I told a girl-friend of mine that she looks nice in her clothes,and she texted me "you perv".

Do you women want to be called ugly?

Don't tell them "I've got a butter for your tight muffin".

cuz they don't believe it to be sincere. girls hate insincerity more than they hate cellulite.

DesireeNevermind said:

I understand if I say "damn girl u fine as hell to day".

But when you say stuff like "your looking really good today",and their still offended somethings wrong.

JarviusLovesexy said:

Maybe try to change a voice. If she still calls you perv, then:
1)You are
2)She is not normal
3)You told her that "her muffin is tight as hell and you like it"

You can practice on me. Tell me how wonderful I am. At my age, it's unlikely you'll go wrong. You could tell me you noticed that my upper lip wax seems to be working well and it would be all good. I'm easy that way. Well, not that way.

Go!

Jarv just get an ugly girlfriend. You won't have to tell her nothin'. She will be glad you showed up.

JarviusLovesexy said:

It's the word today what offends her

It's not what you say, sometimes how you say it, and WHO is saying it.

Girls only like it if they think you're hot.

Insecurity leads one to not truely believe a compliment when given so anger covers other emotions easily ~ THEY probably don't even know why they "act" angry

It means she is either insecure about her looks or thinks you're hitting on her and doesn't want you too.

Then again, she could be flirting by calling you a perv. She might like that.

PANDURITO said:

JustErin said:

yeah, the difference between confidence and stalker is the personal attractiveness of the man involved.

JarviusLovesexy said:

it implies they don't look good all the other days, unless she obviously went to some trouble to look really nice

JustErin said:

Unfortunately Jarv thats the truth

were you wearing this little ensemble??

I've never met a girl yet that doesn't seem to appreciate a nice comment about a new hair do.

JustErin said:

This is why I don't compliment girls. Not even over the Internet. A perv is a perv is a perv is a perv.... if you have a brickface.

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Well, many girls like rich too. Are you rich?

JustErin said:

Unfortunately no. I'm currently unemployed, have been for two weeks now.

purplehippieonthe1 said:

What about humour? Girls like funny dudes...are you funny?

JustErin said:

Funny in person? Sure... I've made many girls at my previous workplace laugh their asses off. None of them were throwing themselves at me like I was Hank Moody on Californication though.
Funny over the Internet? Depends...

purplehippieonthe1 said:

you are fucked but not in the good way sorry mate

endymion said:

Well I'm used to people laughing at me, not with me, so it doesn't bother me that much.

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Did you show them you were interested (if you were)? Or was it just an assumption that they were not interested?

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Oh man the feeling sorry for yourself is a no no as well



You are probably having a bad day I am sure underneath you are a budding Russell Brand

Aside from what Erin said (which is the short answer), I think the phrasing is the key.

"you look nice in those clothes" might make her uncomfortable because the emphasis is on her, not the clothes.

"That dress looks really nice" might be a bit more subtle.

U should move up 2 women.

JustErin said:

I just assumed it, with one exception. This girl I worked with last year, kinda quirky but still hot, she laughed at all my jokes and she seemed to enjoy working with me. She used to frequent the same clubs I did, so we often met each other when were downtown with friends. It felt kinda wrong for me to be attracted to someone who worked in the same store, so when she transferred from the branch she worked at to my branch it got a bit awkward for me (I did a few shifts with her before she moved to "my" branch just to fill in for someone who was sick or something like that). I tried to repress my feelings but it was clear to everyone at work that I fancied her.
During one night out at the club, when it was about 30 minutes until I would take a taxi home, she walked up to me and said "David, I know you have a crush on me". Then she had a long speech about how she liked me very very much but she was trying to get together with some ex-boyfriend. I tried to move on and I think I eventually did.
She quit her job a year ago and I got invited to party with her and her friend 2 weekends ago after having hardly seen her around since she left the job. Despite the fact I did my best to be just a friend she just HAD to tell me without any context: "You know we'll only be friends, OK?"

So yeah, I can make the girls laugh but they always keep me firmly in my place: the friend-zone.
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