pippet said:

how wonderfully marvelous

Oddly, I made a list based on a dare from a friend. Took me about 2 weeks to remember everyone, but I do remember everyone. I remember most every situation too, how it went down, etc etc.

Total: 57, including one black girl in St. Thomas (my first, and only woman.)

I ain't ashamed. Oddly, the first six people were before I was 30. I never had a steady anyone. Once I moved to Minneapolis in 1997, then to NY, the numbers jumped. So only 6 by age 29, and 51 in the last 11 years.

vainandy said:

you are gay so that does not count

It's impolite to count.

ernestsewell said:

again 57.....not bad for gay

hopefully you will reach vaindaddy status when you are his age

johnart said:

Well the guess, estimate now that won't be rude

chocolatehandles said:

I'll just say I have a past and leave it at that. Mmmmkay?

pippet said:

classy lady

i was tempted though

ernestsewell said:

OMG ERNEST! I had a dream about you last nite!! I was me, as a woman, but yet i was a gay man, and you wanted to have sex with me cuz i was a "virgin".. So we were at some peoples house but the bathroom was very dirty and i didnt wanna go in there...so after a while you called me in there and you were looking like a lumberjack, plaid shirt, beard and all... But you had cleaned the bathroom for me and remodeled it a bit and i thought that was so sweet but when it came time to ...get down to it... I chickened out and had to leave!! WTH was THAT all about!! lol...

I have got to stop spending so much time on the org...

tinaz said:

many on here have had org dreams

veronikka said:

I hope that I will have dream about you

DanceWme said:

I might be underestimating the numbers a little bit.

zaza said:

veronikka said:

14, but I'm sure I forgot somebody.

Edit; I did, so it's 15.
[Edited 11/1/09 9:32am]

veronikka said:

in that case, more people need to stop spending so much time here on the org

Enough...

More than thirty, less than fifty - none in the last few years.

johnart said:

that poor, poor, battalion...

Imago said:

riiiiight

1, yes. One.

japanrocks said:

VainAndy and I are probably close to the same age. And it's not a contest to see who has more. I have a lot under my belt with 57, and I'm fine with that. The number will obviously go up as time goes on. I plan to hit triple digits before I'm 50 anyway, easily. I have 9 years to do that.

20... and a goes out to all of'em...

1 and i regret it! not the fact with what gender it happen to be, but for the fact of who the person was and or re acted afterwards.

baroque said:

let's just pretend it never happened!

vainandy said:

Damn...one honest guy in the whole lot of ya??? Sad...

anything over ten is nasty in my opinion...but thats just my opinion.
i'm not judging any one.

In order--

Bruce--husband (3 years of hell and then some)
Pete---fiance--together 7 years
Bernard--fiance--together 4 years
Chuck--semi-serious lover--together 2 years (recently found me on FB)
Nathanial--on and off 2 year tumultuous relationship
Cameron--fiance-together 5 years--broke up--got back together-broke up for good
Reggie--serious for about 2 months until HE found out he was gay.
Nate--serious for about 6 months and destined to end badly

Lots of fiances...my husband ruined marriage for me.

3 year celibate break

Terry--fiance--together 7 years until 2004. Single since.
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when I was single, wild, & free?--(never cheated)

one girl I refuse to name--experimental best friend--twice
Leon--old friend-once (totally regret)
Michael


At least that's all I can remember.

Oops...that's 12..nyse thinks I'm a slut.

noimageatall said:

no, not at all....it's not like you were going out looking for one night stands every weekend.

and thats not 12 lovers at 25-30yrs old...so i guess you cool.

(who ever is 25-30 and had been with more then ten...I'm not judging you.nothing wrong with that. what ever floats your boat. personaly it's just un-atractive)