me a garnet or a sapphire.
d edit you might be interested to read this:http://www.towardfreedom.com/home/content/view/1352/1   Why did you make me read that?  Sometimes I hate this fucking world."Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: ZombieKitten said: you might be interested to read this:http://www.towardfreedom.com/home/content/view/1352/1 Why did you make me read that? Sometimes I hate this fucking world.I guess I'm preaching to the converted aren't I the people who should read this couldn't be bothered. | |
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: Why did you make me read that? Sometimes I hate this fucking world.I guess I'm preaching to the converted aren't I the people who should read this couldn't be bothered.Is it even possible to LIVE in this world without hurting anyone?  Even if you don't want to? "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: ZombieKitten said: I guess I'm preaching to the converted aren't I the people who should read this couldn't be bothered.Is it even possible to LIVE in this world without hurting anyone? Even if you don't want to? I often fantasise about that, being a hermit in the mountain growing my own food. | |
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: Is it even possible to LIVE in this world without hurting anyone? Even if you don't want to? I often fantasise about that, being a hermit in the mountain growing my own food. I do too. I just want an island and a hut. I hate that just to live you must hurt others. Sometimes it's too much. I need a drink. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: ZombieKitten said: I often fantasise about that, being a hermit in the mountain growing my own food. I do too. I just want an island and a hut. I hate that just to live you must hurt others. Sometimes it's too much. I need a drink.  I'm on my second 
this is my dream hut (without the other houses on the other side of the lake!) | |
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: I do too. I just want an island and a hut. I hate that just to live you must hurt others. Sometimes it's too much. I need a drink. I'm on my second
this is my dream hut (without the other houses on the other side of the lake!) (and this is a real laugh at "second drink" comment)
Nice "hut"! I remember seeing this in another thread. Although I know even if there were no people on the other side there would be some asshole over that hill...so I just want this... 
I can rent it for $300,000 a week but I'd want to buy it and kick all the servants the hell off. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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where is your islands? will you be limited to a diet of coconuts and fish? | |
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ZombieKitten said: where is your islands? will you be limited to a diet of coconuts and fish?
Fiji...and that's about what I eat now anyway. Veggies, fruit, and fish. I'd be right at home. I can fish my ass off too. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: ZombieKitten said: where is your islands? will you be limited to a diet of coconuts and fish?
Fiji...and that's about what I eat now anyway. Veggies, fruit, and fish. I'd be right at home. I can fish my ass off too.
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ZombieKitten said: noimageatall said: Fiji...and that's about what I eat now anyway. Veggies, fruit, and fish. I'd be right at home. I can fish my ass off too.
you can chase down wild pigs too! Mountain oysters!! "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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noimageatall said: I haven't read the whole thread but here is my take...As a woman today I feel that whatever you want in your life you should get your damned self. Do not depend on a man to "get" things for you or make your life "materially" better. Do that for yourself and look for a man who can passionately love you, is kind and considerate, is trustworthy, is a good friend, will listen to your problems and really offer advice--not just say "uh-huh."
Excellent advice.  I adhere to those same principles."You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
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CalhounSq said: I say be true to yourself & you'll find someone on the same page as you, who likes to chill like you do, etc. Some people are smart enough to know being materialistic is unattractive, so they hide it or front like it's really not them. But the shit comes out eventually, just like it came outta her. She wants "things" despite the connection (or lack of), & that's who she is. & people like that will always have their hand out, looking for the next better "thing". It's better this ended before anybody moved in w/ anybody, etc.
Believe it or not (Supa, are you listening?? ) there are women who aren't looking @ somebody's wallet as a gauge of whether to spend time with them or not. You need to find someone who digs you for who you are, not what you got. I'm of the belief that it's wrong of me to ask of any man what I can't ask of myself: I don't expect him to have more than me, pay more than me, give more than me - just be on my level & we can do the shit together. Some of my friends think that makes me a damn fool for not trying to get what I can out of men, but that's just not who I am. Know yourself, know that you're building your future the way you want it, & know that the person by your side needs to hold that position in sincerity, love, true acceptance & happiness (not lying in wait for your check!)...
Music, drinks & some dick is a damn good recipe me thinks
Am I sensing defensiveness? 
Yes, I know there are women out there that aren't like this. They all happen to be members of Prince.org 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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MajesticOne89 said: sextonseven said: Right? Dude's gonna hang out with someone from Jersey when he visits NY. What you got against Jersey people huh? see how they do us?!
noimageatall said: I haven't read the whole thread but here is my take...As a woman today I feel that whatever you want in your life you should get your damned self. Do not depend on a man to "get" things for you or make your life "materially" better. Do that for yourself and look for a man who can passionately love you, is kind and considerate, is trustworthy, is a good friend, will listen to your problems and really offer advice--not just say "uh-huh."
If you take care of yourself and and make sure you can provide all the things you want in life YOURSELF--then you won't have to depend on some woman you don't even like to take you on a trip. You go yourself and take your "best friend" with you. And if a stinkin' trip to Miami is worth more than having someone you can depend on and talk to, then the postcard should read "good riddance and hope you get sand in your crotch..."
Two people should never be together because of "need" but because they "want" to be together... Maybe you should look closer to home at some of the women who sit with you for hours "just talking." Just sayin'CalhounSq said: I say be true to yourself & you'll find someone on the same page as you, who likes to chill like you do, etc. Some people are smart enough to know being materialistic is unattractive, so they hide it or front like it's really not them. But the shit comes out eventually, just like it came outta her. She wants "things" despite the connection (or lack of), & that's who she is. & people like that will always have their hand out, looking for the next better "thing". It's better this ended before anybody moved in w/ anybody, etc.
Believe it or not (Supa, are you listening?? ) there are women who aren't looking @ somebody's wallet as a gauge of whether to spend time with them or not. You need to find someone who digs you for who you are, not what you got. I'm of the belief that it's wrong of me to ask of any man what I can't ask of myself: I don't expect him to have more than me, pay more than me, give more than me - just be on my level & we can do the shit together. Some of my friends think that makes me a damn fool for not trying to get what I can out of men, but that's just not who I am. Know yourself, know that you're building your future the way you want it, & know that the person by your side needs to hold that position in sincerity, love, true acceptance & happiness (not lying in wait for your check!)...
Music, drinks & some dick is a damn good recipe me thinks
thanks guys...to be honest Calhoun i think in the end she was suggesting I wasnt on her level...but i guess ya'lld have to know her to know if that was true or not Fauxie said: You talk about insecurities but it doesn't sound like you're too far from being 'there' in that contented place, comfortable and happy with who you are. Maybe just the odd bit of introspection and self-affirmation from it. I wouldn't worry about women at all if I were you. I wouldn't worry about what they might want or expect. Don't think about what you have or haven't got to offer to another. You're not an electrical appliance with specifications, you're you. That's enough. If you feel moved to make some changes for yourself then you can make them. thanks homie
SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Am I sensing defensiveness?
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SirPsycho said: CalhounSq said: I say be true to yourself & you'll find someone on the same page as you, who likes to chill like you do, etc. Some people are smart enough to know being materialistic is unattractive, so they hide it or front like it's really not them. But the shit comes out eventually, just like it came outta her. She wants "things" despite the connection (or lack of), & that's who she is. & people like that will always have their hand out, looking for the next better "thing". It's better this ended before anybody moved in w/ anybody, etc. Believe it or not (Supa, are you listening?? lol ) there are women who aren't looking @ somebody's wallet as a gauge of whether to spend time with them or not. You need to find someone who digs you for who you are, not what you got. I'm of the belief that it's wrong of me to ask of any man what I can't ask of myself: I don't expect him to have more than me, pay more than me, give more than me - just be on my level & we can do the shit together. Some of my friends think that makes me a damn fool for not trying to get what I can out of men, but that's just not who I am. Know yourself, know that you're building your future the way you want it, & know that the person by your side needs to hold that position in sincerity, love, true acceptance & happiness (not lying in wait for your check!)... Music, drinks & some dick is a damn good recipe me thinks lol thanks guys...to be honest Calhoun i think in the end she was suggesting I wasnt on her level...but i guess ya'lld have to know her to know if that was true or not No - you're not on her level. You're above her b/c you're not being a materialistic ass  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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CalhounSq said: SirPsycho said: thanks guys...to be honest Calhoun i think in the end she was suggesting I wasnt on her level...but i guess ya'lld have to know her to know if that was true or not No - you're not on her level. You're above her b/c you're not being a materialistic ass | |
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