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Reply #120 posted 11/14/09 5:23pm

ZombieKitten

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Did it twice.

First time was two years ago for an acquaintance addicted to WOW MMORPG, a friend & µI tried to get him away from his computer... in vain. Apart from that I realized the more I got involved into helping him, the most it was bad for my own health.

Second time was two years ago when I called a doctor & ambulance to take my mum to the hospital against her own will. She's safe now but still doesn't realize about her own mental disorder. She considers I stabbed her in the back.

Afterwards I sent a tutorship request to the court. At the moment I'm waiting for the judge's response.


so what happened to this person? eek

“Our research supports the idea that people who are heavily involved in game playing may be nearer to autistic spectrum disorders than people who have no interest in gaming.”

http://en.wikipedia.org/w..._addiction
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Reply #121 posted 11/14/09 5:33pm

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ZombieKitten said:

MarySharon said:

Did it twice.

First time was two years ago for an acquaintance addicted to WOW MMORPG, a friend & µI tried to get him away from his computer... in vain. Apart from that I realized the more I got involved into helping him, the most it was bad for my own health.

Second time was two years ago when I called a doctor & ambulance to take my mum to the hospital against her own will. She's safe now but still doesn't realize about her own mental disorder. She considers I stabbed her in the back.

Afterwards I sent a tutorship request to the court. At the moment I'm waiting for the judge's response.


so what happened to this person? eek

“Our research supports the idea that people who are heavily involved in game playing may be nearer to autistic spectrum disorders than people who have no interest in gaming.”

http://en.wikipedia.org/w..._addiction


We no longer speak as he considered I betrayed him. A friend we got in common said he's still playing. Apparently the course of his life didn't change: sleeping playing eating sleeping playing eating....
Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity
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Reply #122 posted 11/14/09 5:34pm

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MarySharon said:

ZombieKitten said:



so what happened to this person? eek

“Our research supports the idea that people who are heavily involved in game playing may be nearer to autistic spectrum disorders than people who have no interest in gaming.”

http://en.wikipedia.org/w..._addiction


We no longer speak as he considered I betrayed him. A friend we got in common said he's still playing. Apparently the course of his life didn't change: sleeping playing eating sleeping playing eating....


sad
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Reply #123 posted 11/14/09 5:40pm

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JustErin said:

MarySharon said:



We no longer speak as he considered I betrayed him. A friend we got in common said he's still playing. Apparently the course of his life didn't change: sleeping playing eating sleeping playing eating....


sad


Yep, do good, you get bad
sad
Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity
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Reply #124 posted 11/14/09 5:54pm

heartbeatocean

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JustErin said:

So I got a response today via text. I got a "Thanks for the email" and "thank you for being you". That's it.


awesome! biggrin
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Reply #125 posted 11/14/09 5:55pm

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heartbeatocean said:

JustErin said:

So I got a response today via text. I got a "Thanks for the email" and "thank you for being you". That's it.


awesome! biggrin


I wish it was more though...but I guess I should be happy I got a response at all.
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Reply #126 posted 11/14/09 5:59pm

heartbeatocean

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JustErin said:

heartbeatocean said:



awesome! biggrin


I wish it was more though...but I guess I should be happy I got a response at all.


I'd call it a success. You might have to be patient to see results. I bet it gave him pause for thought, at least. He may need help, but he'll also have to find his own way. I wouldn't be surprised if he registered it more than he's letting on.
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Reply #127 posted 11/14/09 8:01pm

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heartbeatocean said:

JustErin said:



I wish it was more though...but I guess I should be happy I got a response at all.


I'd call it a success. You might have to be patient to see results. I bet it gave him pause for thought, at least. He may need help, but he'll also have to find his own way. I wouldn't be surprised if he registered it more than he's letting on.


Hope so. He's apparently taking it easy this weekend which is awesome, but I see on facebook that he's planning on attending an event at a club next weekend...that will probably be a true test.
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Reply #128 posted 11/14/09 8:11pm

ZombieKitten

JustErin said:

heartbeatocean said:



I'd call it a success. You might have to be patient to see results. I bet it gave him pause for thought, at least. He may need help, but he'll also have to find his own way. I wouldn't be surprised if he registered it more than he's letting on.


Hope so. He's apparently taking it easy this weekend which is awesome, but I see on facebook that he's planning on attending an event at a club next weekend...that will probably be a true test.

are you gonna keep active tabs on him?
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Reply #129 posted 11/14/09 8:43pm

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ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:



Hope so. He's apparently taking it easy this weekend which is awesome, but I see on facebook that he's planning on attending an event at a club next weekend...that will probably be a true test.

are you gonna keep active tabs on him?


Damn skippy. Is that weird?
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Reply #130 posted 11/14/09 9:27pm

ZombieKitten

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:


are you gonna keep active tabs on him?


Damn skippy. Is that weird?


I don't know I was just wondering!!!

skippy giggle

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Reply #131 posted 11/14/09 9:31pm

JustErin

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ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:



Damn skippy. Is that weird?


I don't know I was just wondering!!!

skippy giggle



lol

Anyway, as much as I can by trying to stay in touch with him...I won't be following him around hiding in the shadows or anything.
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Reply #132 posted 11/16/09 9:21am

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JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:


are you gonna keep active tabs on him?


Damn skippy. Is that weird?



are you a regular on his facebook? If so I would think it would be O.K. for you to say "I think it may be way too soon" I wouldn't go on and on. But hell, his condition crosses your mind every day. I think you have a right to state your opinion. What he does with it is his choice and you both know that.
There came a time when the risk of remaining tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. Anais Nin.
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Reply #133 posted 11/16/09 10:27am

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Deadflow3r said:

JustErin said:



Damn skippy. Is that weird?



are you a regular on his facebook? If so I would think it would be O.K. for you to say "I think it may be way too soon" I wouldn't go on and on. But hell, his condition crosses your mind every day. I think you have a right to state your opinion. What he does with it is his choice and you both know that.


Ya, I'm one of his 450+ friends on there. lol

I think it's ok for me to say anything I want, to be honest. He can take it or leave it. At this point I'm not going to bug him about it. I'm just gonna sit back and see if anything registered by observing his actions. I might fire off an email today to ask him if he put any real thought into what I said…but I’m not about to start nagging.
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Reply #134 posted 11/16/09 1:16pm

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So maybe he is getting it.

Got this today without me asking about it:

had a very restful and well-behaved weekend. slept tons, and with my new video game, i should be on good behaviour for quite some time smile
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Reply #135 posted 11/16/09 2:01pm

Teacher

JustErin said:

So maybe he is getting it.

Got this today without me asking about it:

had a very restful and well-behaved weekend. slept tons, and with my new video game, i should be on good behaviour for quite some time smile


This is good news, I will play the devil's advocate but you don't really need anybody at all to tell you this: Addicts are good at lying. I certainly, very much, hope that he's not and give him the benefit right now. Just keep it in the back of your mind, but you'll do that anyway cause you're not dumb and you know what you're doing.
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Reply #136 posted 11/16/09 2:15pm

MacDaddy

JustErin said:

So maybe he is getting it.

Got this today without me asking about it:

had a very restful and well-behaved weekend. slept tons, and with my new video game, i should be on good behaviour for quite some time smile


Hi Erin, first of all; that was a great letter you sent. I guess he figured out there's one true friend who really gives a shit. That might have been what he really needed. Awesome that he seems to be able to restrain himself a bit. Hope he can kick the habits for good.

take care
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Reply #137 posted 11/16/09 3:12pm

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Thanks, all!

We'll see.
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Reply #138 posted 11/16/09 3:18pm

ZombieKitten

Teacher said:

JustErin said:

So maybe he is getting it.

Got this today without me asking about it:

had a very restful and well-behaved weekend. slept tons, and with my new video game, i should be on good behaviour for quite some time smile


This is good news, I will play the devil's advocate but you don't really need anybody at all to tell you this: Addicts are good at lying. I certainly, very much, hope that he's not and give him the benefit right now. Just keep it in the back of your mind, but you'll do that anyway cause you're not dumb and you know what you're doing.


hug sad

I'm glad Erin doesn't have to live with him nod
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Reply #139 posted 11/23/09 12:37pm

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After going out to that event this weekend he's totally MIA. Suddenly stopped responding to my texts. sad
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Reply #140 posted 11/23/09 12:57pm

baroque

intervention to me meant, to hit rock bottom and end up in the hospital. afterwards, boy howdy did i sober up!
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Reply #141 posted 12/16/09 1:31pm

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I brought this old thread up to say that we haven't talked in weeks. I sent a few texts and was brushed off. And he's totally ignored my last couple.

Guess our friendship/relationship is done....after over 6 years.

sad
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Reply #142 posted 12/16/09 1:33pm

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JustErin said:

I brought this old thread up to say that we haven't talked in weeks. I sent a few texts and was brushed off. And he's totally ignored my last couple.

Guess our friendship/relationship is done....after over 6 years.

sad


I hope he got better. He may hate you, but maybe you saved his life. That's a tough trade, but I know you'd take it in a heartbeat.

hug
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Reply #143 posted 12/16/09 1:49pm

JustErin

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RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

I brought this old thread up to say that we haven't talked in weeks. I sent a few texts and was brushed off. And he's totally ignored my last couple.

Guess our friendship/relationship is done....after over 6 years.

sad


I hope he got better. He may hate you, but maybe you saved his life. That's a tough trade, but I know you'd take it in a heartbeat.

hug


Thank you.

I'm pretty sure that nothing has changed for him and that he's probably just not wanting to deal with it (or anything), so easiest thing to do is give me the axe.

sigh
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Reply #144 posted 12/16/09 1:54pm

Efan

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Sorry to hear that, Erin. You did a good thing. I hope it sinks in with him.
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Reply #145 posted 12/16/09 2:10pm

ehuffnsd

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JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:



I hope he got better. He may hate you, but maybe you saved his life. That's a tough trade, but I know you'd take it in a heartbeat.

hug


Thank you.

I'm pretty sure that nothing has changed for him and that he's probably just not wanting to deal with it (or anything), so easiest thing to do is give me the axe.

sigh

my friend Signe and i didn't talk for almost a year. now ten years later she's still someone i'd turn to for anything. don't give up hope.
You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis
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Reply #146 posted 12/16/09 2:15pm

kimrachell

JustErin said:

I brought this old thread up to say that we haven't talked in weeks. I sent a few texts and was brushed off. And he's totally ignored my last couple.

Guess our friendship/relationship is done....after over 6 years.

sad

comfort
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Reply #147 posted 12/16/09 6:43pm

heartbeatocean

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He may come around again after a long while. I'd say, it's likely, even.
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