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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: Yours showed up with a date and mine is well, already have a thread about him and all that. Time for you to find a new interest and I'd like to occupy my mind with someone else for once.   
you deserve a boy who will LOVE you Just got back from ANOTHER party today with the crush. I see him looking at me from across the room.  | |
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heartbeatocean said: ZombieKitten said:
you deserve a boy who will LOVE you Just got back from ANOTHER party today with the crush. I see him looking at me from across the room. wth!!!! it's party party party all the time now with you! 
I'm lucky I got to go to burger king last night  | |
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ZombieKitten said: heartbeatocean said: Just got back from ANOTHER party today with the crush. I see him looking at me from across the room. wth!!!! it's party party party all the time now with you!
I'm lucky I got to go to burger king last night It's my job. There are ALWAYS parties where I work. Today it was a staff/board mixer. Yesterday it was closing night party. Tech dinners, opening night parties, holiday parties, courtyard parties after EVERY performance, Happy Hours every Friday, baby showers, staff departure parties, fundraising parties...it never ends.
I only go to a few of them.  | |
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heartbeatocean said: ZombieKitten said: wth!!!! it's party party party all the time now with you!
I'm lucky I got to go to burger king last night It's my job. There are ALWAYS parties where I work. Today it was a staff/board mixer. Yesterday it was closing night party. Tech dinners, opening night parties, holiday parties, courtyard parties after EVERY performance, Happy Hours every Friday, baby showers, staff departure parties, fundraising parties...it never ends.
I only go to a few of them. 
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heartbeatocean said: ZombieKitten said: wth!!!! it's party party party all the time now with you!
I'm lucky I got to go to burger king last night It's my job. There are ALWAYS parties where I work. Today it was a staff/board mixer. Yesterday it was closing night party. Tech dinners, opening night parties, holiday parties, courtyard parties after EVERY performance, Happy Hours every Friday, baby showers, staff departure parties, fundraising parties...it never ends.
I only go to a few of them. Girl, if you went to all of them you would never have a chance to sleep! It is very wise to know when to cut back, and pick and choose what events you're going to give your sleep hours away to ! | |
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JustErin said: I want a new one. This old one is turning into way too much work.
I'm probably not at all your type, but can I volunteer anyway?  https://www.youtube.com/@PurpleKnightsPodcast | |
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by secret does that mean the object of your crushing doesn't know? | |
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ZombieKitten said: by secret does that mean the object of your crushing doesn't know?
 https://www.youtube.com/@PurpleKnightsPodcast | |
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bluefish said: ZombieKitten said: by secret does that mean the object of your crushing doesn't know?
and a "crush" means one-sided - the crushee doesn't feel the same way back? what if 2 people have a crush on each other, what is THAT called? | |
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bluefish said: JustErin said: I want a new one. This old one is turning into way too much work.
I'm probably not at all your type, but can I volunteer anyway?  | |
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ZombieKitten said: bluefish said: and a "crush" means one-sided - the crushee doesn't feel the same way back? what if 2 people have a crush on each other, what is THAT called? Yes, I look at it as one sided. | |
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JustErin said: ZombieKitten said: and a "crush" means one-sided - the crushee doesn't feel the same way back? what if 2 people have a crush on each other, what is THAT called? Yes, I look at it as one sided. and unrequited love, is that the same thing?  | |
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ZombieKitten said: and a "crush" means one-sided - the crushee doesn't feel the same way back?
not necessarily, IMO. what if 2 people have a crush on each other, what is THAT called?
Weeeellll, that's called "stop being stupid and just TELL each other already!" [Edited 11/17/09 15:18pm] https://www.youtube.com/@PurpleKnightsPodcast | |
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bluefish said: ZombieKitten said: and a "crush" means one-sided - the crushee doesn't feel the same way back?
not necessarily, IMO. what if 2 people have a crush on each other, what is THAT called?
Weeeellll, that's called "stop being stupid and just TELL each other already!"
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ZombieKitten said: by secret does that mean the object of your crushing doesn't know?
I always assummed a crush itself could be either or, you know, that a crushee may or may not know you have a crush on them
Anyhoo, I always thought that this was a cute little song about crushes, it's from '86...good Lord what God awful clothes we used to wear back then
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I wonder if pastels are gonna make a comeback!!!  | |
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ZombieKitten said: I wonder if pastels are gonna make a comeback!!!
Bite your tongue  ! | |
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Ottensen said: ZombieKitten said: I wonder if pastels are gonna make a comeback!!!
Bite your tongue !it's only a matter of time and you know it!!!! perhaps if you see it coming there is something you can do to sabotage it?  | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: Yes, I look at it as one sided. and unrequited love, is that the same thing? I think that's when it's no longer a secret. It's just out and open and the one-sidedness of the relationship is confirmed. No more room for fantasy.  | |
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heartbeatocean said: ZombieKitten said: and unrequited love, is that the same thing? I think that's when it's no longer a secret. It's just out and open and the one-sidedness of the relationship is confirmed. No more room for fantasy. Yup. Unrequited love requires a confession and then rejection of your feelings from the object of your affection. A crush is more more of a light infatuation thingy with room for fantasy, mirth and fluttery feelings. Unrequited love goes into deeper and darker territory and is much more solemn and woeful, and brings you into a tainted place....I know there's a a that exemplifies this somewhere in my head, but I'm foggy right now... | |
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Ottensen said: heartbeatocean said: I think that's when it's no longer a secret. It's just out and open and the one-sidedness of the relationship is confirmed. No more room for fantasy. Yup. Unrequited love requires a confession and then rejection of your feelings from the object of your affection. A crush is more more of a light infatuation thingy with room for fantasy, mirth and fluttery feelings. Unrequited love goes into deeper and darker territory and is much more solemn and woeful, and brings you into a tainted place....I know there's a a that exemplifies this somewhere in my head, but I'm foggy right now... OK, but I thought it was called a crush because it crushes you | |
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Nope | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ottensen said: Yup. Unrequited love requires a confession and then rejection of your feelings from the object of your affection. A crush is more more of a light infatuation thingy with room for fantasy, mirth and fluttery feelings. Unrequited love goes into deeper and darker territory and is much more solemn and woeful, and brings you into a tainted place....I know there's a song that exemplifies this somewhere in my head, but I'm foggy right now... OK, but I thought it was called a crush because it crushes you Noooo! I've always taken it to be innocent attraction, mostly based on fleeting feelings...I mean,kinda like you saw that Jets video; everyone's bouncing around in pastel colors being all slap happy and stuff! ...for me the crush phase is the precursor to infatuation, and then next (and hopefully not) unrequited love, where therein reality sets in in the form of rejection and the giddy feelings transform into doom and gloom....
....and then you end up with songs and videos that have you sulking, staring out the window, and walking alone down a deserted street looking sullen | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ottensen said: Yup. Unrequited love requires a confession and then rejection of your feelings from the object of your affection. A crush is more more of a light infatuation thingy with room for fantasy, mirth and fluttery feelings. Unrequited love goes into deeper and darker territory and is much more solemn and woeful, and brings you into a tainted place....I know there's a a that exemplifies this somewhere in my head, but I'm foggy right now... OK, but I thought it was called a crush because it crushes you it crushes me, because it activates my issues with communication and I experience pain when I am too shy to express myself. I'd rather have unrequited love, I think. | |
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Ottensen said: ....and then you end up with songs and videos that have you sulking, staring out the window, and walking alone down a deserted street looking sullen I do that with crushes too. | |
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heartbeatocean said: Ottensen said: ....and then you end up with songs and videos that have you sulking, staring out the window, and walking alone down a deserted street looking sullen I do that with crushes too. Oh well, hell, we might as well find some music for that too. This is more about once two people have engaged and disengaged, but it still sounds good enough to listen to while you're all mad and moody over a crush
...I gotta get myself together Gotta stop telling myself that I can do no better Gotta go out and maybe start meeting some new people I gotta go out and buy myself one of those little black dresses Cause I'm so tired of this t-shirt I'm so tired of cryin off all my make-up Gettin just so tired of waking up With a lonely heart I'm getting so tired of giving a damn About an absent hearted man...  | |
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ZombieKitten said: bluefish said: and a "crush" means one-sided - the crushee doesn't feel the same way back? what if 2 people have a crush on each other, what is THAT called? What if two people have a crush on each other and no one other than them knows? Can that be a secret crush? | |
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Ottensen said: ZombieKitten said: by secret does that mean the object of your crushing doesn't know?
I always assummed a crush itself could be either or, you know, that a crushee may or may not know you have a crush on them
Anyhoo, I always thought that this was a cute little song about crushes, it's from '86...good Lord what God awful clothes we used to wear back then
I won that album at a high school dance.
They are from Minneapolis.  | |
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