When I woman puts on make-up, wears heels, adopts a sexy personality and goes out to be absolutely fabulous. Its not her interest in men that ignites and fuels this.. it's her being in competion with other women.

On my way to work this morning I observed the guy sitting in front of me checking out every hot woman on the journey ...he got up and the 3 women that took his place ALSO STARED AT EVERY WOMAN WE PASSED!

Only conclusion is that women are in a constant battle of who is hotter, smarter and more of an 'ideal woman' ...with other women

Some women.

I refuse to compete.

CarrieMpls said:

Even U saying "I refuse to compete" is a form of competition with other women..u know like.. "Girlfriend, all these ho's try and compete with eachother but Im a real woman so I don't need 2 compete with those chicken heads..y'all"

CarrieMpls said:

Co-sign!

Funny, but yes you're kinda right - sometimes I do stare at women,
But my thoughts are more like
W.T.F I would never wear that shit - are they serious!
Trust me competition does not enter my mind!
and besides what makes you think that you're theory is correct - unless you read minds!

chocolatehandles said:

well 4 one thing, the answers women are writing on hear show Im right.
Every woman who has replied so far has done so with a 'them & me' thing going on. Basically it seems you have to put other women down in your minds (Im better than her, dressed better than her,"I would never wear that shit" ) just 2 function..I love women but boy can y'all hate on 1another

Even when a woman looks good she doesn't feel good unless she sees another woman looking not as good


'It is not enough that I succeed, others must fail'
[Edited 10/12/09 5:23am]

Lol so stereotypical! Hey I'm fabulous and I acknowledge there are other fabulous peeps, men and women out there, makes the world a better place to live in and on my end this isn't a competition, though, other women feel compelled to compete against me.

when women see another hot woman they pick her apart. whether it be what she's wearing ,her hair,her make up or whatever. anything to bring her down and make themselves feel better about themselves

Guys can see another guy that most women would consider a handsome guy and we generally don't hate on him.
[Edited 10/12/09 5:34am]

sexyAuntyFuka said:

You're just presuming too much here.
It's like my saying that
'Men are the biggest bitches I know" and I can easily explain this, without too much justification.
It's easy to twist certain situations around so that things become realistic, which is what you're doing.

PanthaGirl said:

U see I'm right, u couldnt just say "Lol so stereotypical! Hey I'm fabulous and I acknowledge there are other fabulous peeps, men and women out there, makes the world a better place to live in and on my end this isn't a competition,


U had to, JUST had 2 say

"though, other women feel compelled to compete against me"

SHIT! There starting to figure us out!!

daingermouz2020 said:

What he just said

Put it this way...hetrosexual women are very happy to go to a nightclub where there are mainly women because they are in 'competition mode' ...can the same be said about brothers? Do we even stay till the ice has melted in our drink if there's no women in there?..nope

daingermouz2020 said:

not true in my experience. men do the same catty shit as women. if girls go crazy for a guy, other men will say he's gay/a douchebag/whatever...

I suggest that this thread should be merged with the "Why do women give head" -one so that the two opposing stereotypes functioning on the "all entities [x] are defined by the characteristic [y} and [y] only" -type of thinking could be more effectively compared with each other.

daingermouz2020 said:

A guy that puts an extra amount of attention into his appearance isn't necessarily idolized either.

sexyAuntyFuka said:

It's really silly to suggest that the motivation for going out for women would be to just compete with each other. How about just, uhm, having a good time being one of those factors? If you yourself go to night clubs only in order to pick up women, then that's just your personal take on it.

chocolatehandles said:

While ti may be judgmental, I do that too. I look at thier busted shoes, stupid asses wearing linen in the winter, etc.

1sexymf said:

I call them Walmart Women!

PanthaGirl said:

When I see a woman with great hair or awesome shoes I don't hate her, more often than not I'll compliment her. And I get compliments from women all the time. This weekend a shoe saleswoman and I spent 10 minutes admiring each others accessories. We had similar taste and an almost instant bond was formed. There was no malice or ill intent, we were honestly appreciating each other.

To pretend that there is NO competition between women whatsoever is silly. And to pretend that there are not women who are so highly competitive with other women that they flat out don't get along with women altogether is silly also. I wish we didn't live in such a world, but that's not the case.
But to assume every woman who looks at another woman is somehow mentally sizing her up and comparing each other in a competitive way is downright ridiculous.

chocolatehandles said:

I know this might sound rude, while I will go in there to save money on things like toilet paper, I swear that place makes me itch!
I can't wait to leave from the minute I step in the door.

daingermouz2020 said:

NEVER. When I see a girl I think is hot I will stare at her because shes so damn hot. I only pick apart (in my mind) those girls that dress like they're hot but are really nothing special. Although I admit your theory is sort of correct as most men would probably think the plain jane done up is hot. Women can tell the difference.

sexyAuntyFuka said:

Don't think ur so smart mate. Of course I had to say that women do compete, because they do, the difference being, I do not compete in return! I don't play their little games. Step into my shoes for one day and only then could U possibly know what it feels like for a woman.

CarrieMpls said:

Too true. Awesome post ...

Arnotts said:

[/quote] most men would probably think the plain jane done up is hot. Women can tell the difference.[/quote]

Very true.

Whilst men see a woman with good hair, nice eyelashes, good skin, great figure and smeels good

A woman will look at the same feamale and see a bad weave, fake lashes, cheap foundation, bad breast job and wearing Chanel no.5.3

- I see this a lot even on the internet where a man will see a great looking woman, some women will look for even the most minute flaw to not give a female a sincere compliment

You're right.

of course they do this to impress other women. men don't notice 90% of the things mentioned in this thread.

So many people dress down now of days, I very seldom
give anyone a second look. When someone does look
smashing, I compliment them.

At that, when I was single more often than not
I was approached when I toe'up from flo'up.... including
the man I'm marriad to now. So, that "theory" always
seemed a crock to me.

in response to sexy's theory about women.....



...so if im with my guy, i dont have to look smashing cause he wont notice anyway???
...




i think the real issue here is men. i can get around another chick, if its hate, its hate, if she compliments, i compliment, if she's slow, lets encourage..ya know??

what i need help with is the dude and the 24/7 game thing...the dude i gots to mother, or the dude that wont let me in. its like they all gravitate to whatever pleases them.. AT THAT MOMENT! if a chick messes up, he'll use another chick as leverage..and none will be the wiser because of the lies he uses to cover it up! not to mention, very few of his boys will back up anyone exclusive, so its a damn jungle out there!....really its a travesty.

so really, i am looking good for ole boy, and myself cause although we are comfortable around our sister friends BECAUSE OF THE WAY MEN ARE... we would much rather conquer a dude, hold one, be submitted to one...SOMETHING besides alone time, if the need so arises.

amelia 2:2

alright, i didnt mean to thread jack,,,just didnt want to loose my thoughts.

i may edit momentarily...

CarrieMpls said:

exactly

whistle said:

or, we say he must have lots of money/drugs to be getting her.