I had the kid at the psychiatrist and another lady was there with children talking about how the po po had to come to her house because her boy had decided to walk up out the grocery store with a bag of chips and some eggs without paying for it She was there trying to get her kids to ackrite and seemed to not have much control over them

Now, mine has ADHD, and it's severe, but even he knows if I am with him he had better sit his little behind in the chair, shut up and watch TV the side eye stays strong in public!

So I told him if I ever, ever get a call from the police or have police knocking at my door looking for him he better tell them not to call me and to go ahead and put his ass in a cell because he will definitely be safer there I told him it won't even matter how old he is, if I get a call that he is in jail, he better pray for some solitary confinement and ask the po po to protect his ass....from me! Because once I get there I will be tearing an ass up!! and not bailing an ass out either. Especially if it's some stupidity! (eggs?!? LOL, at least lift some bacon...)

I have a friend whose child was about to end up in jail for gun possession and burglary charges. He was hanging with his friends doing ignorant hood rat shit. He's a good kid but very cocky and think he is slick and just doesn't see that he's wasting his life with some bullshit. Luckily for him, he got probation, but I'm not sure if he really learned anything.

what do you tell your kids to keep them from trying to do some hood rat shit?

eggs?!? LOL, at least lift some bacon...

Oh and I ain't got no kids so I'm good

I suggest more doing and less telling

yes Talk to your children sure ...

BUT

DO things with them / for them - help them stay busy in postivie ways

do more

always do more

and keep talking

What´s with all these kids having ADHD these days? Sounds almost like an epidemic.

KoolEaze said:

Perhaps the food supply (?) and the nasty drinks most consume ?

All the chemicals and hollywood role models ?

Mach said:

I honestly believe that modern commercials are the root cause for ADHD... They try to pack as much info in as little time possible at such a frantic pace and it's too much for small minds to comprehend...

Less TV more reading!!

I am still about at least lift some bacon

it's genetic and he was born that way. clear signs ever since he was a baby!

RenHoek said:

Far less TV and TONS more reading - doing - playing - OUTSIDENESS - sports whatever is available and positive

BklynBabe said:

waa?

BklynBabe you are always hilarious. Hopefully I don't kill this thread like I did the last one about child discipline.

Anyway I just bought a book at the drugstore called "Have a New Kid by Friday;how to change your child's attitude,behavior & character in 5 days" it's by Kevin Leman. I figure that if Kevin can do it with his kids in 5 days I can do it with my girl in 5 weeks. I am willing to wait five weeks.


I also bought a highlighter!! I am still on Monday and will keep you informed. The guy does not seem to be the type that lets you go soft on your kids.

Cuddles said:

fidgety in the womb! no lie!!

he first stole some earrings when he was 4 days old. boosted it right out the ear! and she didn't even feel it always easily distracted. you had to rock him hard to get him to sleep, you could tell he was sleepy but he would fight it, trying to be all in everyone else's "bidness". Nothing has changed with him since he was born. And not wanting this to be and ADHD discussion but you have to know when you have your child on a high dose medicine, basically amphetamines (they call it speed for a reason), and it slows him down, something might really not be right with the brain chemistry. I would never have wished ADHD on no child around me, trust! And I certainly would not want to spend hundreds on dollars on some made up disease. When you see a kid with true ADHD, you know!

And the reason I stay on top of him so hard is because of the excessive, lying, boosting, social aspects of his behavior. Too many men in his family have ended up in jail, and for what? He needs to know he can go to college, have a career and make better money, than dealing with foolishness trying to make a quick buck. Plus if you gonna steal, don't be half-assed. Eggs, with no bacon, toast, juice....amateur! You got the po po chasing you for some chips?!?!

DeadFlow3r, keep me informed with this book!!!

ultimate hood rat shit!

this kid would still be trying to find a comfortable position to sit!
then afterward he tried to beat his grandma down over some chicken wings!!!