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Printableevenstar3 said: PunkMistress said: You must have been molested.  
it's why i started stripping, too. Can a bitch get a table dance?? [Edited 11/8/09 20:44pm] | |
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Vendetta1 said: BobGeorge909 said: I disagree. Fantasy is inherent in things that aren't practical. I'm sure, from time to time, men fantasize about the 195 lb woman who bore their 2.5 children, but that fact that it's so redily available deters from the fantasy. It's hard to fantasize about what U got. The further away something is away from your hands, or the more taboo it is, is the more likely it gets fantasized about. I think what he said is totally valid. | |
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PunkMistress said: Vendetta1 said: I'm sorry but what tha fuck?
I think what he said is totally valid. | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said: I think what he said is totally valid. 
It's how a lot of men feel. I don't think it comes from a place of judging or meanness, just how they're wired. | |
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PunkMistress said: evenstar3 said:
it's why i started stripping, too. Can a bitch get a table dance?? [Edited 11/8/09 20:44pm] what the fuck 
i did actually give the first lap dance of my life on halloween!  | |
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PunkMistress said: Vendetta1 said: What he said is totally fucking stupid.
It's how a lot of men feel. I don't think it comes from a place of judging or meanness, just how they're wired.  | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said: I think what he said is totally valid. well then the truth is stupid. Fantasies aren't something most men act out on. Cuz then it's no longer a fantasy. Fantasies r strange and bizarre cuz that's the point. I understand why women get pissed/irritated at our fantasies, but they seem to miss the whole point. Final Fantasy VIII isn't called final fantasy cuz a bunch of "REAL" shit is going on. It's all fantasy. | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said:
It's how a lot of men feel. I don't think it comes from a place of judging or meanness, just how they're wired. see post 14. | |
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BobGeorge909 said: Vendetta1 said: What he said is totally fucking stupid.
well then the truth is stupid. Fantasies aren't something most men act out on. Cuz then it's no longer a fantasy. Fantasies r strange and bizarre cuz that's the point. I understand why women get pissed/irritated at our fantasies, but they seem to miss the whole point. Final Fantasy VIII isn't called final fantasy cuz a bunch of "REAL" shit is going on. It's all fantasy. so if I stop putting out, it will enrich his fantasy life about me!!!  | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said:
It's how a lot of men feel. I don't think it comes from a place of judging or meanness, just how they're wired. Yes, dear. It's just better for women not to know, so dudes are usually smart enough not to share these things. It's not that your man doesn't love you, or will ever cheat on you, but if he doesn't sometimes pretend that he's fucking Sophie B. Hawkins or Halle Berry, he will go fucking batshit crazy. There's nothing wrong with that. | |
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Now I REALLY need to get back to postsynaptic potentials and the difference between chemically gated channels and electrically gated channels. | |
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evenstar3 said: Vendetta1 said: Really?
see post 14. men don't suck. | |
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PunkMistress said: Now I REALLY need to get back to postsynaptic potentials and the difference between chemically gated channels and electrically gated channels.
I think that sentence just made my head explode! either/both [Edited 11/8/09 20:57pm] | |
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BobGeorge909 said: evenstar3 said: see post 14. men don't suck. i know. i just get annoyed at the whole 'penthouse forum letter' kind of thing funkmistress mentioned. | |
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evenstar3 said: Fauxie said: We invented lesbians. as far as i'm aware, the current popular male theory is that women only sleep with other women if a man has hurt them badly enough in the past. not that oh, maybe we just want to sleep with women.  Yes. You've been hurt in a relationship or molested so that you want the comfort of sleeping with a woman, as opposed to proper, good, enjoyable sex with a man. Either that or you do your best to get through it, to turn on a man because he said he likes it. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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BobGeorge909 said: PunkMistress said: Now I REALLY need to get back to postsynaptic potentials and the difference between chemically gated channels and electrically gated channels.
I think that sentence just made my head explode!
I totally defended you up there, going against the Code Of The Sisterhood. I think you owe me. A lezzie porn DVD will suffice. | |
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Fauxie said: evenstar3 said: as far as i'm aware, the current popular male theory is that women only sleep with other women if a man has hurt them badly enough in the past. not that oh, maybe we just want to sleep with women. Yes. You've been hurt in a relationship or molested so that you want the comfort of sleeping with a woman, as opposed to proper, good, enjoyable sex with a man. Either that or you do your best to get through it, to turn on a man because he said he likes it. I suppose this is your british[right?] sense of humo"u"r | |
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PunkMistress said: BobGeorge909 said: I think that sentence just made my head explode!
I totally defended you up there, going against the Code Of The Sisterhood. I think you owe me. A lezzie porn DVD will suffice. | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said:
I totally defended you up there, going against the Code Of The Sisterhood. I think you owe me. A lezzie porn DVD will suffice. Yes, dummy! | |
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PunkMistress said: BobGeorge909 said: I think that sentence just made my head explode!
I totally defended you up there, going against the Code Of The Sisterhood. I think you owe me. A lezzie porn DVD will suffice. U DID totally save my ass. U hit the nail on the head. I just gsave my onlt lezzie dvd to my cuzzin...damn...i gotta go tot he adult store again! | |
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Fauxie said: evenstar3 said: as far as i'm aware, the current popular male theory is that women only sleep with other women if a man has hurt them badly enough in the past. not that oh, maybe we just want to sleep with women. Yes. You've been hurt in a relationship or molested so that you want the comfort of sleeping with a woman, as opposed to proper, good, enjoyable sex with a man. Either that or you do your best to get through it, to turn on a man because he said he likes it. i honestly think most men really believe this. it drives me nuts. | |
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well...this was all fairly entertaining for a sun night | |
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ZombieKitten said: BobGeorge909 said: well then the truth is stupid. Fantasies aren't something most men act out on. Cuz then it's no longer a fantasy. Fantasies r strange and bizarre cuz that's the point. I understand why women get pissed/irritated at our fantasies, but they seem to miss the whole point. Final Fantasy VIII isn't called final fantasy cuz a bunch of "REAL" shit is going on. It's all fantasy. so if I stop putting out, it will enrich his fantasy life about me!!! No. He's already been up in your pussy, so you're not fantasy material anymore. | |
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PunkMistress said: Vendetta1 said: You were serious?
Yes, dummy! It's just the truth. It's not personal, and like I said it means nothing about how a man really feels about the woman he loves. We women just take it very personal. | |
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evenstar3 said: Fauxie said: Yes. You've been hurt in a relationship or molested so that you want the comfort of sleeping with a woman, as opposed to proper, good, enjoyable sex with a man. Either that or you do your best to get through it, to turn on a man because he said he likes it. i honestly think most men really believe this. it drives me nuts. Yep, I think so. I'd posit that out of straight men, straight women, gay men, and gay women, it's the last one that the average straight man understands the least as far as how they tick. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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PunkMistress said: Vendetta1 said: You were serious?
Yes, dummy!
I think Bob is hilarious. I have had men and women fantasize about me, even though they had already been up in my pussy. 
And i'm a big chick with 2.5 kids. | |
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PunkMistress said: ZombieKitten said: so if I stop putting out, it will enrich his fantasy life about me!!! No. He's already been up in your pussy, so you're not fantasy material anymore. I'm sure if he misses it enough it WILL happen  | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said: Yes, dummy!
I think Bob is hilarious. I have had men and women fantasize about me, even though they had already been up in my pussy.
And i'm a big chick with 2.5 kids. See, you're taking it personal. Why be jealous of a non-existent fantasy woman? She's a non-existent fantasy woman!
There's no need to get defensive about something that's natural and has nothing to do with you. ("You" being the straight woman in a relationship with a straight man who has normal fantasies) The fact that the majority of straight men tend to mostly fantasize about unattainable women they will never fuck does not mean they are horrible pigs, and doesn't mean at all that they don't still want, need and love to fuck their wives/partners. It just means they're straight men - love 'em or leave 'em. | |
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ZombieKitten said: PunkMistress said: No. He's already been up in your pussy, so you're not fantasy material anymore. I'm sure if he misses it enough it WILL happen I was just kidding with that one. 
I fantasize about my man all the damn time.  | |
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Vendetta1 said: PunkMistress said: Yes, dummy!
I think Bob is hilarious. I have had men and women fantasize about me, even though they had already been up in my pussy.
And i'm a big chick with 2.5 kids. unfortunately, bot men AND women are VERY good at lying; so determining the level of truth in that, or ANY statement that aids in the goal of sexual activity, is dripping in suspicion. | |
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